Is maturity the human heart growing old or growing?

When people grow up, their mood will really change, and some memories are only now realized, when I was a child, I wanted to grow up quickly, leave my parents, leave my family, and have my own life; When I grew up, I realized that life is inseparable from my parents and family, and the more I wanted to escape before, the more I wanted to have. When I grew up, I realized that only family affection is valuable.

I often work overtime and don't go home to eat my mother's cooking, in fact, only I know in my heart whether I really work overtime or I want to use overtime as an excuse to reduce the time I spend listening to my parents' nagging. There was a nonsense talk that I was very busy at work at that time, and it was almost 1 o'clock when I finished everything that night. I remember very well that the alley home was very dark, and I walked very fast alone, walking quickly with my head down, without stopping at the side of the gods.

Suddenly, I saw a shadow in front of me, and my heart was pounding, and I was ready to go up and fight! But when I lifted it up, I found that it was not a drunken man or a lewd uncle at all, but an ordinary, powerless mother who just wanted to see her daughter return home early. She waited there for a full 2 hours.

It was then that I inadvertently discovered the silver thread on my mother's head. In fact, we should all know that every mother does not want you to be prosperous and rich. For her, the most important thing is the company of her children.

The sign of a person's maturity, in my opinion, is to slowly understand the importance of family, the greatness and preciousness of family affection, because at this moment, he not only takes into account his own interests and feelings, he understands how to experience his own stumbling growth process, the earnest contribution of his parents, so he is willing to be grateful and reciprocate. Breaking free from the ego and devoting oneself to a tighter environment created by the family is growth.

Today I saw an article about a state that indicates that you are getting old. It seems that there is no longer thinking about love, no longer thinking about many things. That is to say, the heart is like stopping water! It means that you are getting old.

I feel like I felt this way when I was in my twenties, doesn't that mean maturity? Why do you grow old? Is the heart old and the body not old?

In fact, it has a lot to do with life experience. If the youth is innocent and grows up smoothly, it is just a child who has experienced the growth experience of a normal person and grows up in a happy family, it should be established. If you start to go through all kinds of life trials since you were a child, maybe the mental and physical are not matched.

Personally, love exists as needed by the body, and exists from generation to generation. Those so-called good feelings are only because they are helpful and some kind of good.

Maybe it's a bit too much, but it's just my personal opinion.

So I'm precocious and old.

But I think it's good! Live sensibly and clearly, I owe no one, and man does not owe me.

Maybe it's a bit cruel. I feel quite happy now, too. My husband is good and so are we! Maybe it's a different kind of love.

However, I hope that my children will be able to enjoy the good relationships of all people in the future.

I often wonder if I have read too many books?

But I still like to watch beautiful love stories, just .........

There are always several reasons in life that can make people feel the precipitation of the years in an instant, although there is no clear sign, but these moments become mature in an instant, specifically, including when you learn to be patient, when you think twice before making a decision, and when you will talk and laugh with people you don't like.

When you learn to be patient, you will find that you have been smoothed out by life. When we were young, we were full of energy, high spirits, and spontaneous. At that time, we could say what we wanted and do what we wanted, and we didn't care about anything.

But as we grow older, we gradually learn to be patient, and even if we are anxious in our hearts, we can be very calm on the surface. At this time, you will realize that you have been smoothed by life, think twice before you encounter things, and no longer act impulsively, proving that you have been smoothed out by life. When I was young, I often started things more casually, and I didn't think about it when I was not in vain.

Although this state will make me encounter difficulties a lot of times, I am full of energy and very honest at that time.

When I grew up, I experienced a lot of things, understood a lot of truths, and when I encountered things again, I would not act impulsively, but think twice and act more prudently. You can talk and laugh with people you don't like, and make yourself realize that your edges and corners have been smoothed out by life. We tend to avoid people we don't like.

But sometimes, when you do something for the scumbag, you will choose to make compromises, socialize with people you don't like, and even talk and laugh with them, always maintain a positive attitude, and create more opportunities for your own people such as Cha Lingsheng.