What does it feel like to like someone for more than ten years?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-17
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Like a fish drinking water, it knows its own warmth and coldness. Among them, all kinds of sad tastes are really only known to themselves.

    When you choose to silently like, silently adhere to the moment, you have chosen a road that is not easy to take, on this road, we may sometimes feel very sweet, very happy, more often it is actually a kind of loneliness and sadness, sometimes it is difficult to give up the thoughts, can not be said, obviously in front of your eyes, obviously within reach, but can only smile and wave goodbye.

    Even if you know that the moment you turn around, your eyes will be red, you have to leave a back that pretends to be very happy, let him know that you don't want him to see it, and silently like someone for ten years, which is my own ten years.

    Countless times I thought about giving up, but every time I persuaded myself to give up, I couldn't help but continue to persevere, because I really like it very much, I can't let go of it, and sometimes it's really not that I can give up if I want to, because your heart is there, and you can't deceive your heart.

    I like it for ten years and I can't say what I like in my heart.,As for the many reasons.,These things slowly let it rot in my stomach.,Together with this like.。

    I don't know exactly when I'm going to dislike him. When can I not think of him, I feel that my heart is very heavy, and it is not a simple thing to like a person for ten years, but I don't know why, I just like it so much and like it for ten years.

    I can't remember how many times I've cried for this love in the past ten years, I can't remember how many hypocritical words I've written for this immature like, I can't remember how many portraits of him I've drawn, how many times I've touched his face and touched his eyebrows in my mind again and again.

    How many nights he couldn't sleep, how many nights he couldn't sleep, how many nights his pillow was wet, how many nights he listened to his favorite songs until the wee hours of the morning. Some people may think that this emotion is very bitter, although it may be very bitter, but I don't know why, but I taste the sweetness in this bitterness.

    I never regretted liking him for ten years, because he deserved to be liked. In the past ten years, he has been my goal, because with this love for him in my heart, I am also working hard step by step, step by step to get closer to him, thinking that he may still be working at the desk late at night, I dare not have the slightest slack and laziness.

    Because of my liking for him, I have also become better and braver, until now, maybe I still like it, as for when I can let it go, I don't know, maybe everyone will have such an impossible person in their hearts, just quietly put it in their hearts for a lifetime, it's not bad.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It must be an unforgettable love, a love that goes deep into the bone marrow. That feeling must be very hard to forget, it has become a habit, thinking about him every day, hoping to have some stories with him every day, such a mark is very profound, even if you don't wait for him anymore, at that time, he will still silently leave him a place in his heart that only belongs to him.

    Everyone will have a love affair that will be unforgettable for him, but sometimes he can't help but forget. In fact, you know yourself best, you can fool everyone, but you can't fool yourself, what is your own inner thoughts, only you know best in your own heart, and only you can feel the silent sentimentality the most.

    Although sometimes people will repeatedly advise you, let it go, it's impossible to do this. But you know in your heart that you can't really let go. I also thought about letting go, and I thought about not thinking about him anymore, but I still couldn't do it, and I couldn't do it after all.

    That's just too hard. It's too sad.

    So sometimes I feel that I just keep that person in my heart, and let myself remember each other silently, even if the whole world forgets the existence of such a person, I will not forget it. That person has been deeply rooted in his heart.

    I have liked a person for so many years, and I have never been able to get out of the wall I set up for myself, and others have never entered my heart again, only that person has come in, but in the end I have left my own world. Sometimes I think about it, maybe this is God's arrangement, and I am destined to let myself not pass the love level. After so much time, I still can't forget it, and in the end, it is still myself who is sad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is the most thing in the world, and the reason why I say this is because of what I have experienced or that my friends have told me. People say that the authorities are fascinated, and the bystanders are the most suitable to describe couples in love, but what I want to say is that although love can get carried away, it will be extremely sober and open when it comes to the relationship of two people.

    It's a great thing to like someone for ten years, not to mention how many excellent people you have experienced in the past ten years, just say that you have been liking someone for ten years without changing your mind is enough to show that you are a dedicated person. Ten years is not a long time, but it is not a short time, in this ten years, are you just a crush or confessed to rejection? If it's the former, I can only say that you deserve your unrequited love for the past ten years!

    Why not try to confess? Is it low self-esteem or fear of ruining friendships? If you like a person, you have to say it out loud, don't think about regretting it and confessing it when you miss it at the end of those years.

