What happened to those who lived with hatred?

Those who live with hatred have their lives getting worse and worse later, in fact, I think it would be better to let go of some things, because I think that if I live with hatred, my life will only get worse and worse.

For those who are full of hatred in their lives, they generally live very tired. And every day is full of negative energy, and there is no way to do it. Go and enjoy life well.

Those who live every day are like going to hell, and then those who get revenge may not be happy, because they may also have a conscience to condemn them after breaking the law. If you don't succeed in revenge, you will be even more sad, you will feel that you are very incapable, you have not done this thing well, you have low self-esteem, you are helpless, and you can't live a better life.

Later, life was not very good, because life is to be greeted with love, and if you live with hatred, then life will not be easy.

Later life was very bad, because they have been living with hatred, and they have never had a happy life and life.

Some people live in hatred all their lives, that's because they are not good at discovering the beauty in life, and they live in that hatred all their lives, which means that such people will always be too stubborn to dwell on one thing, so that they will be unhappy. Such a person's life must be more chaotic. And it is also an unhappy and even desperate life.

In fact, being happy and unhappy is just a thought. Living in hatred for the rest of your life is definitely a bad thing for yourself. Only by having a happy day can I come to this world without wasting myself.

Therefore, we should sometimes relax our minds and discover the beauty in this life. Learn to let go of something that has passed.

Because this person does certain things and says certain things that deserve to be hated for the rest of his life. Because what he did and said poked the pain in people's hearts and deliberately rubbed people's self-esteem back and forth, making people resentful in their hearts and finding themselves helpless at all, then this person will resent that person for a lifetime, and the hatred that can only be buried in his heart will only get deeper and deeper.

Some people for a lifetime.

They all live in hatred.

This is inseparable from the environmental impact of growing up.

It can only be said that such people are narrow-minded and jealous.

That's a must, you're going to get tired, and you're tired. The hatred you speak of will continue to destroy and torture your spiritual energy. A lot of the time, we're like this, we don't do any heavy physical work, but we just feel tired. This tiredness is mental

What hatred, what hatred, at this moment, don't ask. But there will be, and everyone will have it in their lives. When we are not mature enough and have no ability, we can really only get angry and hurt ourselves.

I used to think that when I was really strong, I would be able to take revenge on those who had hurt me. But when you mature, you'll know that this is actually a pretty naïve idea. When you mature, these so-called hatreds and hatreds will not occupy your mind so much.

What you have to do is how to make your life better and not worry about hatred.

Thinking about it, these would indeed be very annoying, otherwise it wouldn't be called hatred. We will have a lot of grievances and anger, and there is nowhere to vent the same backlog in our hearts, consuming our energy. If you want to open a little, you have to learn to adjust yourself.

But I don't advocate it here, swallow everything, and when it's time to fight back, you still have to fight back. Everyone is equal, others don't hurt us, and we don't hurt others. If you come out to mix, sooner or later you will have to pay it back.

It's just that in this form, we must grasp the proportion, not the best, hurt others and harm ourselves.

People have seven emotions and six desires, therefore, hating a person is also very common in life, but if you choose to hate, then you will inevitably live a very hard and tired life!

Hating someone is definitely the reason, if someone else is sorry for you, then you hate this person naturally should. Sometimes, hatred can be a motivation for a person to move forward, and working hard with this motivation can often lead to success. Sometimes, hatred can easily destroy a person, and if you can't let go of hatred in the end, then you may end up hurting yourself as well!

Time can make us forget and downplay hatred. Pay attention to regulate your mood, and try to let go of it if you can't do anything for the time being. Someday, you can reach a certain height and look down on those who you used to hate.

It will feel very tired. Because hatred will really make that person live with hatred, it will make people lose control, and they will want revenge. Some things can be let go or let go, which is also letting go of yourself.

If a person lives with hatred, he will definitely feel very tired. Because every day is preparing for revenge, not working hard for your dreams and life, it can feel very exhausting and can be very stressful.

