Parents are annoying, verbose, and don t know how to deal with it?

Parents are too wide and too fine, often their own anxiety is a manifestation of their own anxiety, always do not worry about you, afraid that you will suffer a detour, they feel that they have no one to give guidance, along the way there are a lot of lessons and experience, to teach you is your luck, why is it annoying, I really don't know what to do. And they have free time after work (and they have time to find time when they don't have time), you are the only hope, no matter who you care, hehe. To ramble is to say it repeatedly.

Say it again, see that you are careless, just say it again, it has no effect, they can only repeat it.

As a child: After reading the above analysis, you will understand that it is impossible not to let your parents take care of it, unless they are no longer anxious about their mental health and no longer take you seriously. After all, you are young and have little knowledge and experience, which is a fact.

There are some things that need to be listened to with the advice of parents. But you can make your parents less verbose. For example:

What your parents say makes sense, you look them firmly in the eye and say, OK, that's right, I understand, I remember. If you feel that what your parents said is unreasonable, you can debate without results, you can compromise first, or you can reserve your opinion. In short, you can't be the wind in your ears, you can't be a hard top in front of you, and you can't escape.

You have to learn to be tactful. Because how well you get along with your parents determines the pattern of your relationship with other people in society later in life.

Children, the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and they want to raise themselves but do not wait. Can you understand the meaning of these two sentences?

You may be young, ignorant, it is normal to feel annoying, a friend of mine used to be like this, he even ran away from home, but his parents later died in an accident, those nagging that he used to be tired of are gone, he will be very envious to his friends and say: someone nagging someone to take care of, really happy.

Then go along with their wishes, what they teach you can often make you more cultivated.

Maybe you need to actually talk to them once and tell them what you think.

When the wind is in his ears, it's right.

First, you need to understand that their verbosity is for your own good.

Second, it is normal for them to be verbose when they are old, and how can any parent not want their children to be successful.

Thirdly, you can pretend that you didn't hear them, but don't talk back to them, or they will be very sad.

Fourth, if you do everything right, they won't be verbose.

Parents are a little wordy, older people are like this, don't they just care about their children? If what they say is right, you can listen to it, and if what they say is wrong, don't listen to it, and it's over.

Hello, because no matter how old you are and how successful you are, you are a child in the eyes of your parents.

Parents are always worried about their children, afraid that they will not remember it once they say it, so it is inevitable that they will be verbose, especially when they are old.

So you might as well think of this as a happy nag and a parent's concern.

No matter how verbose it is, it may be for your own good, just be considerate of that feeling.

Parents are also verbose for the good of their children, listen patiently.

The main reason why my parents' discipline annoys me is that I don't put myself in my parents' shoes. Just imagine, the discipline of parents is one sect, one by one, and that is not for the good of the child. As a young person, the child is generally annoyed by the nagging of his parents, and there are still some things in Shenju Mountain that obviously can't keep up with the situation, and he doesn't understand the truth of answering the wisdom, so he only teaches the child with the experience he has experienced, and the child can't adapt and be at a loss.

Therefore, to solve this kind of problem, it is necessary for both generations to take a step back sensibly, and then tolerate each other, understand each other, say good things well, and do good things well.

Parental discipline is for your own good, and if you are disgusted, you can say good reasons.

Do you also hate that your parents are always nagging you? Are you also complaining about why your parents are like the "Tang Seng" in Journey to the West? Do you also want to get rid of this "Monkey King"-style miserable life?

We can give you some methods. When you enter adolescence, you hate your parents' verbosity the most, that is, you don't pay attention to it. This attitude of yours will cause your parents to nag repeatedly.

The best way to make parents less nagging is that if the parents are right, they should clearly agree to do so, and if they are incorrect, they should clearly disagree with them, and explain the reasons, so that the parents can understand that they will not listen to the incorrect opinions no matter how many times they repeat them. For the topic of uneasy and repeated nagging of parents, you can patiently talk to your parents and express your opinions, and if you disagree for a while, you must learn to wait, but you must respect your parents in your attitude, because your parents' nagging is your love. Repeat the sermon to your parents, and as soon as they open your mouth, you immediately say that you have said it, that I have memorized it, and that they will generally stop being verbose.

Of course, it is not excluded that some parents have the habit of chattering. You're doing well, but you're still going to keep telling you. This is what you should consider:

Do your parents have other grievances against you? Is it because you don't communicate with your parents enough that you still don't feel comfortable about something? Then try to talk to both of your parents, talk about your views on some issues, and talk about your dissatisfaction with your parents' verbosity, and maybe your parents will notice their own faults.

If your parents still can't control their mouths, and the next time they nag at you, as soon as they open their mouths, you repeat all the things he is going to say next, and they will understand that you have listened to and remembered what they said last time. They will no longer be verbose. But remember:

The implementation of these methods is based on your respect for your parents, and don't use these methods as a means to retaliate against your parents, which will be counterproductive.