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First of all, I think you should communicate more with him in normal times, in fact, if you want to educate your child well, I think you must first become his friend, maybe you think it's very old-fashioned, but it's actually very useful. At this age, the child is actually trying to imitate, learning what he sees, he smokes, he surfs the Internet. It's that his cognitive ability is a little low, and to put it bluntly, his values are too low.
For example, you feel that being financially rich and fame is a kind of success and glory; And he thinks it's even cooler to have the top equipment in Warcraft or the Fa Ge who learns the movie with a cigarette in his mouth.
Now he is imitating and groping, and he may feel that it is very naïve to do so when he knows more in the future.
Therefore, if you want to educate your child well, the most effective way for parents is to first become his friend and make him trust you. Then he will be willing to talk to you about problems when he encounters them. Just talk about everything and it's settled.
And no matter what he says, even if it is a small thing, you must care about him, don't be absent-minded, although the child is small, but he, you don't treat him as a child, just treat him as a friend.
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Hehe, I'll call you an aunt here.
I was also a teenager who used to be like this, and when I was in junior high school, I didn't have to study, and I was obsessed with games, and my mother locked my room, and I could climb into the window above it, and I just slipped and slipped and slipped in high school.
I think you must not educate your brother to be high-pressure policy The child is also rebellious at this time He is disobedient For smoking, you can take it slowly, you can control his amount, this is addictive after all, even a mature adult can't say borrow it, what do you say? For example, you can buy him cigarettes, but a few cigarettes a day, and so on.
Internet access can also be rewarded for how many hours a day to work on the Internet after calculating the money and telling him how much grades are up and how much Internet is rewarded for holidays.
If the exam is very poor, then you can also go online, but you have to work on your own, get paid, and then go with your own money, and the rewards and punishments are clear
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It's hard to manage
Nowadays, children are very rebellious, and even if you don't give him money, he won't listen to them seriously.
It would be nice if your child had a favorite or someone he particularly admired. Ask them to enlighten your child, persuade them more, and maybe they will listen.
Parents should also communicate more with their children, ask them why they smoke online, and explain the serious consequences of surfing the Internet and smoking. (To exaggerate, of course).
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Just don't let him play with the computer.
Don't give him money,.
Look where he gets his cigarettes.
Truancy? Tell him, if you don't study, you won't have a penny.
Ha ha. I'm scared of that too. Every time I encounter this problem, I have to go to class.
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Cut off all the economy**, cut off the network, cut off the money!
Pick him up from class, take him to school, that's all!
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I think 51 New Spin Dance is good, my friends and I are playing.
I think this game is pretty good.,It's a domestic 3D dance game.。 It's much better than QX.,The characters are cute.,YY、Props are also updated very block.。 And there's wings to take you through the skies. The wings are well done, my favorite.
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I am now playing "QQ Dazzling Dance", and many people in my class play it, both boys and girls. After all, you can listen to ** and at the same time, you can dance with Yu Kai in ruin. Girls like it. Either that's QQ Speed.
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If there's an explicit rule, then forget it.
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Go to KTV and play Truth or Dare.
Go to the park, roller coasters, jumping machines, pirate ships, etc.
Rafting and rock climbing.
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Play about cars, or strategy.
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I don't know what type LZ likes.,I played large-scale online games when I was a freshman in junior high school.,Children's naïve bubble hall qq hall qq speed running karts are more suitable for teenagers to play.。
Water Margin Q 2D Round is very suitable for playing without throwing money at it.
Role-based just. (I didn't expect it, almost all of them have to throw money) Rainbow Island Adventure Island Q version is suitable for you.
When I was a freshman in junior high school, I was throwing money at fantasy!
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Tianlong, or dream, or Journey to the West, Demon Domain, Dungeon, Crossfire, Legend, Journey (these two are recommended that you don't play, they are all to spend money to play) and,,Dazzling Dance。。 Otherwise, ask, looking for immortals, it's okay.
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Play Superstar, sing, and relax.
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