broke up but still love him very much, should I take the initiative to fight for him or let go?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-27
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Love is not charity, and it cannot be given casually. Feelings have no formula, no principles, and no reason to follow. Since you broke up, think about why you want to break up, and if the fundamental problem is not solved, don't reconcile.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't let go of love, it's hard to meet in a person's life. If you don't have love, you'll be fine, and if you have love, you can try to be together again, don't let yourself have regrets in this life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you really can't let it go, then give yourself another chance to redeem him and not regret it. If the other party refuses, then let it go, don't dwell on it and make the other person hate it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think you should take the initiative to fight for it, since you can't let it go, don't let it go, if he still loves you, then start over, but if he doesn't love you, then let it go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I choose to let go, because you love someone who doesn't love you now, you have won over him who doesn't love you as much as before, and you will break up in the end

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you still love each other, then take the initiative to fight for it, don't let your love be lost in vain, you should use your own efforts to save your love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is clear that if you really love someone, you will also propose to break up, and you may even love very deeply, and you will love nothing. The main reasons for this may be as follows.

    Generally, this situation occurs between couples who have a very close relationship, and one party has done something sorry for himself, although the face is extremely unbearable, but the pain in the heart is heart-to-heart, and he can't feel it unless he has experienced it. If it is an occasional split, you may be able to forgive, but some of them are that the other party's mind has changed, even if they have the heart to forgive, but they are no longer forgivable, even if they still want to kneel and lick twice, but there is no chance, what if you don't mention breaking up at this time! Perhaps, the other party is waiting for your breakup words, and I love him so much, so why not do what he wants.

    Sometimes we meet the right person but miss the right time, and sometimes we meet the right person at the right time but miss the right person. Some feelings have no way out in reality, what should I do! Messing with this world, fighting for everything, together?

    Hard! Because loyal people are people who value love, both loyal to love and the world, sometimes think about parents, think about children, think about family affection, have to give up one side. Can you say you don't love it?

    Love! But after all, they can't be together, and when they can't meet and are not married, the widow can only cry.

    This situation is rare, but I have also encountered this kind of case in my usual work, not one party has love, it is each other who loves each other, but it is love and kill, and I can't find the perfect solution, and then through analysis and research, I found out their childhood experience, the unknown secrets in the history of marriage in the past, and finally solved the emotions and behaviors that they may not even understand and control themselves, and redeemed the party who proposed to break up, and finally came together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you really love someone, you will break up because your parents don't agree, or the conditions don't allow it, and other reasons will prevent you from being together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love someone, you will also take the initiative to break up. It may be the lack of support from family members; It could also be that the other person has fallen in love with someone else.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, they will also propose to break up, because for some reason, they have to separate from each other, even if they love each other deeply.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I may not be able to let go for a while, because when I love him very much, all my thoughts are on him, and he chooses to break up at this time, which causes a lot of damage and makes me seriously doubt whether I am not good enough, so during this time, I will not let go of this relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes. This is because the other party has already chosen to break up, so there is no need to entangle with the other party, and there is no need to waste my feelings, so I will choose to let go.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes. Because the other party has chosen to break up, there is no need to continue to entangle, and there is no need to waste your feelings and time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes. Since the two of them have broken up, not being able to let go of him will only make me very miserable, so I will let go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you love someone very much, after the other party chooses to break up, you will let go of it rationally. As a man, he treats love more rationally, and love needs the joint efforts of both parties, and the other party chooses to pay, at this time can not be forced, otherwise it will make yourself more painful, for the happiness of the other party, since you can't give her happiness, then letting go is also a manifestation of her love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If I love someone very much, if the other party chooses to break up at this time, I will definitely not be able to let go, and I will work hard to save the other party, and find out what the reason for the other party wants to break up, and do my best to keep the other party, let go is definitely not able to let go.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I definitely won't let go easily, because my attitude of loving each other will not change, even if the other party chooses to break up, I will try my best to solicit the other party, so I will grasp the other party well, and I will not let go lightly.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The person you love very much will definitely not be able to let go.

    So even if you break up, you will make some efforts to make amends.

    If you use all the methods to redeem yourself and don't get a response, then you will learn to let go.

    Because impossible people and impossible things still have to learn to maintain a natural mentality to face in order to live a better life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you love someone very much, after the other party chooses to break up, will you let go, no, if I like him very much, I will definitely not be willing to let go, try my best to keep it, tell him that I can't do without him, it will be very uncomfortable.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Can't put it down. First of all, you give your sincerity to this person, and when you love someone, we will be wholeheartedly good to this person. After the other party chooses to break up, he will definitely not be able to let go. I can't let go of the good times of the two of us, and I can't let go of your love for him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If it were me, I would definitely let it go, because after all, the other party proposed to break up, which means that they don't like us anymore, and we don't need to be entangled, just let it go, only then can we find a better one.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As time goes by, I'll let it go. But this time is definitely very long. Because I like a person very much, this person will always exist in my psyche, it takes a lot of things, and it takes a long time to be able to let this person go, because life has to go on, and he has to let go.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you really have to break up, you will definitely choose to let go, after all, you have to start a new life. But before letting go, I will find out why he broke up with me, whether he really doesn't love me anymore? If so, I'll let go.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When I love someone very much, the other party chooses to break up, it is actually difficult for me to let go, because of love, so I will be reluctant, but I must also respect the other party's choice, and the love that comes from force will not be happy, so I will try to let myself let go of this relationship, which is the best result for both parties.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Love needs two people to maintain, and love is not a one-person thing, so in this relationship, if the person you love particularly chooses to let go, he wants to break up with you, what you can do at this time is to adjust your mentality through time, and then let go of each other and start your new life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I love someone very much, and if the other party lets go, I will definitely cooperate with him.

