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Anonymous users2024-02-13Leave him alone.
Go with the flow. Now he is in a period of emotional impulsiveness.
No matter what you say, it's nonsense to her, and she will know that kind of man clearly one day.
But I advise you that even if she comes to you again in the future, you should also consider whether you want to be with him, because she may not be pitying you at that time.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12Let's start with the question of how much you like her! I think, first of all, put aside whether she loves anyone or not, and who she is going to be with to talk about you! You know, if you like someone alone, and the other party doesn't like you, there will always be a lot of unpleasant things together, and no one will understand anyone Just like when you said she broke up If she insists on not letting go, what will happen to the result, you will definitely be very disgusted More unhappy things may happen Second, I think feelings can't be reunited But your psychology must be thinking, after getting back together, you will know how to cherish But wrong The other party's psychology may not think so, so the conflict will continue to arise Let's talk about her problem I feel the same way as you, and I have an aversion to Henan **More Now it doesn't matter if he's ** She loves this boy very much, she can pay for the boy, her heart is you and I can't even stop him Even if he was hurt that time, he was still willing to stand up for him And because of love She can forgive him, an ordinary person, she won't forgive As far as the boy is concerned, this boy should say that he loved her, but he is a fickle person, and he will care a lot about the eyes of his friends, and the people who are advised by his friends People who have just separated will always be nostalgic, Coupled with loneliness, it's hard not to miss her, even if she doesn't love her now I think they have no results, but the girl's sincerity has been swallowed up like this
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Anonymous users2024-02-11It's over. You guys
There's no future.
The table continues to be sprinkled
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Impress her with your true feelings.
Or confess like her.
Woman, a single-emotional animal once you identify a person.
She'll chase her to the end.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Accept your feelings: Facing your feelings for her, you should accept your emotional state and not try to suppress it. Being honest with your feelings and accepting your feelings for her is the starting point to begin letting go.
2.Change your thinking: Think differently and explain why you're not together and why you don't fit in with each other.
Reacquaint yourself with her, and you may find that she is not the person you want to be. Also, don't just see the beauty of a relationship, remember that there are also its disadvantages.
3.Share feelings with others: Sharing feelings with friends, family, or professionals is one way to release emotions. They may give you advice, help, or worries, all of which can help ease your emotions, reduce inner stress, and make it easier for you to let go.
4.Find new hobbies: Keeping yourself busy by finding new hobbies can help distract you and make you more independent. New hobbies also help you learn new things, which allows you to broaden your circle.
5.Maintain a positive mindset: Maintaining a positive mindset is crucial during the process of letting go. Think more about the positives, the focus is on relaxing your mind, starting a new life, and trying to create new intimacy in a new environment.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Falling out of love is a painful experience that is hard to let go. Convincing yourself that it will take some time and effort to let go of her, here are some suggestions:
1.Accept the reality: The first thing to do is to accept the reality that you have broken up and that she is no longer your girlfriend. While it may be hard, accepting reality is the first quiet step forward.
2.Don't blame yourself: Don't blame yourself and think you're wrong. Everyone has their own choices and decisions, and she may have made her choice, but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you.
5.Seek support: Talk to a friend, family member, or psychologist for support and advocacy. They can give you some help and advice to help you get through it.
6.Develop a sense of self-worth: Try to find your own worth and meaning, and build self-esteem and self-confidence based on that. This will help you better deal with emotional deficits.
7.Find new experiences: Try new experiences and opportunities, such as traveling, studying, attending social events, etc. These experiences can help you break free from falling out of love by broadening your horizons and getting to know new people and things.
In short, it takes time and effort to let go of her, but as long as you are willing to try, you will definitely be able to get out of the shadow of broken love and find your happiness again.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Face both ways.
Don't you stay away from this kind of person decisively, and plan to keep it for the New Year? You're the spare tire, do you know?
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Find someone better than him and put it down.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05And him? "I don't want to say more, brother, as a man, don't be a spare tire.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04She has someone else, and she's obviously better for him than for you, so what else can't you let go.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03Teacher Cai said: To persuade others, we must grasp four points: 1. Be mindful.
The reason for persuading others to be the loser is to help the other person, not to control the other person. For example, if a student complains to the teacher about a classmate, the old suspect will ask him: "Do you know that xx** is not doing well?"
