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After all, the child has been born, and from now on, it is not about yourself, but about the child's feelings, so you must learn to accept it.
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If you find out that he doesn't love you after giving birth, then what we should do is to take good care of your body, work hard to improve your skills, and then negotiate divorce with him when you have enough capital, and fight for the custody of the child in our own hands.
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Divorce this man, find someone who truly loves you and is willing to give everything for yourself, and treat your family well.
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How many silly girls will think when they are in love, ah, I want to have a child for him, even if he doesn't love me anymore, at least there is a child with me, and with a child, there is a bond between us, and so on. Now, I'm going to tell you, girl, don't be stupid, do you think the child will be able to tie him down?
First of all, you have to know that feelings are not something that people can control, not that he thinks he should love you, then he will definitely fall in love with you, and feelings are not reluctant, if you force him to stay, he will definitely stay by your side. Love is willful, freewheeling, and uncontrollable, if you can control it, you can take back your feelings for him, why bother now?
Secondly, even if you have children, get married, and still get divorced, it is too unreliable to want to rely on children to tie up. If you don't love, you don't love, if you tie him to yourself 24 hours a day, he still won't love you, this can't be changed.
Furthermore, have you ever wondered what kind of life you will live when you have children?
Unmarried and pregnant, single mother, will be pointed at, the people in the small town are terrible, even if you don't think about yourself, what will your parents do in the future? You're going to be poked in the back.
A joke all day long?
On the surface, it seems to be for love, but if a man doesn't want children, then you have to take responsibility. What the child brings is the cruelty of reality, it is firewood, rice, oil and salt, and you have to buy him milk powder diapers.
toys, when he grows up, he will go to kindergarten cram school.
Interest classes, the expenditure related to children is almost a bottomless pit, after all, "four-legged gold swallowing beasts."
The title is not for nothing, if you don't have enough financial means, having a child can only be a drag.
Don't give the child any value and role before he is born, the child should be an angel, a gift from God, should be born with hope and blessings, and should be loved by parents and relatives to grow up, and not like you, with a purpose to let him be born, if the man still does not love you, you will sprinkle all your resentment on the child, which is extremely unfair and irresponsible for him, the child has done something wrong, he is innocent, Even if he knew he was born because of your selfishness, he would rather he hadn't been born.
If you really want to be with him, then you have to work your own, to influence him with your kindness to him, to attract him with your own shining points, and to test him with some careful opportunities.
If there is still no effect after hard work, then stop the loss in time, after all, some people appear in your life just to miss out, and you should not let your whole life pay for a passerby. There are so many beautiful things in this world, try more, feel more, and you will find that the things you were worried about at the beginning are actually insignificant.
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Hello, happy with your question, you say that a man does not love you, is it useful for you to give him a baby?
It's basically useless.
Then again, even if this man loves you at the beginning and you give him a child, it is useless to wait until he doesn't love you.
Don't you see so many divorces?
A lot with children.
If it is proposed by the woman, it shall be proposed by the man.
It's not that I don't love it, I can't live anymore.
How can you get divorced?
Find a glasses to see clearly, don't look for the wrong person, otherwise you will end up as a single mother and just have one more child.
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Not only is it useless, but you will also harm yourself for a lifetime, you will also harm your children, you must know that in a family without love, children will not be happy, so you have to think clearly.
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If a man doesn't love you, it's useless for you to give him a baby.
Affection is mutual attraction to each other.
If there are more conditions attached, then the feelings are no longer pure.
If he doesn't love you.
You bore him another child.
In the end, it is only you and the child who can be hurt.
No one is going to be happy.
Why should it be?
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If you're sure that the guy doesn't love you, there's no need for you to have another baby for him. If you have a child now and find out that this man doesn't love you anymore, there is no way to do it, if you tie up this man for the sake of a child, and the child is older, this man will also betray you.
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A man doesn't love you, you give him a child, you can still get some love from him, not to say that he has no feelings for you, so people get along, there will still be various emotions, including love.
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If a man doesn't love you, is it useful for you to give him a baby? In fact, I personally think that if a man doesn't love you, no matter how many children you have with him, it is useless. Because he doesn't love you at all, I think it's better to find one.
Love yourself and be with the people you love, so that the days will live. Happiness and contentment.
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Of course it's useless, if a man really doesn't love you, even if you get married and have children, he will leave you sooner or later.
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Hello, if a man doesn't love you, it may not be useful for you to have a child for him, and a man may not love your child.
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If a man doesn't love you, it makes no sense for you to give him more children, because you can't get his sincerity.
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It is useless, the child cannot be exchanged for emotional improvement, and the child should not be used to get someone's feelings.
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It doesn't work, you just gave birth to a child to tie him up, and it doesn't make him feel affection for you.
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If you want to give birth to a child in exchange for the other person's love for yourself, you are overestimating human nature. Whether you like a person or not, in fact, has been decided from the first glance, and it is impossible for him to change over time or under any conditions.
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You said that a man doesn't love you anymore, do you still give him a baby? I don't think you're stupid? The man really doesn't love you anymore, you give him a child, if you divorce in the future, what will happen to this child?
Aren't you looking for trouble? I think you should be a little clearer.
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Love is through ups and downs, love and dislove are in the bones, a man does not love you, even if he gives birth to a child, his view of love has not changed, what has changed is the dedication and debt to you. Find someone who loves you, it's much better to love someone you love.
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I just want to ask you, do you love him? Loving someone is not as simple as simply liking, loving someone is about making the person you love happy. Now you have to do it, right?
However, since he doesn't love you, but wants you to conceive his child, this kind of man is not desirable, first of all, his morality is not very good, you have to learn to protect yourself, you have to make the person who hurt you responsible for you, I wish you happiness.
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You can choose to leave and give birth to the child, but this is a fool's approach, you have to talk to him, he doesn't love you anymore, and you can't tie him with the child You have to let him accompany you to the hospital, and then break up at the hospital gate and never meet, he's sorry for you, silly girl.
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Let him do it with you, or sue him.
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If a man doesn't love you, it's useless for you to give him a baby. So don't expect you to fall in love with you when he gives birth to him, it's that you think too much.
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It's useless to tell you very clearly, since this man doesn't love you, then what you do is in vain, there is no point, clean yourself.
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Summary. If a man does not love a woman, having a child can improve the man's perception, the mother is more expensive than the child, the man will love the child, and naturally he will love the woman.
If a man doesn't love a woman, will he love her if he has a baby.
If a man does not love a woman, having a child can improve the man's perception, the mother is more expensive than the child, the man will love the child, and naturally he will love the woman.
I thought it was my husband's child who knew that it was a lover who was born to do a paternity test, but we have completely broken up, and my husband's family doesn't know what to do when they are their own.
Hello! In this case, your husband's family does not know, and you have completely broken up with your lover, even if you already know the truth, this child still has to be regarded as your and your husband's child, this is the crystallization of the two of you, you don't have to blame yourself and be afraid, because in reality your child is a part of your husband's family, which is the truth.
This is a girl's sixth sense, very accurate.
Because when giving birth, if a man loves you, he will always be by your side, and if he doesn't love you, he may not even enter the delivery room.
You can see if this man will take the initiative to contact himself, if a man still loves a woman, he will definitely take the initiative to contact a woman, because the man who loves you will also be afraid that his relationship with you is getting weaker and weaker, in fact, more contact, more chat can also enhance the relationship between two people, so a man who loves you will take the initiative to find you, only a man who no longer loves you, a man who doesn't feel for you will always wait for you to contact him, a man who doesn't love you, will feel that it doesn't matter, wait for you to contact his man, I don't care about you, I don't love you.
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