Does your mother in law have you as a relative, and what period of performance can you see the most?

Whether your mother-in-law has become a relative or not can be seen from many aspects of daily life, such as mother-in-law usually takes care of you wholeheartedly and helps you take care of your children wholeheartedly.

I think it's during the confinement period of childbirth, which is very important for women, and if they are not well cared for, then it will have a serious impact on the body. As a mother-in-law, she must know the importance of confinement, if she ignores you during this period, then she does not treat you as a relative.

As long as you mention things related to money, it is easiest to see whether your mother-in-law treats you as a relative.

This question is divided into two aspects, one is the one who lives with his parents-in-law, and the other is that he lives separately from his husband, and these two situations are different.

If you live with your parents-in-law and usually cook for your parents-in-law, then you can observe whether the meals your mother-in-law usually cooks are all what her son likes to eat, and there are basically few you like to eat.

If that's the case, then congratulations, you have been expelled from your own side by your mother-in-law, and you are just a daughter-in-law who has passed on the family lineage.

Of course, if most of the dishes that your mother-in-law usually cooks are the dishes you like to eat, then thank your mother-in-law, it is not easy to meet such a good mother-in-law.

If the two of you don't live with your mother-in-law, there are many ways to see if your mother-in-law treats you as her own.

If when you go home, your husband is fighting with your mother-in-law, and as soon as you hear the movement of your return, the two of you don't speak, then congratulations, you are also attributed by your mother-in-law to outsiders.

If your mother-in-law asks your son for money without your consent, without consulting you, and even more excessively, without telling you, then congratulations, you are also excluded by your own mother-in-law.

If your mother-in-law didn't hide it from you, on the contrary, she likes to discuss everything with you, then it is quite lucky to meet such a mother-in-law, remember to treat your mother-in-law well.

Since ancient times, the relationship between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law has been a big problem for getting along, but from the perspective of us juniors, as long as we do our best, we will generally not be too difficult by our mother-in-law.

A lot of the details of life can be seen.

But if it is really described in detail, it is difficult to put it into words.

1. When you have an awkward relationship with your husband, you can see how your in-laws behave.

2. If there is something on the side of your in-laws, if you are treated as an outsider, they will not tell others about it.

For example, buying a house and buying a car, have you discussed these big things?

Look at your mother-in-law's eyes on you, only you understand this;

This, even Cao Xuejin and Shakespeare ......Nor can it be simulated as described.

Whether it really cares about you or not, this can be felt.

The attitude of some small things can be felt.

Is it good for you, take care of you not.

Did you take your bowl and chopsticks when eating.

1. When you get married, your mother-in-law is willing to respect your opinion for marriage.

Most women attach great importance to marriage and want to have the most romantic and solemn wedding. For example, buying a house, how to decorate, what kind of wedding photos to take, what kind of furniture and gifts to buy, what kind of wedding ceremony to hold, what kind of wedding dress to wear, etc., after all, every woman longs in her heart to be a proud princess, and she only marries once in her life, of course, she can't be so-so.

If your mother-in-law can talk to you carefully about these things before you get married, and support them strongly, then this mother-in-law must treat you well with sincerity. And some more frugal mothers-in-law will hope that the wedding will be passable, there is no need to do anything, of course, you can't say that such a mother-in-law must be bad, but she is from the perspective of the family to consider your wedding, not from your point of view. The wise mother-in-law tries her best to respect her daughter-in-law's ideas, as long as it is not too demanding, she will generally agree, and do her best to let you have a good memory.

2. Mother-in-law can take the initiative to help you through pregnancy and confinement.

A woman's pregnancy and childbirth is a very troublesome and painful thing. Ten months of pregnancy, the torment of childbirth and the discomfort of confinement can be said to be the most difficult period of every woman's life. If the mother-in-law can take the initiative to help her daughter-in-law at this stage and take care of and accompany her daughter-in-law through this special stage, then there is no doubt that she must be a good mother-in-law who is conscientious and responsible.

With such a mother-in-law, as a daughter-in-law, Peng Min must learn to be grateful and thank her mother-in-law, even if some things her mother-in-law may not be in place, she cannot be blamed for this. 3. Mother-in-law can take the initiative to help you watch the child and respect some of your ideas about watching the child.