If a person lives with hatred, then his heart will never forget these things, and every time he thinks about it, his heart aches and complains about the injustice of society, so he will be very tired, and he must learn to let go in order to start life better.

Yes. So you must let go of hatred, so that you can make your life easier and more comfortable. It's possible to be happy every day.

It is true that I feel particularly tired, probably because hatred will carry a lot of burdens on me.

A person's life is long and short. It's just that when I was a child, I felt that life was very slow. When I reach middle and old age, I feel that life is very fast. When I was a child, I felt that life was very long, and when I was middle-aged and old, I felt that it was very short.

In this life, you will inevitably encounter good and bad people, bad people and bad people, happy things and unhappy things. All kinds of things and people are all episodes in the whole drama of life.

It's just that every episode of this, big or small, will affect the brilliance of the total drama of life. A good broadcast will make life glorious and colorful, but a bad broadcast will tarnish the script of life. But whether it's good or bad, Liangqin is a lifetime.

Therefore, we will meet benefactors and enemies in life, and of course we will be grateful and feel comfortable for our benefactors. And what about the enemies you encounter? Some of us will choose to return a tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye,-for-tat, and calculate. But this is just a small episode in life.

The key is how we treat this kind of "enemy" with our hands, be generous, that is, ignore and be indifferent, and don't let all the unhappiness affect your mood. Because there are so many beautiful things that we need to explore and seek. So don't spend our good time in this little episode that has nothing to do with life.

Let the so-called "enemies" take away our health and ruin our beautiful life.

Because we have to distinguish between the main stream and the tributaries of life, what we really want in life, and what we hate. Once we have made a distinction between the primary and the secondary, then we will give up the Lord, and we will not let this affect our progress towards the mainstream, and we will use the tributaries to keep nourishing the dry fields of our hearts with every small slit we encounter. So that in every episode, we are constantly improving our own capital and nutrients for growth.

Instead of being led astray by this little episode, and affecting our direction, we are haunted in every tributary, stuck in the mire, and unable to extricate ourselves. So that when I look back, I am ruined in this episode of life.

1. Many times, it is others that are hated, but it is yourself who is troubled. Learning to give up hatred is equivalent to giving up troubles, never make yourself depressed all day long because of hatred, friends should always remember that some people are not worthy of our hatred and memory. Forgetting hatred is tantamount to treating oneself well.

2. Once upon a time, I couldn't let go of this, but then I always thought that I was actually lucky because the other party didn't let me lose everything.

3. Learn to love your "enemies" more than your "friends"!

But the real enemy must be hated, because hatred is the spiritual pillar ...... any person defeats the enemy

5. For the sake of our own happiness in the future, we must forgive the faults of others. May you forget your hatred soon, have joy in your heart, and live a happy life!

6. From a different angle, there is another world in your eyes;

Don't get drunk in front of flowers in life, 7, this is like a flower. If you fall in love with a flower that grows on one star, then at night, you feel sweet and pleasant when you look at the sky, and all the stars seem to bloom with flowers.

9. On the moral level: love the person who hurts you, because he makes you wiser.

From a physiological point of view: hatred causes a decrease in the heart's pumping rate, which increases the burden on the heart, and there are a series of other physiological reactions, and people with a type A personality who are often hateful and hostile are prone to heart disease and high blood pressure.

10. There are more important and meaningful things to do in life than revenge.

11. When hating someone makes me unhappy, I will take a deep breath and relax slowly, and then I will not think about the hatred for someone, which will be more comfortable.

Because you're not satisfied with the status quo, you want a better life.

You've always wondered why, he's nothing, he's got a car, a house, a beautiful woman, and why he.

You keep complaining.

And then there's family problems, love problems, work problems, and you resent this society, and you resent this society for being unfair.

This way, things will get better gradually, and when you have a stable job, your parents are old, you have children, you have a wife.

You're in no mood to complain, there's no time to resent.

What's the point of complaining about resentment.

