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Anonymous users2024-02-15Hello, I can see that you are very conflicted about your hesitant personality, and it is really confusing to make up your mind to do things, and I can also see that you are confused about this psychological phenomenon of yourself, and you also want to be decisive.
I suggest that you think more about the pros and cons of doing things in real life, and think more about the good aspects of things to decide how you make your choice.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14You want life to be solid, secure, coping and in full control.
An illusionary expectation will eventually bring with it the danger that the illusion will eventually be shattered.
Often the life itself is not a big deal, but because of the longing and hope of our hearts.
Aka himself knew that he should not expect any method. It takes time to execute the method, and the process has always been to emphasize your problem without getting you rid of it.
So find yourself! When you see it clearly, you will have courage.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13I'm the same person. Establish some decisive principles for yourself. For example, force yourself to throw away things that have not been useful in the last three months. Start with the little things and force yourself to make a decision in thirty seconds.
It all starts if you are really determined to want to change. If you don't even have this determination, and you hesitate to change it, then you will not succeed.
At the very least, it's okay to hesitate before making up your mind, but once you've made up your mind, you have to force yourself not to waver.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12Everything needs to be done slowly, not to put too much psychological pressure on yourself, it is precisely because there are all kinds of problems in life that we can get full exercise. Hope you can overcome yourself and find happiness!
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Anonymous users2024-02-11You're about the same as me.
Nostalgia and indecision.
There is no good way.
Change is on your own. Attitude is everything, and what kind of person you will be in the future.
It stands to reason that you are a kind person, you can't give up anything, and when you encounter any difficult problems, you have a big head and want to wait for others to help you give an answer.
But if you want to do big things, you have to exercise.
I'm afraid of heights, but I'm just standing on the edge of the top floor, and I'm scared of myself!
Exercise more, we're tired a lot of the time, especially emotionally.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Positive and negative !!
The world has three sides, and the combination cannot be achieved, don't blame yourself too much, no one is perfect.
You have to be brave, if you really don't have the courage, you will drive yourself to a dead end, put yourself to death and live again!!
We were doing a big homework, it was very troublesome, I was almost finished, but there was a big mistake, I kept arguing about whether to start over, and I was uncomfortable for a day, and I poured ink on the painting at night.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09It's the same as what I was experiencing.
To solve this ambivalence, there is no best remedy for one's own perseverance.
When doing something, don't be too depressed, don't leave the problem for two seconds, the so-called "cut through the mess" is a truth. Try to do it this way, and when you do it this way, the same problem will be gone! Good luck.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08It's like "having a choice is having trouble".
It is difficult to make a decisive decision if you think too much, so it is recommended that you try to be a lot of thoughtless adventurers, make decisions based on your first feeling, and try a few more times to get the answer you want
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Failing to evaluate oneself correctly, positioning oneself well, and moving in the right direction is a wall on the road to success. The correct approach should be to have a correct understanding of oneself and find the coordinates of life. Change the wrong mindset.
It is often said that "man is responsible for self-knowledge", that is, he neither underestimates himself nor underestimates himself. It's easy to recognize this. But to do this, not everyone can do it.
I want to go to a position where I can give full play to my talents, and I want to make greater achievements than others...Almost all of us are self-motivated and have a desire to improve the status quo. However, it is very important for people who want to succeed if they are able to accept the current situation and environment in which they are currently located.
There is no such thing as a perfect person, and there are some shortcomings and personalities that are born with the well to be brought to the grave. Just look at the great achievers of the sharp object, and you will immediately understand that they have all embraced their natural selves.
Friedrich Nietzsche once said, "A wise man only needs to know himself." Nothing is lost.
Only by knowing yourself correctly. Only then can we be full of self-confidence and not lose our way in the ship of life. Only by correctly understanding oneself can we correctly determine the goal of struggle in life.
Only with the correct goal of life and self-confidence to fight for it for life, can you have no regrets in this life, even if you don't succeed, you will have no regrets.
Breakthrough in thinking: positioning determines life.
To some extent, a person's development depends on his own evaluation of himself, which has a popular noun positioning. In your mind, you are what you position yourself in, because positioning can determine life, and positioning can change life.
There is a process of self-denial and self-confusion after disorientation, the so-called disorientation, it means that a person does not know where to go somewhere, as if standing at a crossroads, suddenly you don't know how to do it, that's it, self-denial and self-confusion are not good, you don't even believe in yourself, why do you think others believe in you, right, you have to learn self-affirmation, not self-denial, of course, there is some self-denial, But what you need more is affirmation rather than denial, confusion is something that everyone has, from childhood to adulthood, without exception, but whether it is self-denial or self-confusion, you have to know that you can, really, you have to believe in yourself.
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