What do you think of the haunted houses in some places?

There is cause and effect, and materialism is rampant.

This is just a festive picture, you must know that it can be done in moderation, not too much.

The hole room is a way for partners to celebrate when they get married, but they should be kept to a certain level and not make things out of control.

Such customs do not work well at all, they are all negative. I think the state should issue a document to deal with these bad customs.

I think the gameplay in some places is too much, and it makes a mess, and I don't dare to get married.

In some places, the rules of the cave house are very **, which makes people feel that there is no lower limit, but in fact, this kind of pedestrian has lost its own fun.

In some places, the cave house is actually a local custom, and each place has its own characteristics, representing the local culture.

There is a certain degree of rationality in some places where there are cave houses, but some places are relatively vulgar and should be banned.

For some places, it should be a traditional custom, but it must take a reasonable approach and not go too far.

In any case, the woman who is being taken advantage of must stand up and not have to worry about the other party. The first time you can warn you in person, if you call the police again and again! Correspondingly, that kind of lewd man doesn't have the guts to do anything too much to you further.

The haunted house actually represents a time of celebration, and it is a time when a couple is born, and each place has its own customs.

I think this form can exist, but there are many places where there are holes, and even destroy the relationship between the husband and wife, and I think it's not good.

There are some places where the cave houses are particularly interesting, I heard that in some places in Gansu, when the cave houses are generally made, men and women are covered with handkerchiefs.

The noisy room, also known as the "noisy room", is carried out on the night of the wedding day. The practice is to send the lamp by the sister-in-law first and hug the students early. Send off the lights, regardless of the elders, peers, juniors, gather in the new house, congratulate the newlyweds, there are "three days without size", "happy and happy, the more noisy the more happy" said.

It is usually done in the evening after the wedding reception. At that time, relatives and friends, regardless of generation, gather in the new house to frolic.

After the house is over, the bride will be asked to roll noodles and make soup for children and grandchildren, thinking that they can grow old together and be full of children and grandchildren. The bride then feeds the animals, symbolizing taking over the household chores and working together to achieve prosperity.

Origin:

The candle night in the cave room, the lamp is lit in the long night, the bride opens the cabinet, the bride opens the cabinet, the groom tries on shoes, the husband and wife talk, and the ears of eavesdropping outside the window are close to the wall.

In ancient times, weddings were regarded as a gift of gloom, and people did not congratulate them. Before the Zhou Dynasty, the marriage ceremony was not lively. "The Book of Rites: Suburban Special Sacrifice" cloud: "There is no need to be happy at the wedding, and the righteousness of the shadow is also." The wedding is not celebrated, and the order of people is also".

The most outrageous hole room I've ever seen is that all the groomsmen make fun of the bridesmaids together, and it's very vulgar and disrespectful, it's really outrageous.

In the past, a friend of mine in Xiangfan, Hubei Province got married, and the best man kissed and hugged the bridesmaids, and touched his whole body everywhere.

I once saw a news that the groom was wound to a telephone pole with scotch tape in a cave house somewhere in Shandong, and his mouth was stuffed with red satin.

Once I saw on the news that they were making a hole in the house, throwing all the brides into the water, and then making a mess of porridge, which was very chaotic.

Say it in advance, the dead can't call the police. Fight to the death.

In many places, hooligans are played in the name of haunted houses.

As the man's parents, they should solemnly warn their relatives and friends before the cave room that the hole room can but not be vulgar and must not cause harm to others, otherwise they will not get along with each other. As the man's parents, they should take their own responsibilities, and when they find any bad signs at the marriage scene, they should stop it in time, and don't be afraid of offending people.

As newlywed men and women, they should solemnly tell their girlfriends or brothers not to "get married" before making a hole in the room. I think it is important for everyone to reach a consensus in advance, so as to avoid and prevent the occurrence of "vulgar" marriage troubles.

If you have a habit of "marriage trouble" in your place, I advise you not to participate in the haunting room or stand far away, so as to avoid accidental injury. Don't put yourself in a dangerous situation because of the excitement, especially for female friends, you must remember this.

If you still want to participate in the haunting room, please do the relevant protection work (especially for female friends). You can keep a wolf spray or something like in your bag that you can use to protect yourself in the event of a behavior that could threaten your personal safety. As a friend of the bride and groom, if you find that the signs are wrong, you should stop it as soon as possible or call the police on 110, so as to minimize the possibility of danger.

When I dress up to attend someone else's wedding, I must be careful not to do some vulgar or excessive "wedding trouble" behavior. If you are not married and have been done by others, you should be prepared to be taken care of by your own relatives and friends. It is everyone's responsibility to resist vulgar marriage troubles.

Resist vulgar marriage troubles, start with me. This is the only way to reduce the likelihood of our own wedding being maliciously married.

As a variety of mainstream in society, we should actively publicize the harmfulness of "marriage troubles" and strengthen the degree of vulgar marriage troubles. Only in this way can we resonate with all sectors of society and arouse everyone's attention. Only in this way can we mobilize everyone to resist "marriage troubles".

I think it's a folk custom, and of course, the purpose was to liven up the wedding atmosphere at the beginning, but nowadays, some people do it too much, and it can be regarded as a bad custom.

I think it's a bad moral, because people are more and more privacy-conscious, and people don't like to have holes.

I think it's normal to have a hole in a house, it's a folk custom. This is not a vulgarity.

Why did you want to "haunt the cave house" in ancient times?How to "make a hole in the house"?

Ancient Confucianism has always been in the dominant position of feudal society, and the etiquette regulations of Confucianism are very slippery and are valued and implemented by the ancients. Marriage is a major event in life, and it is very important. Therefore, the procedures and etiquette of marriage are very cumbersome, and there is a "haunted room" that makes the newlyweds miserable.

Why did you want to "haunt the cave house" in ancient times?Folk sayings have their own, such as "no fighting, no trouble, no fun", "people don't make ghosts", "the more fun you have, the longer you live". It is also said that this method can quickly equip the bride and groom with sexual knowledge and reduce the tension of the bride at the beginning.

The new daughter-in-law has no size for three days", when the cave is in the room, both men and women can enter the room to "see the new daughter-in-law", telling pornographic jokes and erotic riddles, deliberately making the original shy yellow flower girl become a generous daughter-in-law.

How to "make a hole in the house"?Everyone will ask the groom and bride to do some hidden but very clear directional actions, such as biting candy, sprinkling the bed, walking on the single-plank bridge, and singing with the husband, etc., to dispel the strangeness and shyness of the bride and groom, and pave the way for the exciting Spring Festival.

Blind old age, ancient cave houses sometimes lead to tragedy. "Wu Youru Picturesque Treasure" records the tragedy of a hollow cave house in Ningbo - a man in Ningbo lurked in the cave room, heard the sound of the groom undressing, the bride took off his shoes, couldn't help laughing, was found by the newcomer, the groom was angry and used scissors to pierce the listener into a bloody blur. And because the man in the cave room was drunk, he hung the bridegroom with a rope, and beat him with sticks more than 20 times, and the bridegroom died with a whimper.

Happy events turn into mournings.

Now the news also reports that many noisy houses have made the bride and groom miserable, and they have lingering fears about getting married. Therefore, the haunted house should remember this point: "everything is too much".