    Because what he likes is his merits, and if he wants to let go, he has to agree. Otherwise, you can only see his shortcomings, and instead of the two of them torturing each other, it is better for both parties to be relieved, and just watch from afar.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I can't let go, because I love this person very much, and if the other party chooses to break up, I will try my best to redeem it, and impress him with my greatest sincerity, and I will only put him down as a last resort.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If I love this person very much, then the other party chooses to break up, I will try my best to keep it, I will let it go easily, it is not easy to love someone, it is not easy to let go of a person, only in irretrievable circumstances can I helplessly let go.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you love someone very much and want to break up with me, then my first reaction must be very uncomfortable and sad, but if it is said that the other party chooses it on its own initiative, then I will also respect the other person's opinion and let go after a period of time.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I will definitely not be able to let go of this situation, because I must have a special love for each other in my heart, so even if the other party chooses to break up with me due to some things, I will not easily choose to let go.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Being broken up in the case of loving someone very much, I think many people will not be able to let go, at least not so calmly, even if it really takes a while to ease up, this is a situation that is normal for everyone.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you love someone very much, the other party will definitely be sad when they say they want to break up.

    Then if you need to let go of the other person, it may take quite a bit of time.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    After the other party chooses to let go, I will let go. Because he chose to break up, it shows that he doesn't want to continue the relationship. If I were the only one who loved him, the two of them wouldn't be together, so I would let it go.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course, you can't let go of your heart, but in fact you have to let go, because the other party doesn't need you anymore, and he obviously doesn't love you anymore So no matter how much you love him or can't let go of him, you have to let go, this is the reality.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When you love someone very much, and the other party chooses to break up, then I will choose to let go slowly, because after he chooses to break up, it means that he no longer loves you, and it is meaningless to continue to be nostalgic for you if he doesn't like you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This will definitely not be let go, because it is not so easy to let go of loving someone, and it takes a long time to adjust before you can let go.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think you should redeem it, give yourself another chance, after all, you still love each other in your heart, if you go to redeem when the other party refuses, then you let go.

    Many couples quarrel because of a lot of small things and then divide and merge, this is a common thing, after two people quarrel or fight for a thing, and then especially angry mouth involuntarily propose to break up, after the breakup, wait to calm down and find that in fact, they are more impulsive at the time, and they still love each other in their hearts, but they are unwilling to take the initiative to reconcile because of face, I think at this time don't care about this and that, since you love each other, you have to fight, don't wait until the other party gives up on you, You will regret it too much, then there will be no chance, and then you will be very sad and sad.

    Although we broke up, as long as we are sure that we still love each other, don't let go I suggest, because it is not easy for a person to meet a person he likes or loves, this is fate, no matter whether the opportunity is very big or not, what the result is, we have to try it, at least we have worked hard for the person we love, and you will have no regrets at that time, if he rejects you, if the other party also loves you the same, you go to redeem, then the two people will be very happy, is very happy together, and when arguing, try not to say the word breakup, after all, it also hurts.

    If you let go, it means that you have given up this relationship, but you still love each other in your heart, I think you are also uncomfortable in your heart, it is better to cheer up and chase the other party back, maybe the other party is also out of face problems, so he did not take a step back to seek reunion, and the other party will be very surprised to see you act like this.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Actually, I think this kind of thing depends on what you think. After all, this is your own life, you will not regret the decisions you make, other people's suggestions can only be suggestions, once you decide in your heart, I believe that no matter who it is, you can't change it.

    Just like me, I've been in the same situation. My first love, my first love for two years, broke up with me a few months before the college entrance examination, and I really couldn't accept it at that time, and I didn't want to admit it. But there's no way, you have to accept it if you can't accept it, and you have to face it if you can't face it, don't you?

    So I tried not to think about it, thinking that it would be good if it took a long time.

    I finally survived the college entrance examination, and I thought that I went to college, but if I didn't have anything, I must not miss him. But what I never expected was that I was still thinking about him, and he was excited as soon as he said it, and he also paid attention to his news everywhere.

    Later, I thought about it all night and decided to wait for him for a year. Since I still love him, and since I can't forget him, I'm taking a gamble and asking him what kind of feelings he has for me. If you can be together, you can go on forever, if it's still not suitable, you don't need to mention it in the future, it would be nice if it was at the beginning.

    Of course, this is under the condition that he is not in love, and if he has a new love, I will definitely not bother.

    In this way, after waiting for him for a year, fortunately, the emperor lived up to his wishes, he told me why he broke up with me, and said that if it wasn't for me, he would have tried to be with me.

    Anyway, I just think that since I still love it, I shouldn't let it go easily. If after a while, you still feel very loved, then take advantage of your youth and still have time to redeem it. I won't have so many regrets when I look back on it one day.

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