Why didn t the flamboyant end well?

Don't be too pedantic. In the face of a complex human society, if you can't understand the world and the rules of interpersonal communication, you will not only be easy to make yourself suffer, but also offend others.

In real life, some people are just a little "lacking in heart", their minds are not mature enough, they are too flamboyant, they are arrogant, they are always smart, and in the end, they often shoot themselves in the foot. There are also some people who speak out of proportion, speak without restraint, and finally offend people without knowing it.

A really smart person in life has a very lively heart. They are all masters of interpersonal communication, and the road will get wider and wider. And those who lack hearts and eyes are always unable to mix, and the road is getting narrower and narrower.

So, what are the manifestations of people who lack heart? Generally speaking, people who "lack heart" often have these 3 characteristics, and they hope that you are not among them.

Being a man does not have his own principles and bottom line.

Be flexible, not too shrewd and calculating, but also must have your own principles and bottom line.

Once someone touches their bottom line, they must dare to fight back. In this way, it not only protects their own interests, but also shows their attitude, so that they can make their life path easier.

People who lack heart and eyes often have the characteristics of being too weak, they don't know how to stick to their principles and bottom line, and finally let themselves become a soft persimmon that can be slaughtered by others.

People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.

In daily life, he is too kind, but he is always bullied. To be a man, you must understand that I don't cause trouble, but it doesn't mean that I will be afraid of things, and I must have my own principles as a man.

Too flamboyant, love to show himself.

Since ancient times, the higher a person's status, the more low-key he is in the world, and the more he must know how to hide.

is overly publicized, but it is annoying, low-key, and praised. Being too flamboyant, too high-profile, and no one in his eyes is a manifestation of a person's "lack of heart".

The gun shoots the first bird", "The wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it."

Don't be ostentatious in life and work, arrogance will not end well. No matter what position you are in, don't be too ostentatious, too shy. Otherwise, you'll get yourself in trouble.

Be a low-key person, no loss or loss. Don't lack your heart, you are arrogant, you don't know how to restrain your actions, and you will eventually be disliked by others. Talk and do things, talk about proportion. Speak in moderation, don't do things, and be wise and foolish, is what you should do.

I don't have any sense of proportion, and I can't control my mouth.

Being honest is indeed a necessary criterion for interpersonal communication, but that doesn't mean we can say everything. Bad words hurt people in June, and people who lack heart and eyes often don't realize the sense of proportion in their speech, and often hurt others unconsciously.

Don't speak too directly, saying anything is not honest, but lacking heart. People who lack heart and eyes usually don't know how to speak with a sense of proportion, and they don't think about speaking skills, and often offend people because of their words.

Before opening his mouth, he goes through what he wants to say in his mind to see what he can say and what he can't say. Keep your mouth shut, and don't say anything that "lacks eyes".

Because the sharpness will arouse the jealousy of others. is too public, whether it is talented or showing off wealth, it will be criticized by some people. Therefore, people should keep a low profile and learn to be humble.

As the saying goes, you must be humble in a low-key way. Prudence is our fine tradition of the Chinese nation, and those who are too ostentatious are prone to attract wind and make enemies. Let others know about your strengths and weaknesses.

The consequences of being too ostentatious are as follows.

First, if you are too public, it is easy to attract the anger of others, especially when you speak, you can easily make others disgusted and angry.

Second, if you are too public, you will feel very unsociable, and you will be unstable, and you will always love to show off yourself in front of others and belittle others.

Third, people who are too ostentatious in doing things are not psychologically mature enough, and it is easy to make mistakes when doing things.

Fourth, hail noisy people who do things too flamboyantly can easily expose their own shortcomings, let others take advantage of them, and eventually lead to failure.

In short, if a person wants to become a big man, he must be calm, learn to be low-key, and do things in a high-profile manner.