I think my mom is a burden?

There are so many grievances at this age, I really want to give you a hug, the original family is always a net that we can't escape.

I've had similar feelings and analyses before :

1.First of all, you have realized that many problems are not caused by yourself, you are really very good growing up in this environment, many times as long as you know that some things are given by others but not you should bear, you should try to avoid them.

2.You can try to understand first, generally speaking, the mother's emotional contrast is very large, the common reason is that the relationship between parents may not be too good, try to empathize with them, it is not easy to understand them, and most of their growth environment is like this, it's not that they don't love you, but they don't know how to express love.

3.Many times you are unhappy because you are too sensible, and now there is a lot of helplessness in reading, don't think about getting rid of it, develop your heart clearly in the horizontal line, just like the family gave a pair of shoes that do not fit, before finding the right shoes, you can't walk barefoot because they don't fit, many times resentment is that there is no way to change the status quo, if you can't change it, you can understand it and embrace yourself.

4.The expression of the important others may not be what you expect, but the important thing is that the important others are also others, now is the age when you are working hard, there is a saying: any day when you don't dance is a kind of disappointment to yourself, try to embrace yourself.

If you have ever felt that your mother is annoying, you may have different feelings after reading it. The picture inside may be familiar to everyone. The tune is rustic and the lyrics are simple :

Playing an umbrella in the house Beware of not being tall.

Eat more fish to be smarter.

When I was a child, my favorite thing to listen to was my mother's words.

I'll believe whatever she says. Cut your bangs shorter and don't cover your eyes.

What kind of fat loss can you lose and grow your body?

Suddenly, one day, my mom made me impatient.

But outside the door, she was still talking about the stubbornness.

Wear more of it, and when you feel cold, it'll be too late.

Go home early and don't wait until it's dark.

In the future, you'll grow up, you'll be pretty, you'll have your own home.

But you'll always be my little padded jacket.

If you are tired and tired, you will shed tears.

Remember that the door is always for you.

Mom, what she said was true.

Actually, I've always known that.

You're too demanding, aren't you? Your mother is looking for a man, is he not a partner, he divorced your father, right? You also asked him what money he wanted for cram school, so that you could not study well in a state-run school?

It's not easy for him to make a lot of money, and she also hopes to have a husband to rely on!

She treats you as his business, but you are you, as long as you have a clear conscience, not every mother can cook well, but the reality is like this, you accept the reality, but you also have the effort to change your current situation and make yourself stronger.

Mom is tired, which is understandable, but you should take the load off your mom and do what you can.

It's your own mother, then you have an obligation, understand, what is called, it's just that you're impatient, don't think about yourself as if it's noble, okay?

Then don't do it, you can do whatever you do to you when you are young, don't cook, don't buy groceries with her!

Summary. Hello dear according to what you said、Don't think like that、They must still love you Think about the good times you have together。

Dad seems to be getting more and more tired, and Mom thinks I'm like a burden, and they will be better off without me.

Forget it, you're busy.

Hello dear according to what you said、Don't think like that、They must still love you Think about the good times you have together。

I'm sorry to reply a little slowly.

At each stage, as parents, they have old and low losses, and they need to bear the pressure from all aspects of their lives, and if their father is the pillar of the family, they will definitely get more and more tired, and we can understand this as children.

I know that He Li used to have the same desire to take a late law as you, feel that he is redundant, pat them and tear them not to love me, why did they still give birth to me, and later when they grew up, they understood their difficulties, sometimes they really don't know how to express their feelings, and it will make people very angry when they say it

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