Why is it so easy to cry when you quarrel with someone?

Some people are just lower than others, but the more important thing is that you care. There's a saying that if you care, you lose.

If you don't care about the quarrel and the person you're fighting with at all, don't cry, you won't even quarrel with him or her.

So, if you want to take the initiative, you can only reduce the level of care you have, be more open-minded, be more detached, don't be too strong, you just have to be better than your opponent.

When it's time to quarrel, you don't care, he cares, she cares, what you say he and she is angry, he says that you don't get angry, then you don't win.

Probably thin-faced, because it's not your fault so you feel wronged, try to control yourself not to quarrel, be reasonable and not be loud, and ignore him if you can't make sense (of course, if it's a matter of principle, you can't back down). To learn the art of speaking, you can also try to speak loudly in public or sing and dance to train your courage.

That's because you don't have a good ability to bear it in your heart, you feel that if you quarrel with others, others will look at you differently, in fact, this society is to look at it openly, don't care so much about others, you just need to live as you want to live, happy.

Be strong, maybe you are not good at quarreling, and you don't disdain to quarrel, or maybe there is no one to help you, a group of them are indiscriminately coaxing, it may be that you feel wronged, no matter what, it is very important to have a strong heart, come on, good luck.

Hello! Glad to solve the problem for you. In life, we often need to communicate with others, but we will encounter some disputes in the process.

You don't have to take it too seriously, just treat it as something unimportant, stop arguing with yourself in your heart, and you won't cry! Since your own approach is correct, there is no point in arguing with others, just follow your own ideas!!

The weakness brought by me since I was a child, I can only slowly become strong after crawling and kneeling in society, you don't get discouraged, don't be arrogant, study hard, do what you should do, and avoid unnecessary quarrels as much as possible.

According to your description, you're one of those people who don't quarrel much. Then I was wronged, more aggrieved, and I couldn't say it. It has to do with the individual's personality, so don't worry too much.

Why do you cry when you are arguing?

Regarding the phenomenon of "tear incontinence", there is actually a professional research.

Dr. Robert R. Provine of the University of Maryland has pointed out that tears are the body's response to strong emotions that cannot be suppressed, including anger, which also means that --- anger can be the reason why people cry.

After all, the human tear duct is not that smart, and although we tend to cry as a response to grief and grievance, the human brain and tear duct cannot recognize the two differences.

Whether you're feeling happy or wronged, sad or angry, your brain sometimes just recognizes that you have a strong emotion and sends instructions to the tear duct.

- Your brain thinks like this: I don't know what's wrong with you, but you seem to be serious, so let's cry first!

So, you are arguing and crying.

Of course, from a health perspective, as a healthy way to cope with intense emotions, tears can be a good way for people to cope with emotions better, and can help us take deep breaths and regulate our heart rate, so as to better calm down excessive intense emotions.

This is a sign of psychological fragility, and when there is a conflict with others, it can cause fragile nerves in the heart.

This is the way you are now due to the character development when you were a child, slowly change it yourself, although it is a little difficult to say, but you must change it, because this is a fragile character who cries for help.

So first of all, I think you should be a girl, so you are easily affected by emotions. But you yourself feel aggrieved and uncomfortable. That's why I cried. Learn to be strong in the future and slowly control your emotions tomorrow. You can take your time.

Because many people quarrel with you because they want to see your jokes, you are not easy to quarrel with others and cry because your feelings are very fragile.

Quarrel and cry, this is a weak will, emotional grievance and childish performance, have something to say, crying may not solve the problem, pay attention to emotional control, find the reason from yourself when you encounter something, respect and tolerate each other.

In fact, most of us are more emotional, and we will cry when we encounter things that make us unhappy, angry things, and things that we can't figure out.

You have a tear incontinence physique, and there's nothing wrong with that, and I'm the same physique, and this kind of physique is very sensitive, emotional, and very easy to be moved.

Because you don't have combat effectiveness and feel that you are wronged, you can't say what you want to say, you can only express it by crying.

The external cause may be family low tear spots.

The internal reason may be that it is more brittle and the average person is more likely to cry when they are wronged.

The psychological capacity is not strong enough.

Adjust slowly, people are slowly stronger.

Summary. Reason 1: She is not good at communicating with people, and she is not good at quarreling with people, so every time there is a quarrel, she always suffers dumb losses during the quarrel, so she cries while arguing.

Hello, crying when you quarrel is related to the following reasons.

Reason 1: She is not good at communicating with people, and she is not good at quarreling with people, so every time there is a quarrel, she always suffers dumb losses during the quarrel, so she cries while arguing.

Reason 2: The person who quarreled with her was too strong, not only strong but also messing around, so she cried while arguing.

Reason three: his own personality is weak and cowardly, so that as long as he quarrels, he will cry at the same time.

It's especially easy to cry when arguing and arguing with others, because I have been wronged in my heart and vent my normal emotions.

It's okay to be emotionally cathartic in moderation, but we can't be people who are fragile at heart.

When encountering any problem, we must calmly analyze its root cause and find a way to face and solve it.

In this way, I can face difficulties smoothly, solve difficulties, and make myself better step by step and become a strong person in my heart.

Summary. The main reason is that he didn't have the upper hand in the quarrel, and the other party didn't understand him very much, in fact, he didn't want to quarrel, but he had no choice but to quarrel.

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Because the mood fluctuates when arguing, it leads to emotional ups and downs.

In addition, I am very aggrieved, so I want to cry.

The main reason is that he didn't have the upper hand in the process of quarreling, and the other party was very reluctant to understand himself, Lao Duan actually didn't want to quarrel, but he had no choice but to quarrel with Hanmo.

The main reason is that there are too many grievances accumulated in my heart, and I can't help but burst out and cry all of a sudden.

At a certain moment, I couldn't bear it all of a sudden, but I was very helpless, so I wanted to cry.