Is it good for some families to be rich and raise their children even though they are not well off?

It depends. If abundance is embodied in some meaningless pastime, then it is not necessary. But if you spend money on children's education, such as aesthetic training, hobby training, and increasing knowledge, then it is worth the extra money.

I think this is very bad, because it will develop a kind of vanity in the child, and it will be difficult to change it when he grows up.

Some families are not rich but want to raise their children richly, which is actually very good, because it can give children good conditions and make them very confident.

The poor rich are relative. In fact, in terms of money, most of it is at the average level, so more can be done. Raising children is not only financially satisfying, but more importantly spiritual.

If you want your child to think independently, you need to pay more attention to education instead of giving a lot of money. The concept that the children of the rich are the children of the rich, and the children of the poor are the children of the poor is not to distinguish between the concepts of the rich and the poor.

First of all, from the ideological point of view, the idea of the thinking of a wealthy child is different from the concept of poverty upbringing. (The following poor children take my place, and the rich take his place.) We're thinking about how we can keep ourselves from going hungry and make our lives better later than we have now.

Moreover, he is mainly thinking about how to live a higher quality of life. He doesn't think too much about life. Second, there are also differences in personality.

Sometimes I feel that I am very low, not suitable for others, always afraid, always feel that I am not as good as others, his personality is more generous, more far-sighted than me. He has a lot more contacts than I do, so I have to make money to experience the things I encounter and the things I have personally experienced. Due to the differences in growth environment and life experience, children from wealthy families tend to choose by themselves and pursue differences, while children from poor families are accustomed to involuntary choices and find common ground.

For children from wealthy families, choice is an important part of social life.

When you think about the environment in which these children grow up in the early years, it is not difficult to find that in the early stages of life, they have become accustomed to making choices for themselves. Early childhood can choose what to eat and what to do. When you grow up, you should choose a sport to participate in or a musical instrument to play.

At the university level, you should choose the major that best matches your interests and talents. They are surrounded by choices from an early age, enjoy their own choices, and want to show their unique personality through unique choices. Once again, it is considered that children who have been in a better family have been in a situation than those of poor families.

Fewer social resources means fewer choices on the path of life. Food, toys, jobs, and development opportunities are all limited by poverty.

For them, the choice is not important and not valued. In order to fit into a social group, they expect to be recognized by the majority of the society through choices that are similar to those of others. Children from poor families have a sharper ability to recognize feelings than children from wealthy families.

For children from poor families, they are more dependent on their relative social environment and surrounding groups, and are more constrained by external factors. Reading other people's feelings wrongly can cause a lot of damage, such as saying the wrong thing in front of a leader or having a conflict with a colleague, so be wary of other people's feelings. Children of rich families do not worry about this kind of thing, do not realize the feelings of others, and do not need to pay a huge price, so they are emotionally weaker than children from poor families.

They may be different when they grow up. Children raised by the rich have a wider pattern and vision than children raised by the poor, and children raised by the rich will be more calm and confident. Poor-raised children may be timid in doing things, and their personalities will be more cowardly, but they will be more independent.

In ordinary times, when they are rich and raise children, they will be very confident and have great potential when they grow up, while poor children will make children very inferior and cowardly.

These two kinds of children will definitely be different when they grow up, after all, rich children have a broader vision, and they have a lot of knowledge, and their personalities must be particularly sunny and positive, while poor children are generally very inferior and stubborn.

The love that parents can give their children and the cultivation of words and deeds have little to do with wealth and poverty.

If the rich can give the children better nutrients at the spiritual level, and if the poor can let the children learn to use money, it will be fine; When looking at money in perspective, the two are not incompatible.

The question of whether children should be supported by poverty and wealth has been debated endlessly.

I heard before: "Sons should be poor, daughters should be rich".

Daughters, parents don't have great hopes, and it is happiness to be able to live a life gentle and elegant, so it is enough to be able to pick a suitable partner among many men with a sharp eye.

The vision is accumulated over the years, and the rich daughter is insightful, and will not believe in rhetoric, let alone be blinded by the beauty of the moment.

