Being used by a good friend, should you give up your relationship for so many years?

I think at this time you still have to make a choice according to your heart's will, if you think that this good friend has something worth making deep friends, then you should not give up, if you think that this good friend is just to take advantage of you, then give up completely.

I think it's understandable that he's taking advantage of you, because a lot of times people get carried away by interests. Whether or not to give up on the relationship should depend on what you really think in your heart.

If it were me, I would probably give up this relationship, and since we can't trust each other, there is naturally no need to know each other.

Should. After that, we were a little farther away, we didn't have contact for a long time, and she gave me a gift on my birthday. I understand that sometimes she doesn't mean it, she really doesn't realize something.

So, in my heart, I still put her in the position of a good friend, but sometimes I still have to keep my distance. In some cases, security boundaries need to be drawn.

Making friends should be comfortable with yourself, and if you feel unbalanced in a relationship, break up. If someone is sorry for you, be generous and don't contact you in the future.

It depends on the level of use. In fact, many times making friends is very utilitarian.

I should give up my feelings for many years, I have experienced it, I remember that I have a monthly salary of more than 2,000 yuan, and the boss's goods cannot be bought, just my brother who has grown up doing sales, I introduced him to more than 100,000 goods and only gave me half of the money, and then my boss sued the court and said that the goods were bought cheaply, and my parents paid me back the excess price difference, until now, even if I met him on the road, I didn't talk to him.

In a word, my friend said to me personally: Didn't you ask me if you would throw away the relationship after I took advantage of it, it depends on how long you are worth being used. I will never forget it.

If it were me, I would give up because I don't like to be taken advantage of.

You are a fool in his eyes, maybe he has laughed at you a thousand times, but you are stupid to be good to him. Give up, don't be stupid.

It depends on what the situation is, sometimes it may be forced to do so, after all, after so many years of relationship, how can you say let go of it.

Even if you have been friends for so many years, he still takes advantage of you, I think you should give up this kind of friendship as soon as possible.

You can let go, he didn't treat you as a good friend when he used you, so pay more attention to it in the future.

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Give up friendship for love? Ask this question to show that there is a contradiction between you in this regard.

I'm not going to do that. Because I think love and friendship can be both, and the two are not in conflict. Here's what I have to say to explain my point:

1.A normal person would not give up friendship for love. If he gives up, it means that love is more important than friendship in his heart, as the saying goes, love is more important than friends. Maybe one day he will like something and give up on you.

2.If one of the parties in a relationship minds more, they will get along with each other relatively less; You can also bring your object to play with your friends. This reduces unnecessary conflicts.

3.Love others and love yourself, don't give up your friends and life circle for anyone. Don't love too much, the water overflows.

You are also an independent individual, a thinking higher animal. In the future, if something goes wrong between you, you won't be able to find someone to comfort you because you have given up on them before.

Be clear about loving others with moderation and love yourself unconditionally.

Sometimes, I feel like a very conflicted person. On the one hand, I understood that this friendship was my own choice. I know you.

We are best friends. I will be inclusive of everything you do, no matter what the effort is. On the other hand, after a long time, I found out that you are not the person I recognize.

At least you won't say the phrase, "You're my best friend, no one." In fact, a person who is serious about friendship does not require honesty, whether he cares or not, whether he is serious or not, even if it is just a momentary enthusiasm, there is nothing wrong with being simple.

In fact, people who are serious about friendship are also vulnerable. After all, there is only one "girlfriend". Because it's unique, it's important.

Because it's important, it's hard to lose. Not going to die, but it's really hard.

All I want is a real friend. No matter how the world changes, no matter how impetuous this person is, no matter what I encounter in the future, you are a reliable person to me at all times, you know this very well. All I want is a sincere friend.

No matter how long I haven't been in touch, no matter what I encounter later, I'm a person you can trust at any time, and I'm well aware of that. Give up the feeling of friendship.

It doesn't take too many words, it doesn't need too much care, because you and I know it very well. Unfortunately, not every friendship is that indestructible. I get your tirade when I'm unhappy, you choose to run away when I'm struggling, I get Momo when I'm trying to fit in with your circle, when I'm ......I did my best to get back to where you are.

I understand that it is difficult to change a fact for a person who does not notice this, no matter how careful. This friendship seems to be bland, but it is actually fake. I'd rather have only you, but you're not.

You never wanted me to be your friend, never....

I used to think you were important to me and I was important to you. As a result, you are very important, and I am dispensable, so giving up is my passive choice, and leaving is my last tenderness. Why deceive yourself when you know it's impossible?

Friendship is never a drop of water. How could I not understand such a simple truth?

It can make people feel like something is suddenly missing in their lives. Lost something I particularly liked. It's very uncomfortable.

I think first of all, I will feel pity, and then there will be some heartache, some chagrin, and some reluctance. Friendship is not something that can be formed in a moment, it has been tested and honed over the years. Therefore, the loss of a friendship is no less painful than the loss of love.

I will give up many years of friendship for love, I think love is still more important, because with real love, you can have a warm home of your own.

I don't give up years of friendship for love, I feel that friendship and love can coexist, and they shouldn't be contradictions.

No. I think years of friendship in life are very rare. Love, on the other hand, can be regained.

In fact, I will not give up years of friendship for love, because I think friendship is more reliable than love.

When I was in college, I had a good friend and we talked about everything. Maybe it's because life in college is relatively pure, so our friendship hasn't been tested much.

After graduating from college, we worked in two locations, and we agreed to meet twice a year.

One year we planned that she was going to come to play with me, and the tickets were already booked. But that afternoon, something happened to my family and my dad was hospitalized, so I had to rush home right away.

I texted her that there was no way to hang out with her on the weekend, and asked her to cancel her license plate and come back to me next time. Because I was anxious about my father's situation at that time, I didn't explain it to her clearly, so I was in a hurry to go home, and I could feel that he was a little unhappy.

Because it was a private matter at home, I didn't have time to explain it to her in detail, and I didn't explain the reason to her until I went to work on Monday. Before I explained, I was understandably angry with me, but after I explained it to her, she still said that there was no way to forgive me.

At first, I thought she was joking, but I didn't expect that when I talked to her, she wouldn't reply to me, and my heart was really tired at that time. On the one hand, my dad is not in good health, and I already feel very worried.

As a friend, it doesn't comfort me, but it makes me worry so much. After a week, I took the initiative to talk to her, but she still ignored me。Later, I thought about it, is my friend who doesn't understand me so much, or my friend?

Since then, my feelings for her have slowly faded. Maybe it's because of this rift, she always thinks that I let her go, and she feels uncomfortable. Since then, we haven't gone to each other's cities to play with each other.

A friend, because he borrowed money and couldn't pay it back, had a bad intention: he maliciously told a lie and said that it had been returned. Can such "friends" still be made?

So far, my friend hasn't done anything to make me give up my friendship.

Behind your back, you can speak ill of you, and let others target you together.

Flattering with a smile on your face, and saying bad things when you twist your face, this kind of friendship can be severed.

I borrowed money and never repaid it, and no matter how I collected the debt, it didn't work, so I was really not suitable to be a friend.

A friend once borrowed money and didn't pay me back, and I was in a hurry at that time, but I said I would give it every day, but I didn't pay it back.

Very good to me, but talking selfishly, going on a trip with him, he littered, and I found out that he didn't admit it.

One of the worst things my friend ever did was to snatch my girlfriend away.

When I heard him speak ill of me behind my back, I gave up on him completely.

My friend once owed me 3,000 yuan and still hasn't paid it back to me.