The Buddha explained that in a past life, three merchants had met to go to a foreign country to do business, and they did not want to stay in a hotel in order to save money, so they went to an old woman's house to borrow a house. Originally, the two parties agreed to pay the old woman's rent, but the next day, the three merchants sneaked away while the old woman was away. When the old woman found out, she was very angry and went after them desperately, trying to demand the money.

The three merchants were soon overtaken by the old woman because they were carrying heavy luggage. The three merchants thought she was old and could not be deceived, and they insulted the old woman with evil words. The old woman was helpless against them, and she gritted her teeth with hatred, and said to them with resentment:

You scoundrels, you bully me into being old and lonely, and you will have retribution in the future. Although I have nothing to do with you in this life, when I become a cow in the next life, I will also take revenge and kill you to vent the hatred in my heart. ”

The Buddha continued: "The old woman was the last life of the bull, and the three people who were killed by the bull on the same day were the three merchants who bullied the old woman. ”

This story tells us that karma is not happy at all, and it shows why a person's resentment is so terrible. If a person resents others, he will curse himself into the net of karma like a poisonous spell in his heart, which will worsen the causal relationship that is not already serious, and because of resentment, he will repay the wrong.

We can see from this story how powerful a person's wish is, and if we use this wish power to study Buddhism, we will definitely be able to cultivate to the Western Paradise.

If we use our power to hurt others, you will definitely come to take revenge in the next life, then you may have to vote for people or animals, and then come to the world to take revenge.

Think about it, there are so many people around you, why do they hate you so much?

Why do you make yourself so confused?

So sad, huh?

Remember, it may be that the knot of your previous life has not been resolved, so you will continue to come to the world to pay your debts.

Resentment of others can't solve problems, and society is not so fair, less complaining, more understanding

You can't complain about anything, this kind of person is psychologically unbalanced. I can only complain that I am not capable!

People not only have hatred but also love, but whether it is hatred or love, it is because of "me"! This "me" is ourselves, ourselves, ourselves. Hatred and love are two natural and extreme emotions!

They are innate, in our bones, in our blood, in our minds.

Human emotions are a mystery! "I" am also a fan! When our perceptions and personal experiences and personal histories become memories, "I" is formed, such as my surname is so-and-so, my name is so-and-so, who am I, who my parents are, I am from the place and that country, what I have, what I have experienced, and so on.

These things, together with perception and instinct, form "me"! I'm not him, I'm not you, I'm "me", with me there is difference, with difference there is comparison, with comparison there is likes and dislikes, with likes and dislikes there are likes and emotions, and with likes and emotions there is "hatred" or "love"!

The essence of hatred or love is one and the same, two sides of the same body, transmitted to each other, generated by each other, and caused and effected by each other! They all grow deeply in our blood and bones and become a part of "me", and the characteristics of "me" can only rely on the above to prove my existence, except that when we are completely unconscious, "I guess" does not exist, hatred or love does not exist, for example, in the case of confusion and death, "me" does not exist, and all emotions do not exist, for example, many people regard death as liberation.

Whether hatred or love is essentially a burden, let us be bound by hatred or love and lose the freedom of our hearts. Because hatred or love is the memory of history, the traces of the past "me" in the heart, the disappearing truth, the illusion of the non-existent past, we are deceived by the illusion of non-existence, and we only hold on to it in our hearts, unwilling to forget, as if it were true! Just ask:

Birds fly through the sky, can there be traces of birds in the sky? But past experiences and memories leave traces in our hearts; Hate or love! A vanished illusion!

And we try to preserve, try to recover, to survive in this world and we have to rely on memory and experience: an illusion that has disappeared! Everybody!

Everyone relies on the memory of experiences and experiences to know who "I" are! Therefore, hatred or love is deeply grown in our blood and bones, it is our nature, it is the nature of a trillion people, it is the nature of a person to become someone.

Simple summary: The reason why people are human beings is because people have the difference between you, me and him, there is a comparison, there is a comparison of likes and dislikes, there are likes and dislikes, there are likes and dislikes, there are relatives and distances, there are likes and dislikes, and all this makes me "me". To put it simply:

Emotions are human nature! It's natural, it's innate.