-
Girls are coquettish, and generally boys don't get angry, but there are some things that also need to be seen, after all, it can't be a matter of principle, such as having too ambiguous behavior with other boys.
-
1. Don't say a word to him, you will take it right away
When you argue, he says one thing, you take one sentence, you may be explaining why you are doing it, you feel that if you tell him why, he may forgive you. But he may feel that you are still arguing with him, that you are retorting with him, that you are not trying to get him to forgive you.
An angry person, it is useless for you to explain too much to him, he will not listen, he will only feel that you are arguing. So don't say a word to him when you quarrel, you take it right away, and be sure to wait until he is not angry before explaining.
2. Take the initiative to admit mistakes
After spoiling, the other party is not angry, but also take the initiative to admit the mistake, let the other party know that you are really wrong, explain why you do it, if you do something that you can't explain yourself, then you still do it according to the first point, be coquettish fiercely, and tell the other party that you will never do that in the future.
3. Pay attention to your attitude when speaking
No man likes to hear you admit your mistakes and have an attitude of "it's me who is wrong". "It's me who is wrong, right" is as if he forced Liang to become a prostitute, this sentence will make people feel that you don't really want to admit your mistakes, you don't feel that you are wrong, he forced you. Such an admission of mistake is meaningless, and it will even make the two people quarrel more fiercely.
4. Coquettish
In fact, the most effective way to make your boyfriend angry is to be coquettish, and they all say that coquettish women are the best! Whatever the reason, the first thing to do is to be coquettish. Because boys like girls to be spoiled by themselves, coquettishness is a very useful way, no man can be angry with a woman who is spoiling him, if there is, then you are spoiled.
-
One, he doesn't even know you're angry.
In a relationship, guys are relatively rational, and they don't shift their focus to love, but to work better.
For boys, love is the good life.
but work is the eternal guarantee.
The more responsible a man is, the harder he will work hard and conscientiously in order to give you a stable and prosperous home in love, and forget to observe you around him.
That's why sometimes you get angry and he doesn't know why he's coaxing you, he doesn't even know you're angry and he'll play other jokes with you.
If he belongs to this type, you can generously tell him not to think about it over there, and if two people want to be together happily for a long time, they must communicate more.
Second, you are often angry, and he is used to it.
Some girls will become hypocritical and start to act when they are in love. She felt that "it was he who chased me at the beginning, I had a better choice, but I chose him, and now I am chased, he is not the same as before, he doesn't know how to wash his head, and he has to save up for days to wash his stinky socks." ”
Remember: you are boyfriend and girlfriend, not mother and son.
Don't worry about the little things in his life, and don't get angry because he didn't go the way he expected in life.
Yesterday you were angry for that, today you are angry for this, in his opinion, it is all trivial things, you are purely looking for trouble, after a long time, you don't need to say it, he himself will choose to leave and get out of this relationship.
-
Tired and unloved: Coaxing unreasonable anger is tired and doesn't want to coax.
In the process of dating between men and women, in fact, many times women will have a petty temperament, and occasionally "do" it, which can increase the interest of the relationship and make each other more familiar with each other's personalities, which can be regarded as a "test". After all, there are always all kinds of unhappy things happening, and it is impossible to always greet each other with a smile, so how to resolve the other party's grievances when the other party is angry is actually very important.
However, there are some women who do not grasp the proportions well, are very "acting", turning anger into daily life, often "unreasonable", asking the other party to coax themselves, but afterwards they are "unrepentant" and continue to make ......trouble unreasonablySuch a woman is often angry, often asks her boyfriend to coax, and over and over again, has constantly consumed his patience and love, making him tired, how can he play that pleasing role?
So when he is tired, he knows that you are angry, but he doesn't coax you, because he is also tired. He would even wonder if it was because he was too tolerant that he made you so unscrupulous......
Straight man is guilty of cancer: Just right or wrong, no matter your emotions, I'm not wrong, why should I coax you?
