What is the reason why people say that young people nowadays are not good ?

I think the biggest reason is that the aging 7080 has no way to accept the new social lifestyle that is changing with each passing day, once the post-70s said that the post-80s can't resist the banner of society, and now they say that 9000 can't resist the banner, in the final analysis, everyone feels that they have worked so hard to walk the road, and they don't believe that the people behind can easily get through.

Because today's young people receive a different education than before, so their way of behaving is also very special, but there will be many people who are not used to their appearance and think that they are pampered and maverick.

In the current era of increasingly solidified classes, young people can't find their own way to rise, and chicken soup and positive energy have no effect, so mourning will say that young people "can't do it".

Because many young people nowadays are pampered from an early age, they can't endure hardships, so it is difficult to achieve great things.

Today's young people have been pampered since childhood, they can't stand the test, they don't have the experience of being frustrated, and they can't achieve great things.

Because today's young people only care about some things that are popular, and ignore the essence of existence, and many people do not strive for their dreams.

Because many young people are now addicted to online games, they only know how to enjoy comfort and are not willing to work hard.

Today's young people are very unmotivated, and before the war starts, they are in chaos, unable to withstand setbacks, and always make excuses for their mistakes.

Because today's young people have not experienced many things, they are all a pure blank sheet of paper, and they have little experience.

The main reason is that today's young people lack the spirit of hardship and hard work.

It's probably because they're addicted to online games, so that's why they say that.

Maybe the economic conditions have changed for the better now, and they have been pampered since childhood.

The people who say these words live by their own experience, but in life, you must dare to fight and dare to break through, in order to have your own small world.

Nowadays, young people are becoming less and less libido for the following reasons.

1.Stressful. Nowadays, young people are under more pressure, first of all, the competition is fierce, and then the reality is more cruel, if you want to get married, you need to have a car and a house, so the pressure is very high, even if you have a car and a house, you are married, and you have to raise children and support the elderly, so the pressure on young people is relatively high.

Naturally, I don't dare to shop casually, so I become a little low-desired. It's all because of stress.

2.Affected by the epidemic. Because of the epidemic, there are many factories and shops that have closed down.

Of course, there are also many unemployed people, and if they are unemployed, they still need to live, so they can naturally save a little bit. And there are no unemployed. The unit is not necessarily very prosperous, so the money is not easy to make, so it is natural to save some money.

When you save money, your desire to buy is naturally low. In addition, the epidemic will reduce the frequency of shopping, so I don't want to buy things much. Desires are also slowly changing, and the requirements for life are not high.

3.Thoughts have changed. Today's young people are more open-minded, such as lying flat.

Some people choose to lie flat, not to participate in competition, and to live a leisurely life where the whole family is fed and not hungry. Naturally, there will be no desires, and there will be no pursuit of things beyond one's ability. For example, the house of ** and so on.

For them, low desire can make life easier.

In short, the reasons for many people to become less and less libido are stress, the epidemic, and changes in thinking, etc. are all causes of low desire in young people.

Today's young people don't have "how".

In fact, young people nowadays are very normal, they are doing what they are supposed to do, and they are doing it very well.

Today's young people are open-minded and have a very different attitude towards marriage than in the past.

In the past, people were interested in divorce, but considering the children and family, most of them would choose to make do, but now people think:

Since you can't get by, you should divorce early, save yourself the rest of your life, and stop the loss in time and start over. ”

Therefore, divorce has become a very common thing in this era, especially after the Spring Festival, the divorce rate has skyrocketed, and this phenomenon makes people sigh: "What is wrong with young people now?" ”

Reasons for divorce after Chinese New Year.

1. In order not to affect the New Year.

Although the divorce rate is very high now, most people feel that they should not get divorced during the New Year's holidays.

On the one hand, this is unlucky, and on the other hand, it will affect the atmosphere of the New Year at home, so many people will deliberately avoid the New Year's festival, so it has become the peak of divorce after the year.

2. New Year's greetings are easy to be wronged.

During the Chinese New Year, everyone will inevitably visit relatives and friends, especially some families with many relatives, and the entire Spring Festival will be spent in the New Year's greetings.

The more people, the more contradictions there are, different families, different people have different ideas, young people are more likely to be wronged at this time, and the whole Spring Festival down, the couple has a belly of fire.

When the contradiction erupts to an irreconcilable level, the two will naturally go to divorce, and choosing to go through the divorce procedures after the year is the last respect for the Spring Festival.

If this problem cannot be solved within the family, then who to return to during the New Year will become the source of conflict between the husband and wife.

In fact, not only between husband and wife, the question of whose house to go back to for the New Year will also involve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are many women who can't bear the mother-in-law who originally promised her husband to go back to her parents' house with her, but suddenly regretted it before the year, unreasonable, women feel that they are not respected at home, so they choose to divorce stupidly after the year.

Divorce is not a momentary idea, but caused by the accumulation of conflicts over the years, only the husband and wife manage with their hearts, tolerate and understand each other, and the marriage can be long-term and stable.

Late marriage refers to marrying at an older age. Here are some of the factors that can lead to late marriage:

1.Career: The pursuit of career success and stable financial income is the primary goal of many young people, and it can take a lot of time and effort to do so. In this way, it is obvious that falling in love and getting married will be forced to be pushed to a later date.

2.Level of education: Higher levels of education may affect an individual's conceptions and values of marriage, making them more rational and mature, and more inclined to consider marriage only after their career and financial stability have been achieved.

