Tell me how do you look at the old and disrespectful people in life?

Those people in life who are disrespectful to the old actually make people feel quite disgusting, because they feel that such people are not worthy of respect, but they just rely on their age to do some things without morality and you, and they feel that such people are very annoying.

This kind of person is very unworthy of respect, and the quality is relatively low, and there is no basic morality, because the old disrespectful person feels very bad.

I think that people who are disrespectful to the old in life may be a bit dependent on the old and sell the old, maybe life makes them feel empty, so they use this to express their sense of existence, so I don't worry too much about these people when facing them.

These people think that they are self-centered, and they always think that all people must let themselves.

I especially hate such people, these old people rely on their old age, often threaten people, others are unwilling to do, so they carry out moral kidnapping, we respect the elderly is what we should, but I don't think we respect this kind of disrespectful person for the old.

is disrespectful to the old, relying on his old age, he takes this as a disadvantage to the fullest, relying on the old and selling the old, and bullying others.

People who hold the old and sell the old, because of your age, others give you respect and convenience, but it is not a reason for you to freely ask for it from others.

I don't like this kind of person very much, they don't respect the elderly, how can they respect their friends, so they don't associate with these people.

Those who are disrespectful to the elderly, they don't know how to be respected by those juniors, because they themselves don't have the most basic morality.

These old people, once he is disrespectful to the old, then you don't have to respect him, he makes some actions that others look down on, then you can say in public that he points out his problems.

I think it's because of their personal upbringing. But they won't bother with them, if they don't involve themselves. So I think that's not good.

Look at whether this old man is worthy of respect, if he is worthy of respect, it is the fault of the young man, if he is not worthy of respect, I feel that there is nothing wrong.

These people are all people with no literacy, as an old man, he has lived for most of his life, and he doesn't even have a little basic literacy, isn't this a joke?

This kind of person is a person who has no good character, is not filial, and has no sense of responsibility.

I don't think the people in their lives who are old and disrespectful are unaware of this.

For example, when a young person gives up his seat, he doesn't say thank you, as if he should take it for granted.

Dancing square dances to disturb the people, grabbing seats on buses, queuing up to take advantage, falling to the ground and blackmailing people, walking on the road, completely ignoring Mercedes-Benz vehicles and traffic order, and so on.

為老不尊 is a Chinese word, pronounced wéi lǎo bù zūn, which means that as an old man, he does not know how to respect himself; It is connected with "disrespectful for the young", indicating that the elderly themselves do not know how to respect themselves and misbehave; Young children are disrespectful to them because of this.

At about 10 o'clock in the morning of the 11th, an elderly man of about 70 years old wearing a gray hat got on the train from Hexing 11th Street Station. After getting on the bus, the old man took aim at a girl in the front seat of the rear door, so he squeezed to the seat and scolded the girl, asking the girl to give up his seat.

The girl was bowing her head and playing with her mobile phone, and when she heard the scolding, she immediately got up and distinguished, but the old man was furious when he heard it, and then gave the girl a slap. After that, the old man had to make a move, and the passengers on the side stepped forward to pull the old man and the girl apart. (According to the Northeast Network).

Picking up soft persimmon psychology

Therefore, here the old man seems to think that the little girl is "guilty" for not giving up her seat. In addition to having a psychology of "picking up soft persimmons and pinching them", this old man is also blurring a concept, that is, equating morality with law and rights and interests with his own power.

In the name of safeguarding their own rights and interests, "picking up soft persimmons and pinching", this is not to maintain social morality but to bully the soft and afraid of the hard, the reason why these old people "selectively" "defend their rights" is because they can't afford to fight, and they don't dare to fight. And the behavior of these old people is not only not "rights protection" at all, but a kind of disrespect for the elderly, is ruining social morality, and is even suspected of violating the law.

The way to treat the old and disrespectful old people is as follows:

1. In the face of the old people who are disrespectful to the elderly, the best way to deal with them is to avoid head-on conflicts with them as soon as possible, and try to avoid them if they are not the elderly in their own family.

2. If you are an elderly person in your own family, try to let other people in the family talk to them, and don't confront them head-on.

3. If it is your own parents, then you can say it yourself, after all, it is your own parents, and there is no barrier to what you say.

Features for the old disrespectful:

1. Complaining, sighing for a long time, not getting used to the present, the mantra is that society has changed, how good we were then, how bad we are now.

2. Relying on the old and selling the old, I don't want to take on the work task at all, and I don't want to give up the benefits at all.

3. Idle in the unit, catch a person at will, let's talk nonsense, whether you are busy or not, the focus is to satisfy the desire to talk.

4. There is no distinction between public and private, complaining about all kinds of family affairs in the unit, abusing family members, and using the office as a place to vent anger.

5. Do not pay attention to personal hygiene, sloppy appearance, emit peculiar smell, and pollute the air.

6. Disrespecting colleagues, treating the office as home, smoking, picking teeth, taking off shoes, and spitting at any time, affecting the mood of colleagues.

7. The language is uncivilized, full of nonsense, and he is keen to tell pornographic jokes.

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1. The old man who is disrespectful to the old and does illegal things.

There are those who have sinned when they are young and do not know how to repent when they are old. Today is speculating about bad things, tomorrow is instigating crimes, and every day is moving the intestines, lest the world will not be chaotic. Such an old man is not only not worthy of respect, but he should also keep the people around him away, otherwise, the consequences are unpredictable.

2. There is no one in my eyes, only me.

Some old people, who are old, are still very strong. I feel good about myself, I think I have eaten more salt than young people have eaten, and I am right in everything I say. It is difficult for such indiscriminate old people to gain the respect of young people.

