What should I do if my wife is pregnant and my mother treats my wife badly?

First of all, it is very hard for a pregnant woman to get pregnant, you have to be considerate of your daughter-in-law first, and then you have to communicate with your mother, even if it is for you, you have to be kind to your wife.

You should communicate with your mother and let your mother be kind to your wife, so that your family will be more harmonious.

This situation is very common in this society, you don't panic, it is recommended that you still do not live with your mother, the longer the time will inevitably have conflicts, in that case you will be caught in the middle of the dilemma. The old man is a rural person, living in the city has a lot of unaccustomed habits, it is recommended to go back to the countryside, if the body is healthy, just live alone, no one goes there, you can give more or less money in private, you can enjoy your filial piety, so that the old man has less troubles.

You are embarrassed to say that you have not been at home for many years, let your wife face it, my family is like this, I can take care of myself, I don't need to take care of it, but if I don't like it, I don't like it, don't talk about filial piety, you are so filial, resign to take care of it. Or change to a job that you go home every day and take care of yourself. The child is not taken care of by the wife?

It's not enough to take care of a small one, but also to help you take care of an old one? Who doesn't have a mother, did you take care of your mother-in-law? I didn't even take care of my wife and children, so I was qualified to talk about others?

I think it's important to respect each other in your attitude. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be based on mutual equality and mutual respect. Your wife must first respect your mother, be warm and polite to the elderly, speak kindly, and when you have an opinion on your mother, you must talk to your mother calmly, exchange opinions, and not talk about your mother behind your back.

Your mother should also respect your wife, support your wife's work, and when she has an opinion about your wife, she should explain it clearly in person, convince people with reason, and move people with emotion. Trust each other, not be suspicious. Your mother had better treat her daughter-in-law and daughter equally, not one thick and one thin, and the daughter-in-law should treat her mother-in-law and biological parents with the same affinity and filial piety.

When you go to the court to sentence, the child will generally be awarded to the woman, and you have domestic violence. And when your child grows up, he will become you again, and he will have a family environment exactly like yours.

Such a mean woman is generally more fierce at home, and if she can't accept it, she will be relieved as soon as possible.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be handled well, if you don't handle it well, it will really be a big uncomfortable thing in the marriage.

First of all, you don't have the ability to handle things well, you can't do it yourself, how can your wife listen to you.

Never mind, really.

That's what is usually said.

So just a little explanation.

Give two slaps and then divorce.

In fact, there will always be a lot of things that the two generations look at very differently, when they marry their daughter-in-law, they should know the other party's character and virtue, between people, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if the daughter-in-law does not respect her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law naturally will not be good to her daughter-in-law, that is, there is something wrong with her mother-in-law, but the daughter-in-law is a junior and the mother-in-law is an elder, so we must respect our mother-in-law here.

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To put it mildly, your wife is not good to your mother, imagine how it will be like for your son to treat you badly in the future. You'll know what to do. Mother-in-law is an elder, and if the elder doesn't do anything out of the ordinary, she should be respectful and loved.

Good or bad, what are your criteria?

Also, when you think about things, you must empathize. For example, by your standards, are you good to your mother-in-law?

If there are no problems with the above, you also need to consider the person's personality. Some are attentive, some are careless. If your wife is doing the same to her own mother, it's a matter of her character, not her character.

So you have to think about it.

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That's because your mom didn't treat her well!

I used to feel the same way you did. In fact, your feeling is common to many of us women in the early days of marriage. Think about it, it is also understandable, we have lived with our own mother for decades, and suddenly we have to accept a woman who is not our own mother, and this woman is the mother of her husband, at first it is really unaccustomed, the reason why we look at our mother-in-law is not pleasing to the eye, in fact, it is our own psychology that is causing trouble, and we know that many misunderstandings are caused by our own lack of tolerance.

I now have a good relationship with my mother-in-law, of course, it was not good before, in the past few years of marriage, because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and my husband have had conflicts, over time, I found that if we can give a little tolerance and love to our parents, my mother-in-law will be very happy, we will be happy, my husband will be happy, and the family relationship will become very harmonious. Each of us will grow old, and there will be a time when we will be elders, and we will be filial to our in-laws now, and our children will be filial to us in the same way in the future. On the contrary, if we pick our noses and eyes at our in-laws now, and speak ill of each other, we will have the same fate when we are old.

I am very glad that my relationship with my mother-in-law is still okay, and our family has four generations in the same house, my mother-in-law's mother-in-law is also in our family, our relationship is very harmonious, my mother-in-law is also very good to her mother-in-law, three meals a day are sent off as if in hand. It is precisely because of the harmonious family relationship, so my husband and I are very relaxed at work, I also hope that you can face your mother-in-law with a tolerant heart, care more about her, be considerate of her, try to accept her, when you have a harmonious relationship, you will find that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually very simple, and you are also educating your children to be filial.

May you give birth to a healthy baby, and I wish you a happy family!