3.High housing prices: In some cities, the high cost of a house** makes it difficult for young people to buy a down payment, increasing the burden and pressure of getting married, and it is one of the reasons why they are more willing to wait for a good idea to have a down payment before getting married.

4.High cost of living: In addition to high housing prices, the cost of living is also higher in some areas, increasing the burden of marriage for young people. In this case, they may be inclined to consider getting married and starting a family only when the economy is stable enough.

5.Personal choice: In modern society, marriage is no longer a necessity in people's lives.

With the continuous updating of life concepts and values, many young people devote more time and energy to free adventures, friends, social networks, travel and other fields, thus slowing down the pace of marriage.

In general, the factors that cause late marriage are complex and diverse, including social, economic, and personal choice.

The reasons for young people's late marriage should not be simply reduced to one that not only respects each individual's personal choice, but also that society as a whole should work together to create a positive, healthy and beneficial social environment and create a more inclusive and free marriage environment and emotional relationships for young people.

Today's young people are too salary-conscious, and they think that as long as they have a high salary, they can work with peace of mind. And for more seniors, salary is not the only consideration. They are more focused on finding a job where they can make the most of their talents, and where they can get the opportunity to grow and develop.

They want their jobs to be not only good for a good income, but also promising and a solid foundation for their future development.

While some young people are overly concerned about salary because of the fierce competition in the job market, this does not mean that this is the case for the entire young group. In today's society, more and more young people are beginning to realize the importance of "doing things in a down-to-earth manner, and they must have a future", and they pay attention to the true value of their careers and career planning, not only because of salary considerations.

In contemporary society, young people's career outlook and values are constantly changing and updating, and they are more likely to find a job and company that can realize their own value. They pay attention to the culture and mission of the company, and hope that their work is not only for life, but also for the realization of self-worth and social meaning. Therefore, enterprises should pay attention to the career philosophy and values of young people, and provide them with a better working environment and training opportunities, so that they can give full play to their talents and realize self-development and value.

Of course, there are also some young people who attach great importance to salary, and they believe that only a high salary can reflect their value. This kind of thinking may be the best in the real competitive job market, but that doesn't mean that they don't focus on future and development. These young people need to rationally analyze their employment value and market needs, master their own job search skills and workplace knowledge, and not only focus on short-term profits, but also consider long-term career development.

Young people nowadays are starting to lie flat, with low desire

Some young people are full of ambition when they first enter the society, and they want to do something big, and they may have been planning since they were in school. It's a pity that the ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny. Stepping into the society and entering the workplace, all the experiences and encounters shattered their dreams in an instant.

In this era of extremely high cost of living, if you want to make a fortune by working part-time, it is purely a fool's dream. Unless you're a very cutting-edge talent, that's a bit of a possibility. But how many such people are there?

The vast majority are ordinary people, and they are ordinary people without any experience. They tried to work part-time, but they couldn't change their lives, so they felt that they couldn't survive the chaos at all, and it was natural for them to choose to give up. There are too many industries in the society, 360 lines are the champions, and young people have just entered the society, and they are generally very picky.

Don't do it if you don't pay much, don't do it if you work long hours, don't do it if you want to work overtime, don't do it if you don't like it, and don't want to do it if you're too tired. After putting together a series of requirements, the final conclusion is that there is nothing to do but sleep at home. Young people who have just entered the society will always find a job that matches them well, and they will slowly be eroded by inertia, unwilling to work, feel that they are wasting time, unable to make money, and are very tired and unnecessary.

Today's young people have not suffered much when they are pampered. When I was studying, the stars held the moon, I was the baby of the family, I had teachers to teach and classmates to help me at school, and everything changed except for society. In contrast, they are certainly reluctant to step out of their comfort zone.

It's hard and tiring to go to work, and I don't get paid much, so I don't bother to go to work. Isn't it fragrant to have food and shelter at home, don't you have to think about things, and live on the help of your parents? In this way, the "gnawing old clan" was born, and he was unwilling to struggle, and laziness overcame everything.

Today's young people don't have "how". They're just normal. ......Those who think how young people are are actually having problems with themselves.

First of all, whether the low wages of young people is a problem of ability, I think the corresponding employers will give a more accurate evaluation of the same job content for the same position. Usually employers are multifaceted when assessing the ability to employ people, such as academic qualifications, majors, experience, character resources, etc. Different positions have different requirements for employing people, high education is not necessarily strong, but low education is not necessarily incapable.

We see a lot of doctors on the Internet delivering food and going home to farm; At the same time, there are many people who have graduated from high school and earn tens of millions a year. Can you say that the doctor is incompetent? You said that in Vietnam, the same job in Thailand only requires half of the labor cost in the country, and I believe that this phenomenon may exist, but this does not mean that our young people are not capable.

Under the same working conditions, some young people on the same side may not have the same ability as our young people. Beijing local candidates may be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University with 500 points, but they need more than 600 points in the northwest region to be admitted, which does not mean that the ability of candidates in the northwest region is weaker than Beijing's, because the environment is not the same, 20 years ago, many developed countries set up foundries in some developing countries, and they did not say that their young people are not capable, or the problem of labor costs. Nowadays, young people say that low wages are mainly given in response to our high housing prices and living costs, and if one day we young people really have problems with their abilities or ideas, it must have a great impact on the strategy of top-level guidance and experts.

Society has been progressing, consumption has been improving, and the old experts' minds have not progressed!