Of course, there are also some men who will not appease your emotions when you are angry, but will use "straight man" thinking to consider problems. He thinks "why are you angry" and "am I angry?" "Whose fault is it?" and so ......onOnce he decides that it is not himself who is wrong, even if you are angry with yourself, he will not feel that he should coax you to ......
-
If a man does this, it means that he doesn't love you anymore, so it's better to give up and find someone who truly loves you to be happy.
-
That child should be self-respecting and self-reliant, why should people coax it, just this word shows that the pattern of girls is a bit small.
-
Change the object, he doesn't love you anymore.
-
What should I do when my boyfriend doesn't want to coax me when I'm angry?
You can tell him that the standard of fairness and justice between men and women is not advisable, change your attitude appropriately, and then the two of you can communicate well. Your boyfriend doesn't take the initiative to coax you to shout, and when we are in love, we can position ourselves after a quarrel and figure out why he is unwilling to coax you.
If you want a boyfriend who will come to coax you after every fight, it depends on what kind of boyfriend you want to have, your boyfriend is not willing to coax you, you have to try to change this state of being frank, after this cold and fierce quarrel, who will bow his head first to mediate, which makes both parties very worried. Cold violence will cause varying degrees of physical and mental damage to each other. Therefore, couples should prevent Okino cold violence.
We must first learn to let him abandon the "standard of fairness and justice" between men and women, and the reason why couples are reluctant to speak first after a fight is because they both feel that the other person should apologize to them first. If the other person does not admit their mistake, they will never speak first. Because of this criterion, you and I don't want to get out of the situation in the first place, and we don't want to think carefully about whether this criterion is reasonable.
The purpose of this standard is to show the direction of individual behavior for our daily lives, but if we adhere to this standard, we can easily lose our emotions.
In addition, we also need to change our emotions, and a key way to do this is to change our emotions before we can get out of the predicament of cold violence. If it is your emotion that makes him feel very stressed, and he doesn't know how to coax you, he simply doesn't coax you, so you can change your mood, and everyone's physiological condition will be happy because of the release of stress. What you say next will definitely lighten up a lot and also help to find a more objective state of mind and perspective.
Only those who speak first are considered true warriors, and only perfect thinking and high emotional intelligence can guarantee what to do in love, and I hope the above can help you.
-
Is it that you are unreasonable, thinking that you have nothing to do, and talk to him seriously.
Busy at work, men and women are different, men only think of you when they are free, and you will want to bridge him whenever you want, this is the difference. Don't envy and focus on your boyfriend, otherwise it will make you unattractive, and you won't like him, after all, it's not easy to meet the right person, and you can only cherish it for a long time.
-
Don't be angry if you don't coax you, there is an old saying, if the mountain doesn't come to me, I will go to him.
-
If your boyfriend doesn't coax you when you're angry, you have to think about whether you're being unreasonable and talk to him seriously.
What you need to know is that a straight man is a very lazy creature and being. Especially the communication and communication between lovers, for them, they can dodge and avoid. This is one of the common bad things in straight men, and together with "I obviously have a cold, my boyfriend only knows to let me drink hot water" and "Why does my boyfriend always play games instead of me", you can tie for the top three of girls' "I hate my boyfriend's behavior the most".
For these bad problems, there is no way to tolerate them, and now these small details of carelessness, in the long run, you will find. In the end, he became careless about you and the relationship. At that time, it is too late to cry again, to redeem and change.
Have you ever explicitly expressed your displeasure with him and asked him to get rid of this bad problem?
But why is there a situation where girls are angry and boys don't coax, one is because they are too lazy to coax, and the other is completely incomprehensible. Why can't you understand it? Because women value feelings and men focus on vision, we all have experienced, when we go to school, after the lights go out, the boys discuss which girl is beautiful in the dormitory, and the girls discuss which boy makes them feel better.
Boys' evaluations of girls are almost the same, but girls have their own "Prince Charming" in their hearts. The reason for this is that most boys are visual people, and most girls are sensory people. There are three types of distinction from the perspective of human intuition:
Visual, auditory, sensory. Visual people see the world with their eyes, auditory people hear the world with their ears, and tactile people feel the world with their straight sail sense.
