In the entanglement of emotional problems, I hope for guidance from others

Your parents gave you a life, and she gave you a complete life, your life can be broken, but it is impossible to give up life.

It's true that the two of you are not suitable, but if you can take on the life of two or more people yourself, maybe your family will not stop you, the palms and backs of your hands are full of meat, and you are destined to hurt one place, make a decision earlier, if I were you, I would break up with her, and if you develop well in the future, I will go to her again, if she has another love, then let it go and choose a good mate.

Take a picture!! Take a picture!!

Let me tell you, since both families are good, make up a house as a marriage room, and then work hard

Since it is a happy relationship, you should not give up, if you give up, you will hurt her, and you will be looked down upon by her.

If you really love him, communicate well with your parents, and then find a way to give the girl a stable job so that your parents can't say anything

When you're tired, think about your sweet times.

Brother, you are not suitable, it is better to give up, this is good for both of you, think about it rationally, it is not a question of who is right and who is wrong, the reality is that.

Respect the opinions of the family, because parents always make decisions for their children on the basis of comprehensive consideration, and he hopes that their children will be able to live a better life in the future, with better conditions and be more realistic.

I'm not afraid of regret in life, I'm afraid of regretting that I didn't do it when I died, so go if you like it.

Dude, I don't know what kind of personality you are, but as a man, if you are with her, you have to keep learning and improving yourself, otherwise, you will definitely break up one day.

There are two reasons for this. One is that you can't accept the gap between the two of you, because this gap will make you more and more stressed and a little breathless. Now you don't realize it because you haven't really come together yet, and distance is the reason why you can go on.

The second is that she thinks that you are not a person who can really be entrusted for life, and I don't mean to say that you are not sincere and will not be good to her for the rest of your life. Because when people choose a spouse, they will expect something, if the gap is too big, what she wants seems so slim to you, I think whoever I want will not choose to be together again.

If you are a person of perseverance, a person of perseverance, and try to close the distance, it is still possible for you. Otherwise, there is too much difference between you and her knowledge, tastes, and people and things you come into contact with, and you will feel that if you have nothing to say, you will inevitably go to the verge of breaking up after a long time.

I bless you and hope you persevere. People live for a lifetime, it may be 50 years or 100 years, but the feeling of love may only be once.

Let's explain first, this is not a generation gap, hehe.

From her words, her subconscious has already sensed the gap between you, and the gap will get bigger and bigger in the future, she is reluctant to you, but she also looks forward to many other things, after all, there will be a lot of new things in college.

Have a good breakup, and don't tie each other down.

In this way, there will still be pressure on the gap in academic qualifications, and generally girls want to find a boy who is stronger than themselves to rely on. Whether it is in learning or ability, you must be better than yourself in some aspects. And as far as boys are concerned, it is generally difficult to accept girls who are stronger than themselves.

Boys generally have a strong sense of self-esteem. Everyone has their own way of life, and maybe you really don't fit in.

There is a kind of love that wants to be with the beloved, and there is a kind of helplessness that reality often crushes dreams.

When a woman is looking for a husband to live, what she wants is stability, and what she needs is a sense of security. Because she has been working for several years and her family has been working for several years, she wants to settle down in her city, mainly because she and her mother feel that there is no hope for you. Not to mention the sense of security.

Because you're still studying and your job isn't settled at all, there's a lot of instability and variability. Because you yourself know that your own family and your own heart will not allow this woman to be satisfied. So you can't give her the life she wants.

It is said that love is great, but when it collides with the cruel reality, love is so humble. Therefore, it is recommended to let it go, so that both of you are not wrong, and you will not be entangled.

Give it up! The relationship between you has created a gap in time and space, and each other's views on life are not on the same level. After all, society will teach a person how to adapt to life, and you have too little understanding of real life, which is one of the reasons why she is not optimistic about your future.

It's hard to say about the rest, I don't know how good you were when you were together!

Let it be! Feelings barely came.

People often sometimes rely on someone because they are lonely. You're just used to his company. But you must be soberly aware that there will be no results between you, and that if you continue to dwell on them, you will only make yourself miserable and destroy the original harmonious relationship in your interactions.

Leave him, find something else to do to fill your time, don't let him be the whole of your spare life, when you are busy for a while, you will slowly find that the original problem is no longer a problem.

First of all, you must recognize whether you are looking for friends in a foreign land and loneliness, or because you have feelings for each other after you meet, he has done so much and has not confessed anything to you, just silently doing what he thinks he can do for you, such a person is a credible person, without too much speech, not too much action, to be a real man, sometimes love is not waiting, we also need to grasp it ourselves, if it is just an ordinary friend, it doesn't matter, it is the effort of both of you to sublimate from friendship to love, Now is not the time for you to be sad, is it time for you to think about whether you really like him? Are you thinking about him no matter what the situation? If so, move him and let him know that you like him ...

In fact, you are also very awake now, and you know that you have to ask her or think about what you should do.

As you said, maybe you are not sad but indignant when you hear those words, or everyone will be unwilling to hear those words.

I don't think he's promising you anything, you think it's going on or improving, but he's always ready to split his legs and be ashamed of you, because you're not him. And you are slowly giving, you can't be blessed by the people around you in such a relationship, do you think you will be happy? Everyone is an adult, so you shouldn't have an indifferent attitude towards feelings.

Make an effort to move him, and if he is not moved in the end, I suggest that you leave him or treat him as a friend, and you can take care of each other in a different place.

Find someone who likes you, and you don't need to struggle so much to pursue feelings. good lucky!

Actually, I think it's not bad to have such a friend, isn't it, it doesn't necessarily feel like a lover, many times, friends are more intimate than lovers, and there are fewer constraints, perhaps, you are both abroad and treat each other as relatives in a different place, why not maintain such a relationship, sometimes, it is better to stay the same than anything.

Do you think you'll get results? If not, no matter how much time you spend to move him, in the end it will be a parting, and it will be even more sad than now!

Not senior. I just happened to hear a story: a boy confesses to a girl, and the girl says to think about it.

In order to force her to agree, the boy deliberately approached another girl, and the girl was anxious to question, and the boy asked again: Will you do it? The girl agreed.

So, a good story.

This trick is not so easy to use. There are several keys to the success of the story above:

1. Time. The story takes place in the second year of high school. At least years old, his temperament is much more mature. If it is old, everyone is not yet qualified, not so mature, and sometimes when you are angry, you may not get along with each other.

2. Hole cards. The boy in the story is sure that the girl has a crush on him. So, after a little force, I got my wish. If the relationship is still too shallow, such a deliberate will only make the girl more distrustful of herself. Pay for one's whistle.

3. Good collusion. The other girl in the story is the boy's "iron sisters", and she can come forward to help the boy explain to the girl at the critical moment. The level of confidence is much higher.

But if you haven't said hello, in case you provoke a relationship that shouldn't be provoked, the feelings in front will not be said, and the hidden dangers in the back will be even more headaches. So, don't just use this trick.

Now, it is estimated that the problem is very unfortunate, you kicked the iron plate. Although she can still be a good friend, she actually ignores you anymore.

What do you call feelings?

Kids play at home! Remember how can you hurt the so-called like! Get rid of the selfish mentality.