After 7 years of relationship, I always feel like there is a thorn in my heart, what should I do?

Foreword: Two people have been together for seven years, too many things have happened, and there are too many contradictions, they will all make emotional rifts, and the broken mirror cannot be reunited, although the two people have not broken up, but the pimple in their hearts.

There has always been a thorn in my heart that prevents two people from becoming closer, and sometimes it is the idea of breaking up. If you feel like you're stuck with something and still can't let go, there are two options to choose from:

1. Communicate with the other party.

There is a thorn in the heart, it has been stabbing the heart for a long time, it cannot heal itself, and it may become more and more painful, so you have to face the problem and pull out this thorn. A good way is to communicate with the other party, show the thorn, say some of your views on the relationship between the two people, and see if the other party has also been pricked by the thorn. Communication will basically make the relationship between the two of you purer and can be further developed.

Even if you can't pull out that word in communication, at least you will let you vent the emotions that have been suppressed in your heart for a long time, so your whole person will be much easier.

2. Break up. Many situations cannot be solved through communication, because no matter how good the relationship between two people is, there are always some situations that are difficult to say, because it is not a misunderstanding, but an inner feeling, which is difficult to express. And as soon as you say it, the conflict between the two people may deepen, but I don't know how to solve it, so the damage caused by this thorn in my heart is becoming more and more obvious, so I think I can break up.

Stay away from each other, and the thorn will be slowly pulled out by time, and the wound will slowly fade, so you don't need to be hurt again.

Summary: Two people have been in a relationship for seven years, whether it is in love or married life.

I think you should choose to confess, after all, the two people are very familiar, if you feel that the thorn can't be solved by table communication, but you are deeply affected, then you should break up, otherwise there may be a lot of thorns in your future life.

You should find the cause of the problem, relax yourself, don't have so much pressure, communicate well with two people, restore a sense of trust, and the relationship between two people can be long-term.

At this time, you should find the reason in your heart, why it is, communicate well with the other party, re-cultivate the relationship, and return to the previous feeling, so that you can go further.

You should find an opportunity to talk to the other person and tell the other person about your hardships and the thorns in your heart, so that you can make yourself better.