Psychological confusion, family conditions are not good, because the family conditions are not good,

Everyone can't become the perfect person in other people's hearts, when you have a car, they will ask you to have a luxury villa, and when you have a villa, you want more, discover the advantages of your own body, live for yourself, your wife's requirements are so high, why did she marry you at that time? A woman who loves money too much, loves so much that she doesn't love her man, what's the point, the most important thing to guide is your wife, not you, the same woman, I also love money, but if my man is in pain, I will be unhappy, both of them are unhappy, what is the use of having more money, it is nothing more than to add more material things, just buy money.

At least you have a good job. That's already good.

How is it at homeYou don't rely on your family to eat

Those who have poor conditions at home and have a thin foundation. The work is not as good as your peopleIsn't it a lot?

You're still trying to keep one or two thousand people alive. Elder brother...

At least, your job is stable, your monthly salary is not low, and since your wife is married home, you must also treat it well, and the two are together, that is, fate. Money, this kind of thing, you don't need to take it too seriously, it will only increase your troubles, just enough - "don't bring it with you when you live, don't bring it with you when you die".

The accumulation of wealth takes a certain amount of time, or you will become rich overnight, and the husband and wife should be considerate of each other and believe that you will be harmonious.

It's not like you haven't had a hard time.

Some netizens said: "In a poor family, while instilling in the child the idea that the family is very poor, while saying that the money is not bad, but when you need the money necessary for life, you say this and that." In fact, the vast majority of children living in such families know that they are thrifty, but every time they ask for money after being told like this, they still carry a sense of shame and guilt.

Many people living in poverty will have this mentality, and they will have a sense of guilt when they spend their parents' money. There is a saying that "the children of poor families are in charge of the house early", and this sentence is indeed true. How can the poor have any self-confidence?

The academic performance is not comparable, the talent has never been learned, the appearance and personality are not good, and the rare tenderness of others to themselves is already a gift, isn't it? Don't dare to cause trouble, and if you are bullied, you can only swallow the bitter fruit. Some netizens have always had an inferiority complex, and this inferiority complex has never left.

When I was a child, I didn't have anything, and when I grew up, I felt that I didn't deserve it, and when I got something a little more expensive, my first feeling was not happiness, but fear, I felt that I didn't deserve it, I twisted and pinched, and I was afraid. Some netizens said: "Since I was a child, I have been wearing clothes given by others, cheap and popular clothes, and when I grow up, no matter how much I like the clothes, as long as the price is expensive, I feel that I am not worthy, and I feel very scared."

This is probably the psychology of many people, because when they were young, their desire to write was not satisfied, so they were used to suppressing themselves, and finally felt that they were not worthy of anything. A friend of mine said this before, she said: "Because my family is poor, I am worried that I will not be able to get into college, I am worried that I will disappoint my parents, and I am so stressed that I am almost depressed."

Because his family is poor, he retreats when he meets a boy he likes who is better than his family, and he doesn't even have the courage to confess. "The poverty you have experienced, your parents have also experienced, your grievances, in the eyes of your parents are even more sad, parents for you to live a better life, pay a hundred times the effort and sweat, would rather suffer themselves, let the imitation not let their children suffer. Maybe your parents didn't bring you much wealth, but they gave you life and raised you, and this is the best gift for you.

Don't complain or envy others. Your own is the best! You have to be considerate of your parents' difficulties, she must have done her best.

You can make changes for this family and make yourself stronger, poverty is only a stage, not a state, Sun Huaxiao believes that you have the power to change all this.

If the family conditions are not good, it is even more important to change the status quo through their own efforts, and let their success bring happiness to their parents.

Confusion is temporary, but at the same time normal. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market.

Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step. The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that is beneficial to your future, and the future is in your own hands.

1.When you find that you can't compare to others in a certain area, think more about your strengths.

2.No matter how rich others are, it is only their parents' money, don't envy the rich second generation, because every one of our banknotes is our own sweat, and we should enjoy the process of labor rather than blindly focusing on the results or other people's lives.

3.Don't feel inferior just because you are a rural person, and when others laugh at you, say loudly to him She said: "Everyone's ancestors are from the countryside, don't believe your parents, go back a few generations, who is not a rural person?" ”

4.Don't think that the countryside is bad, my parents came out of the countryside, and I am proud of it because of the kindness of rural people. Simple.

Simply ......And rural mornings. Night. Field.

Air. Unique game ......All this is something that children who grew up in the city can't experience! I still remember the vines in the yard.

Kitten. Starry ......There is also the scene of climbing on the roof and being scolded by my grandmother when I was a child. In the hustle and bustle of the city and the heavily polluted environment, is all this still there?

1. Positive people see an opportunity in every adversity, while negative people see some kind of distress in every opportunity.

2. When you feel sad and painful, it's best to learn something. Learning will make you invincible forever.

3. If you really love your parents and your boyfriend, you can work hard and work hard, so that you can have the ability, economic conditions, and free time to accompany them and love them well.

4. Because there are many poor people, and the poor have no money, they will chat and complain on the Internet and kill time. Have you ever seen a company CEO or manager in charge who often chats in a QQ group when he has something to do?

5. Set yourself a five-year goal, and then break it down into one year, one year, half a year, three months, and one month. In this way, you will be able to find your purpose and direction.

6. Also, I can only give you one piece of advice, that is, there is no free lunch in this world, never take shortcuts!

When I went to school, I was begging for my parents' lives. The most powerless thing is that I can't refute it. Parents will always emphasize to their children that their hard-earned money is not easy, so that children are not allowed to spend a penny blindly, and when you spend money, you are very anxious.

As a result, when I grow up, I will slowly develop the idea that "not spending money on my parents is not filial, and not being filial is guilty". Sometimes I feel that my parents are very selfish, I can't afford to give birth to a child who goes to school, and I am called and urged to pay tuition in front of the whole class every semester, I hesitate to buy this material and dare not speak, and I am under great pressure to study, and I am told that I sit in the classroom every day to enjoy happiness and be lazy and not study hard. These feelings of children are not felt by parents and do not understand the congratulatory sales, and some children will always be accompanied by this concept of spending money is asking for life throughout their lives.

I read a quote that "children from poor families need to reduce costs as much as possible, and increase the cost of living from children as much as possible." "It's not that parents are terrible, but if you understand them, you know that they are all poor and afraid. Although the lives of poor families are full of suffocating despair, their hearts are full of hope.

Yes, I am the hope of this family. But this hope is not easy to come by, and it will require a huge price and effort. Maybe sometimes, looking at my own unsightly report card, compared to my father's desperate companionship, maybe that feeling is the real powerlessness.

But everything has survived, life will be better, and children from poor families will need to put in more effort than children from rich families. But if the effort is not matched by the gain, that feeling of powerlessness will instantly fill the heart. But don't give up, keep trying.

Because in a poor family, nothing can be completely evenly distributed. In my family, my parents can afford no more than 200 yuan a month on food, almost no entertainment, and no clothes for themselves, while I now have a lot of living expenses in college, which is enough to meet my daily needs. In this way, I just let go of my cranky thoughts and continue to do things, which is the mission of poor children, and we must do it well.

In fact, we can see a big difference, that is, if your family is wealthy, then you are very confident to a large extent, because you know that you are not short of money, no matter what the situation, you have a way out, but the children of poor families have no way out, once he does something wrong, the family will not help him, because the family does not have this economic article. So in this case, you will have a strong inferiority complex and feel that you may not be as good as others.