Visual people like to say adjectives related to vision, such as you see, the Great Hall is so majestic! This mug is beautiful! Words such as "see", "see", "show", "imagine" and so on will appear in the sentence, for example, what do you think about this?
What do you think of this person? Do you imagine what the future will look like? Their eyes are used to looking up because they are looking at the images presented in their minds based on your descriptions.
So, boys and girls think completely differently, maybe your boyfriend doesn't understand it at all.
In fact, for you, the secret to promoting the development of a relationship and solving the obstacles to getting along is communication. If you have already found out about his bad problem and feel uncomfortable, then why not just tell it, it will increase the risk of breast cancer if you keep it in your heart.
-
Hello dear, I am happy to answer your <>
Coax your boyfriend not to be angry, you can be coquettish, take practical actions, pretend to be cute, and actively reduce <>the height of your body
After getting along for a long time, there will definitely be friction and quarrels. At this moment, if you accidentally make your boyfriend angry because of your own reasons, the best way to coax your boyfriend not to be angry is to "be coquettish" Oh, a woman who knows how to be coquettish is destined to live a good life. No boy can resist the lack of rejection of his girlfriend to return to the Zen occasional little coquettish, but coquettishness is a good way to overcome rigidity with softness.
A woman's coquettishness is always better than a man's, but here I want to explain that the so-called coquettish is not to make you coquettish, but to learn to have something to say, and in the same way, it is not to make you love a coquettish woman, but to learn to love coquettishness. <>
<> to capture a man's heart, first of all, to catch the man's stomach boyfriend is angry and needs you to coax, you might as well make a good meal, of course, the key is that he likes it, if not, buy food from the restaurant to pack, prepare wine, talk to your boyfriend on the table, in addition, you can also give your boyfriend a small gift that you like, add some gentle little gifts, add a few gentle words, hugs, kisses, no matter what qi will disappear. <>
-
Summary. There will always be conflicts when two people get along, and at this time it may be that the girl makes the boy angry, so the girl should coax her boyfriend not to be angry, so that the other party will forgive you.
There will always be conflicts when two people get along, and at this time, it may be that the girl makes the man Lu Zao angry, so the girl should coax her boyfriend not to be angry, so that she will forgive you for Zaozi.
1. Find the reason why your boyfriend is angry When your husband is angry, you must first find the reason, and then help him untie the knot.
2. If a man is missing when he is angry, and the message is not returned, then you can dry him for two acres first, and when he is in a better mood and wants to open, then go to him.
3. When you will show weakness and take the initiative to apologize to comfort your angry boyfriend, you will also show weakness and take the initiative to apologize, so that your boyfriend will be soft-hearted and may not be angry.
Couples will inevitably quarrel when they get along, and girls need to be coaxed by their boyfriends when they are angry. In the same way, a guy needs his girlfriend's comfort when he is angry. If your boyfriend is angry, what can you do to keep him from getting angry? Let's teach you a few tricks in Huazhen emotion, learn how to coax your boyfriend! >>>More
Don't do this in the future, from this point of view, she is a good girl, you must cherish it and treat it well, understand? Don't call it that anymore. What you have to do now: apologize!!
First of all, you have to apologize, no matter what the reason for the anger is, the boyfriend should take the initiative to apologize; Then ask her to go to a monumental place and give her a deep kiss about how much you love her.
To be honest, if my boyfriend is always angry with me, I won't coax her at all, it's normal for people to have a temper, it's normal for the two of us to quarrel, occasionally you coax me, I coax you, that's all acceptable, no one says that it must be a boy to coax a girl, but if he is always angry with you, always wants you to coax him, I think such a man, he has no manhood at all, it must be that kind of mother, then such a man, I really wouldn't want to. >>>More
Women sometimes have to distinguish this thing, after all, your boyfriend hits you like this to show that he really misses you, why do you say something that is not in your heart? This doesn't do any good at all, and it will make him a little depressed, since you want to, you have to talk about it. Many times, I am used to not expressing my true thoughts to the person I love, so that the person I care about will be happy only if he is jealous. >>>More