How can people be happy, and how can people be happy?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-19
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Short-term happiness:1Eat a good meal.

    2.Get a lazy night's sleep.

    3.If the weather is good, go to the park (not too dazzling); Rainy and cold days, hide in the quilt and watch ** TV series, listen to the wind blowing outside, and the rain is crackling; Go to the business center in the evening; In winter, wrap yourself in a rice dumpling or ask a good friend to go shopping alone (especially now that Christmas is approaching, and everywhere is beautiful).

    4.It is very satisfying to tidy up the house and tidy it up.

    5.Take out a notebook and write a plan full of plans (although not necessarily dry).

    6.Draw and color.

    7.Sing KTV

    Long-term happiness:1Exercise, I want to exercise when I have time, self-discipline gives me freedom, and I will be proud and satisfied with my body every day in the later stage.

    2.Find something that you like and are interested in, insist on doing it, sign up for classes if you have money, pretend that you are at work and insist on going to class, but don't expect the results, you will be very happy if you don't have pressure to fool around.

    4.Money, money is the happiest (but don't be too tired).

    The following are the words I saw in Zhihu a few days ago that I think are quite meaningful, although a little off-topic but in fact, it is the same truth, to do meaningful things will be happy, even if it is just some small things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First, we must have a job, because work is the material needed to maintain our survival, which can make us live a more satisfying life and increase the happiness index.

    Second, to have a ** of your own, after work, leisure time, you can organize some of your hobbies, such as: ****, all the memories of our life times are kept in it, this is the memory of our life and memories.

    3. Know how to share, because people who know how to share are happy. Life in the world cannot exist independently. A person who will respect people and be good at giving love to others will surely enjoy more love and respect.

    Fourth, we must be grateful, and grateful people will not be submerged by the tide of market competition. Because gratitude is a spring breeze, which can decorate the dead branches and grass with vitality. Thanksgiving is a cup of fragrant tea, which can make the person who tastes it refreshed and refreshed.

    Gratitude is a good medicine, which can adjust the tense interpersonal relationship to be kind and natural.

    Fifth, we must have a heart, the so-called big love is boundless, and small love is extended. On the street of love, there are no red lights, no yellow lights, only unimpeded green lights. The key of love can open any iron lock between the heart, whether acquaintance or strangeness.

    Love is a colorful cloud woven by the colorful mind.

    Happiness is actually a simple state of mind, it has nothing to do with the material you have, as long as you pull out the fence of desire in life, have a calm and indifferent state of mind, and stride forward on the road of life, happiness will naturally follow behind you. Calm and indifferent, contented and happy, happiness is always with you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Doing what you like to do, listening to the warm **, going out for a walk, and looking at the scenery of life is also a comfortable and happy way. Go out with friends and exchange friendships. People, once they are idle, will think a lot of things wildly, which will complicate what they think.

    So you have to get busy, keep it simple, and live well...

    The days cannot always be sunny, there are ups and downs, sorrows and sorrows, depression and loneliness, and life is colorful.

    It is impossible for a person to be happy all the time in his life, to forget his troubles and sorrows, to forget his bitterness and frustration, to forget yesterday, to forget himself, and to forget his fragile feelings.

    I wish you happiness and joy in life, joy and joy (*

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Adjust your mentality and have an open-minded mood. Let go of what you can't get, don't set too high goals for yourself, and live a chic and comfortable life. With this mindset, you will live a special life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    "Happy"It refers to an emotional state in which a person is in a comfortable and happy mood.

    The first is to adhere to the basic principle of value exchange when interacting with others, accept the benefits or interests of others must make corresponding feedback, create happiness and satisfaction with self-reliance, no emotional entanglement, and high psychological harmony;

    The second is that desires and wishes can basically be realized through their own efforts, because they do not ask for others, there is no sense of guilt in their hearts, and their psychology is sunny and heroic.

    And so"Happy"It has both spiritual and material prerequisites.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't think about sad things, just keep good memories in your mind!

    Make yourself happy and forget about the unhappy:

    1.Go out for a walk, read a book, change your mood, and relax.

    2.Confide in a close friend and don't close yourself.

    3.Don't pay too much attention to the things that are disturbing, because if you pay too much attention to them, you will be more distressed.

    4.Don't think about what others say or do, maybe sometimes it's not aimed at you.

    6.Don't put too much pressure on yourself, just do what you need to get done every day.

