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If you speak to someone with a stiff language and no smile on your face, it can make people feel difficult to get close to, and even cause misunderstandings and communication barriers. Here are some suggestions to change that:
1.Adjust your attitude: Try to change your attitude to be more positive and friendly. Try to communicate with others in a friendly way and express your interests and concerns.
2.Smile: Smiling is a very powerful social tool that can ease tension and increase closeness. Try to smile when communicating with others, especially when expressing your own opinions and opinions.
3.Listening: Listen to the opinions and opinions of others and respond positively to their feelings. This can make them feel valued and cared for, and it can also help build better relationships.
4.Adjust your tone: Try changing your tone of voice to make it softer and more friendly. Try lowering your voice and speaking in a calmer tone.
5.Pay attention to your language: Be mindful of your choice of words and avoid using language that is too blunt or cold. Try to use warm, friendly language to express yourself.
6.Practice social skills: Participate in social activities and practice communication skills. This can help you better understand the feelings and needs of others and learn to communicate better with others.
Hopefully, these tips will help you improve your stiff language and lack of a smile on your face when talking to people.
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This has to do with your introversion.
Nature. related, and just acquaintance or.
Stranger. Talking, without smiling is actually normal, because you are not familiar with it, so you.
Tone. It's stiff, there's no smile on your face, but it's not like that with people you know, don't care too much, as long as you're human.
Intention. Well, heart.
Kindness, I've been with everyone for a long time, everyone knows what kind of person you are, and they will.
Good for you.
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It is highly recommended to contact smile, or laugh, the two extremes, the main criterion is that you don't feel uncomfortable when you look at yourself, you don't get tired when you smile, laughter is the business card of people's faces, and you don't necessarily have to smile at strangers, and when you are with friends, at least when you are with people who are closer, you can moderately relax your inner discomfort. I wish you a natural smile and an open heart.
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You don't need to take medicine, because you yourself understand that blushing when you talk to people is not a physical problem, but a psychological problem.
Actually, I don't think you blush when you talk to everyone, and you probably don't talk to your close friends and family. But why do you blush when talking to others? Maybe the problem is that you care too much about what others think of you, or that you're paying too much attention to yourself.
You should know that we don't pay too much attention to everyone's speech and behavior in social interactions, for example, when you interact with your classmates, will you pay attention to everyone's blushing?
Don't worry too much about blushing, know that even if you blush, as long as you can talk to your friends normally, others won't pay too much attention. But once you think you're the center of attention, it's hard to keep your mind calm and natural. To solve this problem, you need to take it step by step, first let yourself look at this problem correctly, don't pay too much attention, start with ordinary friends, tell yourself in advance every day, take the initiative to say a few words to a few people today, and pay attention to observe whether they will say wrong when they speak, whether they will behave very naïve, you will find that you are worried about your own problems, others will appear more or less.
Remember, we rarely become the center of attention, so it's all about taking it easy.
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I'm more shy, it's okay, I have more contact with people, and it's okay slowly.
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Comment 1. Read more.
Accumulate more stuff.
Sufficient knowledge is a guarantee.
to be able to say it.
Listen more. Listen to other people's chats.
Or the talker watching TV.
Listen to language programs.
Carefully experience other people's conversations and laughter.
The language used.
Say more. It's best to be able to talk to many people at the same time.
Use your own language to take the right to speak in your own hands.
Eliminate tension. Speaking in a formal setting is sure to be stressful.
I usually think about the content of my speech and my performance in public.
At last. It's you in your concluding remarks.
Eloquent. It's chic and free
Comment 2. Read more books, "there is poetry and books in the belly", and only after having ink can you speak eloquently.
Practicing courage does not mean that you should be upright, in fact, "straightness" should be more "peaceful", just don't be stage frightened when expressing opinions.
Talking more is not about talking nonsense regardless of the occasion, but when participating in group activities, you can talk more and exercise your eloquence.
Talk to people.
Read more books on logical reasoning.
The words of Detective Conan.
Look at its comics.
The language is gorgeous.
Especially the language of Conan's reasoning.
Be bold and speak out, and you're half the battle.
Comment three. You already have the desire to be cheerful and bold, so what you lack now is how to speak boldly! First of all, you have to be bold enough to express yourself in some public places.
The remarks, of course, are relatively small occasions! For example, in the class, in some speeches, competitions, debates, etc. This way you will find yourself bold to speak out about it.
It's a very happy thing to say, although your words may not be correct, maybe your words will be sneered by others, but the mood to speak your own words boldly is still very good, I am an example!
In the past, I didn't dare to speak in public, but I just said my own opinions in a class debate. As a result, I gradually began to enjoy expressing my opinions, right or wrong!! At the same time, I have become much more cheerful and have more friends.
If you want to be able to speak, the most important thing is that you talk more, only when you say more, you will know what to say on what occasions, and what to say to whom! At the same time, listening to others is also a great way to learn how to speak!
I hope you can be like me, not a silent person who doesn't dare to speak!!
Opinion four. Speak more naturally or awkwardly. You can find some topics that everyone is interested in to talk about, such as you and she love to watch TV, you can talk about some sensitive issues in TV, you can also discuss our clothes, mobile phones, computers, **la......As long as everyone finds a topic that interests each other, it feels like time flies quickly!
But this topic has to be communicated with her slowly, slowly understand, remember, sometimes it is very awkward and embarrassing to talk deliberately. May you talk a lot, so that you can be happy, and it is not good for you to never speak, especially if your mood will become bad.
Some people always sigh, some people often smile, some people open their mouths and say, "Oh, it's annoying, it's so tired", and some people always say "Hey, good, awesome, come on". When the leader assigns the work, someone is decisive and resolute, and the language is as sonorous and powerful as the execution, and you will hear "Okay, no problem, please rest assured, leave it to me".
It's not a problem that you're not confident.
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Because you are not confident enough, afraid that others will see your psychological instability, so always dodge, dare not look into the eyes of the interlocutor, this is no longer a matter of disrespect, but your psychological problem, you need to look into the eyes of others when they speak, listen carefully to what they are saying, and then you think about what you should say, how to say, and then say, not quickly, but to be clear and clear, so that you will slowly develop your own self-confidence.