It sounds reasonable, but there is a limit to everything, and due to the deviation of everyone's understanding, many parents only bury their friends and leave the words poor and rich on the surface.

Parents who think they should be poor regard their children's needs as a flood of predators and avoid them.

Even if the child's needs are reasonable, they cling to their opinions and ignore them.

Parents who think that they should be rich satisfy their children excessively materially, so that they form arrogant, arrogant, and arrogant characters.

Excessive materialism, too much selectivity of children, he will not be able to taste the happiness of getting, so he will become numb and ruined, and most of these children have a very low happiness index.

Personally, I think that both boys and girls should pay attention to inner cultivation and insight, rather than dwelling on the issue of providing for the rich and the poor.

Wealth is not about giving a lot of money, but about making him feel very happy.

Whether your children are poor or rich is up to you.

This is a subjective question, and different people will have different opinions. Here are the two different perspectives:

1.It's better to be poor. Poverty can make children know how to save and cherish more, not rely too much on material enjoyment, and it is easier to form an independent character.

In the process of raising a poor child, children will also learn how to face setbacks and difficulties, which is very helpful for their growth and future development.

2.It's better to be rich. Enrichment can provide children with better education and living conditions, and make it easier for them to be exposed to a wide variety of knowledge and experience.

In the process of selling and raising in Fuye, children can also enjoy more opportunities and resources, and it is easier to realize their dreams and goals. In addition, well-to-do children are also more likely to gain social recognition and respect.

In general, both poor and rich have their advantages and disadvantages. The most important thing is that parents should make the most suitable choice according to the actual situation of their own amusement and the needs of their children.

Different parents have different parenting philosophies. There are many parents who agree with the idea of "raising children in poverty and raising daughters in the rich", and there are boys in the family, and they live a very "hard" life when they are young. This kind of parents feel that letting their children "bear hardships and stand hard work" can train their children and make them better in the future.

However, there are also many parents who have suffered a lot from "raising their children poorly".

Many parents have to take their children out on holidays and holidays, which is a very good way to teach children, which can relax their children's mind and body and arrange their time reasonably. In addition, traveling can bring about the positive influence of children at the spiritual essence and ideological level, which can improve children's basic knowledge, broaden children's knowledge, and improve children's situation.

It can shape children's social skills, overall planning skills, and self-control skills. At present, many parents do not lack the financial strength to go out, but they do not have the time, in fact, the number of trips is not so much, the duration is not too long, and do not pursue the perfect destination, even in their own city, it is much better to take their children out for a walk than to stay at home.

Many parents who "raise poor" children deduct their children from their daily diet, which is not right. When the child is growing tall, he can't settle for tens of millions of food. Otherwise, it will affect the child's bone development, and it is easy to affect the child's brain development.

Regardless of whether it is "poor" or not, children cannot be "aggrieved" in terms of diet. Always keep your child's nutrition matched, three meals a day can not be missing, you can't eat early or late, you must fully match. Snack less and don't overeat.

As mentioned above, it is difficult for children in social life not to compare themselves with the clothes and pants of their classmates, which can easily cause children to be unconfident. Therefore, even the "poor" cannot be ambiguous in dressing. It's not that you have to buy beautiful clothes and pants for your child and wear luxury brands, but you need to pay attention to making your child's dressing environment neat and generous, and overall make people feel neat and tidy.

Finally, whether the parents are "poor" or "rich", they should also pay attention to the characteristics of the child's physical and mental health growth and development, and the regularity of the child's development, so that the child can be happy and grow up healthily.

In terms of children's education, life, and health, parents must not be poor, but must be rich, so that children will be more promising.

First of all, in terms of study, you must raise your children in terms of travel, so that your children will be more promising.

Children should be given what they can, mainly because children now often have higher requirements for the quality of life, so in general, it is best to choose wealth, which can also make children's lives better.

I think it is still necessary to raise children scientifically, after all, now that the economic conditions are good, it is also very bad for children if they are poor, and if they are rich, they will also develop bad habits for children.