3. Relying on the old and selling the old, arrogant and unreasonable.

Some old people rely on their age to make irresponsible remarks, making others not human inside and out. Such an unreasonable old man is afraid of everyone, and he can't be offended in person, and he is very aggrieved.

Hello, you're talking about some old people who don't deserve respect, right? Then it must be something that these old people have done or said that has caused people to disrespect him.

We've all heard the phrase disrespect for the elderly. That is to say, he relied on the old and sold the old, he took advantage of his identity as an old man and did not respect the young people, so how could the young people respect him?

Psychologically, the law of interpersonal relationships is to treat others the way you would like them to treat you.

We always say that we respect the old and love the young, but this sentence is actually the opposite, it should be love the young and respect the old. If the elders don't care for the younger generations, how can the younger generations care for the elders? It's all in the wrong order.

We see a lot of news in society, for example, on the bus, the elderly see that the young man does not give up his seat, and he scolds him, such an old man is actually not worthy of respect. Because this old man doesn't even have the least amount of empathy, maybe this young man stayed up late last night, worked very hard or was sick, and he can't stand Young people have difficulties, and the old people should understand, and not like that kind of person who has no quality.

We can't treat people with respect if they don't have quality, can we? So some old people don't deserve respect, that's the reason.

First of all, age is not the first and only condition for a person to receive basic respect, and all people should be respected if they comply with basic moral norms. Of course, respecting the old and loving the young is a basic moral requirement advocated in traditional Chinese culture, but it does not mean that those who disrespect the old and misbehave morally should be respected. Respect, first relative to a person, and then other conditions such as age!

That is to say, when you respect others, you will also be respected by others, which is a recognized code of conduct and a certain law of survival of social existence regardless of age.

Because the other party does not pay attention to morality, like the kind of old man who touches porcelain, he likes to bully the young with the old"I'm an old man, so you have to let me", don't queue like to cut in line.

Of course not, no one should be respected because of his age. Only an old man shows his wisdom and steadiness as an elder, he deserves to be respected, if any old man thinks that he is older than others can rely on the old and sell the old, that is really old and not dead is a thief, I think there is no order to learn, the master is the teacher. If an old man does not know how to respect and love himself, he is not worthy of respect at all, but needs to be taught by young people.

Respect for the old and love for the young is everyone's virtue, if you want to be respected, you must first respect others, respect for others is equal to respect yourself, in fact, others are a mirror of yourself, you laugh at it and laugh.

There are many reasons why a person deserves to be respected by others, but a person who is not worthy of respect does not become worthy of respect just because he is older.

Nowadays, there are really a lot of elders in society who rely on the old and sell the old, and the moral kidnapping, all day long, and I gradually feel that not all elders deserve to be respected.

Respect is mutual, restrictive, some people are arrogant, Lao Tzu is the first in the world. With his eyes upward, he is an old seller and is not liked by people. There are also people who talk big and talk about the sky, and Ah Yu is called a person who is full of selfish thoughts.

A conceptual mistake is made on this issue. First of all, he refers to "some old people in China". Let's ask, are all foreign old people tall and noble?

Secondly, the word "respect", for respect, anyone, in any case is mutual and mutual, there is no prerequisite, for "respect for the old and love for the young" is a traditional Chinese virtue, because these two groups belong to...The vulnerable! Besides, this topic is suspected of discriminating against the elderly in China. What I'm trying to say is....Anyone deserves respect!

If you don't respect the old, you shouldn't be respected, that will only fuel his arrogance, there is one by my side, my grandfather, I lived with my grandmother when I was in junior high school, (the emphasis is on my grandmother) When I was a child, my grandfather never gave me pocket money, and my pencils were written with pen caps. So when I was in junior high school, my grandfather gave me 5 yuan a week for living expenses, and I was pleasantly surprised, so I reconciled the accounts once a month and asked my mother for money. When I was in junior high school, the tuition was free, and the first phase of high school was only 800 yuan, and I can't remember the appearance of 5,60 for 3 weeks each time, and I also got a scholarship of 1500 during this period, but in this way, I still spent "50,000" yuan in 6 years, yes, it was 50,000 yuan, and I asked my mother to get 50,000 yuan.

I went to the field in college. I went home during the college holidays, my grandfather asked me for something, I ate a little of his own peanuts and I picked up small ones to eat, and I felt sorry for his firewood in winter, every time I went back to buy something, I didn't see anything to eat, and I wanted to eat a little bit after a while. This year, my social security company did not pay a 200 yuan rural medical care at home, and then all kinds of said, I didn't pay attention to him, and then I told my grandmother that he was fortunate to give me the money he worked so hard for, and I won't give me a dowry when I get married.

1. The old man who is disrespectful to the old does not deserve to be respected.

2. This society teaches us that we should respect these old people more, but not all old people.

3. Respect them out of politeness, and disrespect them as duty.

In fact, for these old people, they are in a vulnerable group, but when they are disrespectful to the old, they are no longer worthy of our sympathy, so for us we can respect him, but he does not know how to be humble, since he does not respect himself, then it is not worthy of our respect for him.

Generally speaking, not all old people are worthy of our respect, those who do not respect the old and sell the old are not worthy of our sympathy, so they are not worthy of our respect, but in normal life, many old people are still very kind, so we still have to respect every old man.

They should not be respected, as old people, they should be loved and respected by society, but disrespecting the old cannot promote their bad style, which will make the old people more rampant.

Respect is mutual, even if it is respect for the old and love for the young. If some old people are disrespectful to the elderly, then such teachers are not worthy of the respect of the public, because respecting such people is encouraging an incorrect value.