Whether a woman is happy or not, whether she marries the right person or has a child knows it, right

However, many women feel that their marital unhappiness begins after giving birth to children, but this unhappiness is not caused by having children, but because women do not pay attention to men's problems at the beginning, and men do not take the initiative to correct their own problems, so it leads to marital conflicts. The three views in marriage are very important, if the consciousness of each other is not correct, then the marriage must be unhappy.

Why do many women realize the existence of marital problems after giving birth, in fact, some problems exist from the beginning, but they are more obvious after giving birth. After giving birth, women will find that there are many things in the family that need to be borne by themselves, such as housework, before there is no child, the woman has some time to tidy up the housework, but after giving birth, the woman has to take care of the child, if she still needs to bear all the housework, then the family conflict will arise. At this time, the woman may complain about the man's laziness, and will also complain about the man's inconsiderateness, if the man can not understand that housework is a family's business, then it is difficult to be happy in this family.

After a woman gives birth to a child, if your husband can understand your hardships, can take care of the housework with you, or even take care of everything by himself, such a family will only get better and better.

It is really not easy for a woman to have a child, not to mention how much risk a woman has to take. Secondly, it is not easy for a woman to take care of her children in ten months of pregnancy. Giving birth to a child is not a woman's business alone, but it is each other's responsibility, if a man ignores the woman after giving birth, then the daily life of marriage is destined to be unhappy.

After giving birth, a woman actually knows whether she is married to the right person. If your husband can understand that it is not easy for you to get pregnant for 10 months, and can understand the hardships of taking care of your children, then your marriage is happy. This kind of man is responsible, he is intimate with you, even if you are a little tired, then you feel that life is worth it.

If a woman feels particularly relaxed and happy after giving birth, it must be because you have married a good husband and you have borne a lot for him.

After a woman has given birth, a man needs to grow up quickly. If a man does not know how to be considerate of his wife and take care of his children after becoming a father, it will only make women feel tragic in marriage and feel that they have married the wrong person. We often say that women are not happy to have a child, and the happiness before giving birth will be changed, only after giving birth to a child, you see a man's sense of responsibility, that is the real happiness.

Yes, you can see a lot of things when you have a child, you have no income during the confinement period, and you need to be served by others, you can see the face of your mother-in-law's family.

Yes, if a woman is particularly happy, her husband will take the initiative to take care of the housework after getting married, and after giving birth to a child, her mother-in-law will also take the initiative to take care of the child, which is a common child with each other, and the man will also take the initiative to take responsibility and be very intimate to his wife.

Yes, if you find a husband who loves you very much, then after giving birth, the other party will take care of you meticulously, and you will not be particularly tired.

In fact, there is no difference between a woman who does not have children and a woman who gives birth, but if you look at this problem from the level of human history, then the result is undoubtedly tragic, and this woman's future is absolutely bleak.

Avoiding the historical level, they still need to have children, the elderly themselves like the frolic of children, and feel that the family is the most beautiful and happiest family, so when a woman does not have children, then her life is imperfect and unhappy.

But in the eyes of some alternative young people, the answer may be different, such as the more and more Dink families now, why do they think that they are happy to have children without ruining the town? First of all, from an economic point of view, the cost of a child is really large, at least if this money is reserved for his own life, then it may be chic and free for the time being, and there is quality. From the perspective of life, there are too many worries about a child, and because young people are now being held up, and their psychological age is relatively young, it is really difficult to accept the pressure of life with children for a while, so for them children are a burden and not happiness.

Children are not an absolute factor in happiness. Someone likes children, but she feels that without children, the joy of raising children is lacking in life, so she is not happy. Some people don't like children, she feels that children make her life and life complicated and have no self, so the happiness of this stool scum can only be different from person to person.

Getting married and having children is the trajectory of most people's lives. But there are also those who choose not to have children after getting married. ......Compared with getting married and having children, not having children after marriage will have a certain impact on the relationship between husband and wife.

Specifically, it includes three aspects: not having children after marriage will make the relationship between the two parties become colder, not having children after marriage will shake the foundation of love between two people, and not having children after marriage will have a very great impact on the later life of two people.

1. Not having children after marriage will make the relationship between the two parties become colder.

For two people who are married, although the relationship between the two people can be maintained through marriage, the strength of this relationship will change depending on the specific situation. ......If two people have children after marriage, the relationship between the two people can be deeper with the children as a bond. And if two people don't have children after marriage, their feelings for each other may become colder and colder over time.

2. Not having children after marriage will shake the foundation of love between two people.

For two people after marriage, the basis of their feelings for each other is love. Only when love is happy and sweet, can the relationship between two people continue to develop deeply. ......But if two people don't have children after getting married, the foundation of love may be shaken by fierce balance, and two people may have conflicts in life, which is very unfavorable to marriage.

The state knows the difference. 3. Not having children after marriage will have a great impact on the later life of two people.

The biggest influencing factor for couples to not have children after marriage is the pension for two people in their later years. ......For couples with children, they can be supported by their children when they are old, and their later life is more secure. For couples who do not want children after marriage, they will face the situation of no one to support them in their old age, which is very unfavorable to the life of two people in their later years, and it will also have a great impact on the relationship between two people.

Which is happier for women who have children or those who don't? In general, people think that women who have children are happier, because families with children will be happier and their lives will be more colorful. There will be more hope for the future, after all, having children means that there is hope in a sense.

And the child is so cute and fun, the mother and the child must have a high happiness index together.

There have been surveys abroad that show that among the women in the various groups of people surveyed, those who do not have children have the highest happiness index. Such a survey result is very envious, and many people say it is unbelievable. But if you think about it, there are rules to follow.

And the reasons given seem to make sense. After all, today's children are quirky, and it does take more time and energy to look like it, and it is inevitable that they will be tired and tired. Tutoring children to study will make women exhausted Children may indeed be cute when they are young, but many women have said that since their children go to school and need to be tutored by their brothers, they have never felt cute anymore.

Every time I tutor my child with homework, I have to be angry several times. It's still been silently chanting "biological, biological" so that there is no big problem. It is precisely because of the existence of the global problem of tutoring children to write homework that many mothers sigh that it is better to have children than not to have children.

While the body is tired and the heart is tired, the child still doesn't buy it. The parent-child relationship is still in jeopardy. Raising a child and losing a lot of personal space From the moment you decide to have a child, it can be said that women are destined to lose more personal time and space, because after the child is born, it needs to be raised and educated, and the child still needs to be accompanied.

And these take time and effort. It is precisely because of the birth of a child that women lose most of their personal space, which leads to a decline in the happiness index of many girls. And these are the things that women who don't have children don't go through, so they feel happier.

Children's education may intensify family conflictsMany women have encountered similar problems, when they are educating their children, their husbands or in-laws are always on the side to protect their shortcomings, and all kinds of contradiction. Sometimes when it comes to educating children, families often disagree. If the mothers are too persistent, family conflicts may occur frequently.

Just imagine, if this is the case, because of the birth of a child, family conflicts always erupt every once in a while, so what happiness is there for women. It's no wonder that recent surveys have shown that women who don't have children are happier in a sense. At least there will be no conflicts in the family over the matter of the child because of the birth of the child.

Of course, it is not denied here that if you don't have children, you may also have the distress of not having children, similar to: being born every day and so on. It can only be said that it depends on people's own choices.