    If it's the latter, I really advise you to stop trying, what does it mean that people who can't be impressed for ten years are finally together? It can only mean that your spare tire is on top, and once you find a good kick, it will kick you away. So, think it through.

    There are such people around me, a buddy has been chasing a girl since elementary school, and he has been divided and combined many times in the middle, and finally married his son, fortunately not happy and not to say but the ending is indeed good. Another high school classmate chased a girl for many years, and finally didn't catch up with him when he went to college, so he couldn't even say a few words.

    Love is like a beast, and if you can harness it, then your life must be meaningful. But if nothing comes of it for ten years, let it go, don't hurt yourself in the end.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you have ever liked someone in your heart, and this person has always lingered in your mind, and this emotion has lasted for 20 years, then I personally think that this does represent that you love each other very much in your heart.

    In fact, for the vast majority of people, they are often very difficult to forget their first love, especially in their hearts, those who have not really gotten the love, often more cherished and unforgettable, such emotions will remain in their minds for decades, and even accompany their own life, even if they have married and had children in the future, have their own family, but it is difficult to completely let go of this emotion, that is, for the other party's thorough love, this kind of love is the purest and most sincere.

    But on the other hand, we should also realize that we can't let go of a person in our hearts for 20 years, which is not a very meaningful thing for ourselves, because in this way, we have spent our time and energy in vain and have never been able to get the response and recognition of the other party, as I said earlier, if you have married and had children and have your own family, in the bottom of your heart, you can't let go of each other and forget each other, then for your lover, for your own family is also an irresponsible behavior, Therefore, in this case, you should adjust your mentality as much as possible, let yourself go as much as possible, let go of this relationship, return to real life, and treat the people around you well, so as to make your life more happy and happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    <>It depends on who you like, like your parents, it's a natural thing, because they give us bodies and nurture us to grow up, and we will love them and love them for a lifetime, including our lovers.

    If, like classmates, and friends. Like them is your luck. You can learn from them things you wouldn't like, like their way of life, like the way they behave with people.

    Being able to like others is an indispensable emotion in our growing up.

    So, I wish you a questioner, many friends, and a happy and safe life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, in terms of physical fitness, my posture is a little better, my belly is much smaller, and the tight clothes I wore on my body before are now much more pleasing to the eye. My mental state has also improved, and my mental endurance has also improved slightly.

    The reason why I put physical fitness first is that I have always put physical health first, and the other is because I have been doing exercise as a very important thing lately, and I have really got results.

    Then, in terms of thinking, although many of my thoughts are very confusing and unclear now, through listening to books, thinking, and trying to apply the methods I have learned to work and life in the recent period, I feel the energy in my heart, I feel that my inner body is activated, and I enjoy such a feeling of vitality.

    Finally, I recently realized that there is nothing big in life. Every big thing is a small thing after a small thing, as long as you do a good job every day, the big things will naturally achieve good results.

    When you feel lost about the future, feel overwhelmed, and feel that you can't do big things, you might as well insist on doing meaningful little things.

    When something can be realized, when you really put your heart to do things and get results, you will feel more steady and stable than ever before.

    There are too many uncertainties in life, live each day seriously, insist on doing meaningful little things, and feel real.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, it doesn't make sense, because you haven't developed further because you have liked people for more than ten years, which means that you can't keep up with his pace.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This question varies from person to person, some people are in a fast-food relationship when they like someone, and if you don't like me, then bye bye and don't waste each other's time. However, there are also very persistent people who will insist on liking someone for a long, long time.

    Many girls always want to be liked by many men, and they have to insist on liking for a long time...In fact, I just want to satisfy my vanity of being liked, and I also hope that others can always stay by my side. In fact, a person likes you, and it is only most meaningful when you also like him. Is it true that there will be a guy who likes a girl for a long time?

    This question varies from person to person, some people are in a fast-food relationship when they like someone, and if you don't like me, then bye bye and don't waste each other's time. However, there are also very persistent people who will insist on liking someone for a long, long time. Unless the other party doesn't like him, he feels hopeless, and he may give up.

    After all, everyone has their own personality, and some people think that a person has always liked it, until finally they get married, and they have to give up this liking, and they are sad to death. And such a person, even after leaving, will be difficult to forget, because he is too infatuated and likes it too much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It doesn't make any sense, it's a waste of time

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