    7.Think of something happy and do something that makes you happy.

    8.Give yourself and others a smile no less than 30 times a day.

    9.Believe in yourself and tomorrow will be better.

    10.Self-motivated, get up every day, look in the mirror and say to yourself: "Morning, ** you have to be happy today!" ”

    I hope the above points will be helpful to you, thank you! You have to work hard!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Learn to forget the past, learn to be strong, learn to be brave, live your life for yourself, and don't be a substitute for sadness!

    Just face life, don't remember the past, remember that your friends around you will always bless you, forever and ever!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Not the person closest to you can be the happiest, happy things are everywhere, but when you are in a bad mood, even if you are very happy, you can't be happy, if you want to make yourself happy, don't think too much, people live and do everything to be happy. Say something happy all the time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a hard question, and if there is a way, everyone won't be so miserable!

    The problem of mentality, you see that Zhang Weijian is always so happy!

    It is good to let go of the heart, and no difficulty can be overcome. As long as you don't die, it's fine, but if you die, everything is over!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Once, Ge You invited a friend to dinner, went to the toilet halfway, and when he came back, his pants were wet.

    Friend: Why are your pants wet?

    Ge You: Ever since I became famous, I've been doing this a lot.

    Friend: How often?

    Ge You: Not really! Often the person next to him peed and suddenly turned around and shouted: "Isn't this Ge You!" ”

    Are you happy?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think more about the happy things you've done in the past Don't think about the troubles that make you feel happy in this way.

    People have only lived in this world for a few decades.

    Why do you have to live so tired?

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I've had a similar experience.

    Even feel alive.

    Pointless. But on second thought.

    And people who love themselves.

    No matter what the feelings are.

    At least that's a concern.

    It's not worth it. Something.

    Just because you can't let go doesn't mean you can't.

    Find more things for yourself.

    Achievements will calm you down.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want to be happy, you can be happy, if you are not happy, you will not be happy, happy is just a word, what is it like to be happy, 10,000 people have 10,000 + n ways to say, and their own method is the most suitable for themselves.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sometimes you need to deceive yourself.

    I just thought I'm happy, I'm happy.

    That's how I am.

    Although sometimes it doesn't work.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's up to you, the key is that the mentality is very important, I think, you have to have a simple and simple heart, then you will be happy.

    After all, life is short, and happiness is the most important thing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Others coax us out of pity, only when we know how to laugh can we be happy!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    See what you are capable of, and don't pursue things that are beyond your ability.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Do what you want to do or what interests you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't take anything too seriously.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Keep a normal mind, face everything with an optimistic attitude, and learn to be content and happy. Then you will feel that you are surrounded by Xinfu. Do you still feel unhappy? Whether you are happy or not is just a matter of your mentality, as long as you do what I say, then you will be happy every day!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If there were no clouds, would the sky be lonely?

    If there is no sky, clouds to **mooring?

    Would I still be happy without you?

    If there is fate, time and space are not distances;

    If you don't have a chance, you won't be able to understand when you get together, you don't have to care too much about everything, and you don't need to force it!

    Just let it be!

    Escaping is not necessarily avoiding.

    Facing it, it is not necessarily the saddest.

    Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy.

    Get, not necessarily long.

    Losing doesn't necessarily mean that you don't have it anymore, you may be sad for a reason, but you can find a reason to be happy!

    You can be as happy as you want!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think from the moment you open your eyes every day, you have to say to yourself that today is a good day, no matter what happened yesterday, after all, yesterday is the past, it can't be changed, don't let yesterday's troubles affect today's good mood, everything starts now!

    When you are working, no matter how busy the task is and how stressful it is, don't complain about your work, like your work, don't start the day with resentment, and you will have a sense of accomplishment to complete your work step by step!

    Don't compare with others, so that you will live very easily, people's biggest enemy is yourself, I think you should have heard this sentence, so, it is not interesting to compare with others, only compare with yourself, you can always have a goal, don't measure yourself by other people's standards!

    When you encounter unfair comments from others, let others talk about them as long as they don't hurt your personal dignity. After all, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, and no gold is enough! What others say is right for you to take seriously, and what you say is not right.

    You just sing as him, don't take it to heart, there are so many boring people in this world, if you all worry about them, how can you have a good mood!

    The most important thing is that no matter how busy you are at work, make time to do what you love to do, such as listening to music, doing sports, etc.

    Hope you are happy every day! Good mood every day!

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