Can a marriage that is not supported by a family be happy?

Marriages that are not supported by the man's family are often difficult to be happy.

In fact, regarding the marriage of Dong Zijian and Sun Yi, everyone may not be particularly optimistic at first, after all, although the two are stars, there is still an identity gap. And it can be seen that someone's family is not so simple, and his mother is also a very capable person, so everyone imagines that their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is tense. But for their marriage relationship, it is all speculation from the outside world, and only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not.

Whether Dong Zijian's mother supports their marriage or not, there is no definite statement on this matter. The separation of two people may have something to do with the family, but more importantly, there is an emotional problem between the two people.

But when it comes to a marriage that is not supported by the man, it is indeed difficult to achieve happiness. My cousin agreed to marry my cousin-in-law after her passion's pursuit, but my cousin-in-law's parents didn't like my cousin very much. When you marry into a new family, and most of the people in that family are not very happy with you, it can be difficult to get along with them.

At first, my cousin thought that she could impress them with meekness, but when others were prejudiced against you at the very beginning, all your performances would make them feel pretentious. And when they are dissatisfied with their daughter-in-law, they will complain endlessly to their son.

As long as two people sincerely live together and work together, they will be happy.

It's hard to say, but if you look at a lot of examples, there's still a lot of unhappiness.

Hello, I'm glad to ask you a question, in fact, a marriage that is not supported by the man's family may not necessarily last long.

1.Because from the perspective of your parents, this girl may not be suitable for you, because your parents have lived with you, and they know you better than girls know you for decades, and your parents know what way you like to get along in life, and even when you lose your temper and when you are in a bad mood, your parents know everything about it.

2.Why do I say not necessarily? Because although your parents know you well, your parents don't necessarily know girls. Parents judge whether a girl is suitable for you based on the first glance, or a few days of getting along, and you can't completely judge whether a girl is suitable for your child based on these two points.

3.Parents don't know the girl very well, but the man must know the girl very well, at this time, you need to tell the parents all the hobbies and habits of the girl, and if the parents think that the girl is suitable for the boy, the parents may agree to your happy marriage.

4.In fact, in the final analysis, parents must think about the boy's future, and they must also want the boy to live happily in the future.

5.You must guide your parents to agree to your marriage, instead of using some things to blackmail your parents and force your parents to agree to your marriage, if you get married happily in the future, your parents will not care about these things, but if you are not happy in your marriage in the future, then your parents will be very uncomfortable and regretful.

Difficult. Marriage is a matter of two people, but two families are involved behind it. Although you are married, that is, you have formed a new family with your husband, if you both decide to move out, you may not feel the attitude of your parents, because don't pay attention to it, just run your family with peace of mind, take care of it, and you really don't feel too much when you are two.

But can you just ignore it all the time and not care? For example, if you have a child, you may have to ask your mother-in-law to take care of you for a few days after you have a child, do you say that she can forget your previous unhappiness because you did not support your marriage because of the child? Can she have nothing to do with you?

It can only be said that it is too difficult, and if your husband puts herself in the mother-in-law's shoes, you will be even more uncomfortable. Even if he is facing you, will the mother-in-law think that it is her son's problem? Most will just put the fault on you.

When the time comes, you will have to bear these pressures in silence.

Or, if something happens at home, we always have to go back to deal with it, and then it will be you who will be embarrassed, after all, the original mother-in-law did not approve of your marriage, and you can only be embarrassed to be silent for the sake of face, which is not at all the same as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship you imagined before, your husband will only say a few words that may not be insignificant.

Will your future children be able to leave the care of their grandparents? If the relationship between grandma and mother is not good, it will also affect the child to a certain extent, so it is very difficult to get married without support. It takes great courage to overcome.

A marriage that is not supported by parents will be happy, but there will be many difficulties at the beginning, as long as two people truly love each other, understand each other, and work hard to overcome difficulties, married life will get better and better, and they can be happy for a lifetime.

It's hard to say, some people will work hard, and they will get more and more months.

Everyone wants to have a good life. One of the most important things is to have a happy marriage.

For marriage, the most important thing is that both husband and wife truly love each other. However, this is by no means the only factor ......Whether the families of both parties support the marriage, especially whether the man's family supports the marriage, has a very important impact on whether the marriage can be happy and long-lasting.

The reason why this situation occurs is due to the following reasons: 1. A marriage supported by the family can have harmonious feelings between family members and a happy and long-lasting marriage. An important indicator of a happy marriage is the harmony between family members.

If the rest of the family does not support the marriage, there can be no harmony between the family members and no happiness in the marriage. ......Only with the approval and support of family members can the relationship between family members be harmonious and the marriage be happy.

Therefore, family support is very important for a happy and long-lasting marriage.

2. For the woman, marriage is to marry into the man's family.

Therefore, the support of the man's family is very important.

Another way to get married is to get married.

This means that the woman will marry into the man's family after marriage.

Living with the man's family In this way, the man's family members can only be recognized and supported after marrying into the man's family on the premise of the support of the man's family, and the family members can live in harmony with each other, and the married life can be happy and long.

3. Marriage is actually a matter of two families. Therefore, the support of the family is very important.

On the surface, marriage is a matter of two people.

But in essence, marriage is really a matter of two families. ......Both parents, and even other members of both families, can have a very big impact on married life......Therefore, only with the support of the family can the marriage be truly happy and long-lasting.

4. The relationship between in-laws and daughters-in-law is very important for the stability of marriage.

The attitude of both parents is very important for both couples after marriage.

If the father-in-law, mother-in-law, father-in-law, and mother-in-law support this marriage and are satisfied with the son-in-law and daughter-in-law, then after marriage, the relationship between the family members will be harmonious, and the marriage can be happy and ......long-lastingAmong them, the recognition of parents-in-law is the most important. ......Because after marriage, the woman has to marry into the man's family and live with her in-laws, so the approval and support of her in-laws will have a very important impact on the happiness of the marriage.

Because of this, the support of the man's family is very important for the happiness of the marriage to last.

The above is the important impact of the support of the man's family on the happiness of ...... marriageOnly with the support of the man's family, but also the support of the woman's family, can the relationship between family members be harmonious and stable, and the life after marriage can be happy and long-lasting.

Whether or not you are happy in your marriage is not the so-called external conditions, but the real thoughts in your heart, and the adjustment of your mentality after the event. The fact that the parents and families do not support the marriage of their children is just an excuse for the children in the marriage to break through after they encounter problems that cannot be resolved normally. A person who is easily satisfied will feel very happy as long as he has a little possession, while a person who is extremely demanding will feel lost and unhappy as long as he feels a little unsatisfactory, so the latter kind of person will always think of an excuse to comfort his dissatisfaction when he feels that he is encountering a problem.