What do you think when you come to tell the teacher, is it to gloat and want to see xx be criticized, or do you want to help him? "2. Timing. There is a famous saying in Zeng Guofan's family motto, "Yang is good at the public court, and the rules are better than the private room", which means to praise and praise the good deeds of others in front of the public; Admonishing others for their faults when no one is in private.
It is about persuading people to talk about timing. In the Analects, there is also the phrase "can be said but not spoken, and people are lost." Don't talk with words, lose your words.
The same is the time to be persuasive. 3. Attitude and method. Be calm and calm.
4. Patience. Be prepared to admonish many times, "if you don't admonish, you will be reciprocated". At this time, you can't blame the other party for not listening, but to reflect on your own ** not in place, the other party has not changed because of their "morality" and the fault "does not come".
Moreover, before admonishing others, the most important thing is to let them believe in themselves first, as the Analects says: "(A gentleman) believes and then admonishes, and if he does not believe it, he will slander himself." "Meaning:
If you don't gain trust, others will think that they are slandering him.
Your brother is going to divorce, I think you should persuade him well, after all, everyone's marriage cannot be divorced, it requires the joint efforts of the husband and wife, and the support of relatives.
My personal way of dealing with it is to carry out this relationship to the extreme, so that I don't regret it in the end. Then the result is not acceptable, and he leaves. I am not afraid of letting go in life, but I am afraid of unwillingness and regret after letting go. >>>More
In fact, it is really common to encounter this kind of thing in life, but if you say something as a best friend, I think you should be cautious, I once had such a best friend, who is a very good woman, whether it is my own conditions or, I still have academic qualifications, it can be said that I am the best choice. But I just can't find a kind of person who I am in love with, at that time I also wanted to persuade her to lower her own requirements, but she later told me that I am a person who has requirements for love, I hope that my love is perfect and happy, and I have this condition, so why should I lower my requirements? >>>More
My husband is also an old smoker, he has never been able to quit, in fact, he himself wants to quit, but this kind of thing has been smoking for so many years, it has become addictive, it is difficult to quit, my husband has also tried some methods, such as chewing sugar-free gum when the addiction comes up, he likes to smoke one after eating, and then he thinks of ways to drink more water, eat fruit or go for a walk after the meal, and also tell others that he has quit smoking, don't give him cigarettes to smoke, don't smoke in front of him, etc., and then he can't hold on, it's over, I also consulted relevant experts, saying that it is not good for the old smokers to quit smoking completely by perseverance, and quitting smoking with perseverance, quitting smoking will have withdrawal syndrome, because the level of nicotine in the body suddenly drops, which can make the body uncomfortable, resulting in irritability, anxiety, restlessness, insomnia, weight gain, anxiety or depression, blood pressure and heart rate fluctuations, muscle and bone discomfort, etc., so it is necessary to use external forces, such as nicotine replacement products, with the help of smoking cessation electronic products, etc., quitting smoking will become easy. The success rate will be increased by 3 to 4 times. So under the advice of experts, I also bought my husband two courses of Chinese herbal medicine alternative cigarettes, better than e-cigarettes, I have also learned a lot before, it is a pure Chinese herbal formula, nicotine-free new, healthy, environmentally friendly smoking cessation, cigarette replacement products, can also clear the throat and dissolve phlegm, improve the body's immunity or something, it is recommended that you can also try, the address I will not send up (because I can't send **, heh) you go to the web search "Kangjie Research Network" can be found.
You have to remember what I said today, you don't have to persuade anything, you have to speak strongly, just talk to him, what I said to you, say, what about you, remember what I said, one day you will think you are stupid, hehe, I used to be the same as him, I was in contact with a man in society in high school, he was very masculine, and he mixed well, he talked nonsense with other women, and they were separated, I was very sad when I was divided, but now, I think, why do I fall in love with him, that's because people always have to grow up, The world is so big, after a long time, you will find that those are not what you want, really! It's good to grow up, you don't have to say too much, sooner or later he will wake up, he won't wait until the day she gets married, it's not suitable is not suitable, it's not suitable in many aspects, thoughts, etc., so it's good after a long time!