The parenting period is a stage where many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts are easy to occur. First of all, because of the difference in age, the generation gap between the two generations is inevitable, and the daughter-in-law, as a novice mother, has many problems that are more idealistic, so it is inevitable that there is some incomprehension and complaining about how the mother-in-law looks at the child. As a mother-in-law, I feel that after all, the experience of the older generation is there, and after raising so many children, I think that I have worked hard to bring up children for my daughter-in-law, and I have to be talked about, and I will inevitably feel unbearable.

An enlightened mother-in-law will properly listen to her daughter-in-law's different ideas about parenting, but as a daughter-in-law, it is not easy for her mother-in-law to take the initiative to help share the heavy responsibilities, so she can't blame her mother-in-law because of some different concepts, so proper communication is very important.

The best mother-in-law I have ever seen is my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law is a kind, virtuous and virtuous, gentle, civilized and polite, generous family, my mother-in-law has four sons, four daughters-in-law, she treats each daughter-in-law the same, since I married into the Li family, I have never heard her scold her daughters-in-law, she speaks softly, understands things, is tolerant and tolerant, trusts us, never goes outside to speak ill of the daughters-in-law at home, she treats her daughters-in-law like daughters.

It is a village, the home is particularly clean, tidy and orderly rooms, the way of harmonious coexistence, she takes care of and loves me meticulously, but also because of my youngest daughter-in-law, every time I go to the street with her to buy things, side by side hand together, people who know her are very envious, people who don't know me still think that my mother, my mother-in-law is very blessed, blessed, housekeeping, Wangfu Yizi people, I also think I am blessed, can enter this family, I feel the most this family is too good, especially the old man to me, So I haven't suffered grievances and tears, I'm so lucky and very happy, and this is also a blessing ......

My mother-in-law and my mother have gone to see God, so every year on Mother's Day, when I think of my two mothers, my heart hurts, it hurts, I can't forget, I feel bad, if my mother-in-law has an afterlife, I will still be your daughter-in-law, mother-in-law and mother rest in peace....

If you just drink her milk, or accidentally, she scolds, then she must treat you as an outsider, if you don't treat you as an outsider, then this milk is the milk she took the initiative to give you to drink.

This shows that your mother-in-law does treat you as an outsider. It can also be seen through some small things in life, such as always not telling his son and not telling you when he encounters something. I also went out with my family to do something, but I didn't tell you.

Mother-in-law scolds you, you don't need to be angry. If you want to drink, you can buy it yourself.

When a husband and wife have a conflict, they will not favor their son.

When many mothers-in-law quarrel with their daughter-in-law and son, they often indiscriminately only stand on their son's side and scold their daughter-in-law together. You must know that the mother-in-law's behavior is very hurtful to the daughter-in-law's experience, after all, if the husband and wife are not quarreling because of something big, but the mother-in-law's behavior of helping her son will cause the conflict between the husband and wife to become bigger and affect the relationship between the husband and wife.

And a good mother-in-law is able to think from the perspective of her daughter-in-law, after all, she has also been someone else's daughter-in-law, and she knows how difficult it is to be a daughter-in-law. Because of a man, he left his original familiar family and came to a strange family, if the mother-in-law is not able to treat her daughter-in-law well, then it is a very wronged thing for the daughter-in-law.

A good mother-in-law can help her daughter-in-law when the husband and wife have conflicts and quarrels, because she knows that her daughter-in-law is alone in this family, and if she doesn't even help her and doesn't support her, this family will not be better.

Don't meddle in educating your children.

A large part of the reason why the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law does not get along well always has conflicts is due to the aspect of educating children. After all, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are two generations, and they have their own ideas about educating their children. And if the mother-in-law blindly sells the old and thinks that she has rich experience, and always has to interfere with the daughter-in-law's education of the children, it is easy for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to increase the conflict.

Some mothers-in-law always don't get along well with their daughters-in-law, often because they are too strong, they always feel that they are old, and they always have to direct their daughters-in-law to do things because they have rich experience. You must know that in the current era, the daughter-in-law is no longer bullied by her mother-in-law, if the daughter-in-law feels that her mother-in-law's approach is wrong, she will refute it, so that the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will become more and more stiff.

My mother-in-law? Make me what I love to eat.,Often give me twist braids.。。 Treat me like a girl.