I ve always been self righteous, how can I be humble

How should we examine ourselves in order to be humble? That's not a good question. But one thing is for sure, you have to be humble, you can't be smart, and don't think that you have a little more wisdom than others.

The purpose of humility is not to make us feel small, but to understand ourselves better. Around us, successful people are humble people who can give themselves an accurate positioning.

How do you become humble? The details are as follows:

1) Be strict with discipline and treat others sincerely;

2) Understand your own needs and the needs of others;

3) Maintain your true self and don't follow the crowd;

4) Improve listening and learning skills;

5) Establish a sense of intrinsic self-worth and be faithful to this emotion;

6) Establish peace of mind and not impetuousness;

7) Seek new realms, new goals, and put them into action.

As long as you finish doing things, don't stay in this matter all the time, keep moving forward, and update yourself more than you can do it, and don't praise yourself in front of others, don't say anything when others say that so-and-so is more capable, when others give you advice or opinions, you have to nod and accept, even if what he says is wrong, you can't refute it immediately, listen patiently when others are reasonable, you know better than him and you can't interrupt halfway, so that you are not a proud person in the eyes of others or in your own heart.

That's because no one hits you, you keep coming into contact with people and things, and if someone hits you a few times, you will get better!

Generally speaking, self-righteous people are people who have no one else in mind. You have to change it from this point.

Am I talking a little heavier?

People who say I think are not necessarily self-centered.

Self-centered people don't take others seriously.

lz is ok.

If you care so much about your friends' feelings in life, you must be great.

As for the question of modesty, it depends on what it is compared to.

If you compare yourself to the people around you, you will either have low self-esteem or be self-exalted. If you compare yourself to your current self and your goal is to be a little better than your current self, you will not be self-satisfied and you will not be self-sufficient.

To paraphrase the Bible: As you ought to know, you still don't know. So what is there to be proud of?

This requires you to improve your self-control.

I haven't been hit enough.、Just get used to it.

It's okay! Don't deliberately change yourself, everyone has a different way of life, deliberately changing will not have good results, if you really want to do a good job, you will not do badly! There's nothing wrong with being self-righteous, as long as you do it well!

You're still you! Unparalleled! ↖(

Silence and action win him, and he won't be fluttering!

Why do people have two eyes, two ears, but only one mouth, is that you want to see more, listen more and talk less.

It all depends on what you want to do, and you want to hurt him to agree with Lou's opinion! But if it's self-righteous on the premise of bullying you, resolutely fight back!

If that person has a good relationship with you, it's best to do nothing.

Yes, but he's self-righteous to you and fights back!

Time will teach them how to behave, and sometimes it is better to quietly watch them think they are better than to debunk;

Modesty is a virtue, it is important to persevere, guard against arrogance and rashness, not be pampered and arrogant, slowly become stronger and stronger, and when the time comes, we will compare with the self-righteous people at the beginning.

They live in their own dreams, how can they know, so this kind of person should step on him hard, otherwise he won't know how many pounds and taels he has.

Hehe, they are afraid that they are humble and others don't know them, so they don't have to worry about them, and they have their own way of life.

Because they have the capital to show off.

Eyes are the most important thing.

When others speak, look softly into the eyes of others and nod slightly when appropriate.

In this way, others will feel that their ideas can be agreed with you, and others will have confidence in front of you, so that they will feel that you are easy to get along with. It's good to have an image like this.

Listen to others and be a good listener.

When appropriate, ask questions that are relevant to what the other person is saying. Then, the other person will feel that you are interested in what he is talking about. This way, others will think that you are a good communicator. And I am a person all the way.

Of course, these are just a few small tricks.

To be truly humble, it has to be from the inside out.

When you really have the mentality of discovering the advantages from others, so as to learn from yourself and help you improve, then you guess that you are a real and affectionate young man

People are self-aware, and the landlord can formalize his shortcomings and have the courage to correct them. This attitude is already a kind of ability that is beyond ordinary people ... Precious!

You used to give the impression that you were a legacy of history.

It takes time to save you.

It's not easy to change someone else's impression.

So hold on.

Don't stop you just because people still say that.

After a long time, everyone will naturally recognize your change.

Then you will also get used to being polite and humble.

I have seen a person who, from childhood to the last two or three years after graduating from graduate school, was outstanding in **, and at that time he didn't understand what modesty was, but then the sinister society suddenly changed him within 1-2 years.

Most excellent people may learn a little later, but once they learn, it's not too late.

People should not only be humble, but also humble.

Humility is a kind of self-knowledge.

You know that you are inferior to others.

Humility is a kind of self-confidence.

Know that people are not as good as themselves.

Modesty is a kind of cultivation, which is not learned, but cultivated, and is a virtue that is not compared with anyone.

Ask yourself three times a day, and you will have an understanding.

Eat a few more immodest losses and learn to learn.

There's a question I don't understand, what does it have to do with your mother??

Your mother graduated from a first-class university, that's her business, she's amazing, smart. What's the matter with you?

If others want to praise her, it won't be you, at most they will say that you are her daughter. There's nothing to be proud of, isn't it?

Generally, proud people do not see the advantages of others, but only see their own advantages and the shortcomings of others.

There is also a kind of self-righteous pride, always thinking that you are very good, and others are not as good as you. Conceited and contemptuous of others. This kind of person will also find the advantages of others, but because of the reason that he is too proud, when he discovers the advantages of others, he will consciously erase and forget them.

Learn more about others and see more of their strengths. However, when looking at the advantages of others, you should forget your own, don't compare yourself with others, and simply feel that others are good.

It's a good thing to be able to see your own shortcomings and want to correct them.

That's when you're better than everyone else.

Forget about your strengths. Look at the good in others. That's it.

If you're good in every way, feel good, and feel like you're always right.

It's just a little proud and looks down on people.

But if you don't think like this as others, you won't be able to do it, and you won't have psychological problems.

I feel like I'm good at myself.

In dealing with feelings, I would rather lack than abuse, so I have been single now.

This is my self-righteousness.

At work, I think I'm very good, and there are really few people in the unit who can compare to me.

So I look down on them and I don't have a good relationship with them.

I'm quitting now because I feel like I'm very capable of making a career in this society.

This is also self-righteousness.

I think I'm not afraid, I'm afraid that if you don't work hard, you don't struggle, you don't have real skills, and you look down on people inexplicably.

What if there is a little self-righteousness, everyone will have their own self-confidence and self-righteousness. Knowing that you can change your shortcomings a little.

Maybe it's self-confidence, self-confidence is a good thing.

When you hit a wall, you will start to consider your own shortcomings.

For example, I disdain a girl like you, how can you look good, cool??

Not modest, not down-to-earth, and a little self-righteous, you are a common disease of all today's only children and women! Now that you know this problem, it's easy to change. Try to do your part well, think more about things, ask if you don't understand, don't be too anxious, stabilize the point, it will be fine after a long time, you have already realized it, it is not a big problem.

Learn to keep your mouth shut. Take a few deep breaths when you want to speak, and say what you want to say after breathing, and say when you don't want to speak. Get your feet wet.

Be modest, low-key.

It is recommended that you adjust your mentality and maintain a calm mind to look at people and things.

For work, you have to be diligent and hardworking.

For colleagues, you should look at the advantages of others and think more about the advantages of others, so that you will not always look down on people, and you will be willing to associate with others.

Be proactive with people and things that need your help. Try to change yourself slowly, accept others, others will slowly accept you, and your popularity will be improved.

Interpersonal relationships are very important in the workplace, and if handled well, it will provide you with a comfortable working environment! You've discovered your shortcomings, and now it's time for you to slowly improve your shortcomings, come on

I think the first thing to do is to adjust your mentality, have a grateful heart, love life, and try to accept the opinions of others. It's not your fault that naivety, everyone comes from childishness, but it takes a process from naivety to maturity, this process is honed in love, family, friends, career success and failure, after suffering from the ups and downs of life and joys and sorrows, look back and think about how naïve you were in the past, and at this time you have learned the truth of being a man!

Friends wish you a happy day!

Your situation is simple, talk less, do more, and keep smiling.

These can be exercised, every time you want to speak, remind yourself, don't say it yet, you can't say anything that offends people, and you can say it after you think about it.

Try not to express your own principled views when discussing problems, and no matter what your attitude towards your classmates is, you should be patient and take the initiative to help others.

After mixing it for a long time, you will know it when it becomes a fritter.

Lack of experience.

It's going to get better.

It is normal for young people to come out and do things and behave impulsively.

After a while, it's good to hit a wall, slowly learn from colleagues, and you will know how to do things.

o(∩_o...Haha: Same as me. You are like this now, that is because you have not encountered anything that changes your personality, and after a long time in society, people will mature, or people who work earlier will mature?

You'll be able to see how good you are!

Be kind, be humble, what else can you say?

Usually review yourself more often, what are your shortcomings.

Observe the good in others.

Use autosuggestion. Imply that you have a lot of shortcomings and areas for improvement.

Set the right mentality, think twice, and socialize with people more The more isolated you are, the more isolated you will be, listen to and think more about everything, and then talk about it after you have organized your language.

The former is self-aware, understands what he can do, and treats others within his ability to make people feel sincere, while the latter hides his ability and strives to show the same appearance as ordinary people, and being too modest is showing off.

One is arrogant, the other is humble.