Why is there a lot of confidence in many things? But after the parents objected to the denial...

Updated on psychology 2024-06-30
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The denial of parents does have a great impact on children, which will make them lose courage and momentum.

    For you, although you are very confident and motivated before the start of the matter, it is true that you do not have a clear understanding of the real difficulties of this matter. Maybe you have had a corresponding matter before, and you started confidently, but you shrank down after a little difficulty, which may give your parents such an impression. So then their trust in you becomes smaller, and this kind of unscrupulous words can easily appear.

    As you grow, you need to start a few things. If your parents have no encouragement, only resistance, you can start to talk to them about what causes them to find things difficult, listen to more opinions, it is helpful for you to correctly understand the difficulties, predict the difficulties in advance, and make corresponding response plans There is always no mistake, save real problems, there is no way to really panic!

    People like your parents belong to the most common group in the family. You can't change this reality, for your future, you can only reduce their impact on you, so what you believe, do it bravely, don't look ahead, on the one hand, want to do, on the other hand, want the help of your parents. If they can help, they can help, but if they can't, it's up to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There's a lot of this, and that's how I am, I've been depressed for 10 years.

    It wasn't until after I got married, I had my own economy, and I could leave their mother-in-law alone, and when I let it go, I realized that I lacked good experience and ran into walls everywhere, so I remembered their words, which made sense.

    The Chinese tradition is to be humble and evasive, and to treat children's education in a bitter way.

    It is to a certain extent that hinders the sharpness of the edge, and it is also the result of the large sea water polishing the rain flower stone.

    It is normal for young people to be impetuous, arrogant, and it will not be long before your parents will stop you, because it is time to hone you, and then you will leave the haven to soar on your own.

    When that day comes, you are thinking about today ...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It was at this time that a female teacher named Fira took over the class. On the first day of the new school year, Fira didn't. Try to do what you want to do in your life, and you will all become great talents......"It's Fira.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You have to believe in yourself and have more confidence in yourself. Take their words as a spur and show them what they have done.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is what your parents said is not right, you have to learn to self-regulate, heartache is certain, but how to do it as much as possible, doing it well is equivalent to letting them know that they are wrong. Trust you to do it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have to think about whether what you want to do is really valuable, and if it's valuable, try to do it, and take your parents' words as a spur on yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If your parents can say what you have listed, then I think your parents are a failure. But I also hope that you can have your own persistence and make a proof to your parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What parents say is usually very reasonable, but saying it to you may also be a way to motivate you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Make one for them to see.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No. Although I haven't worked in college yet, I've felt it to some extent.

    I am a native of the mainland, and my ideal major is film and television creation. At that time, I was admitted to the Northwest of the Frontier, and although my major was not my favorite, I liked it a lot, and it was also about film and television creation.

    When I told my parents about my admissions, I had a big disagreement with them. This school is an undergraduate school approved in advance, and it has a good reputation and reputation in the mainland, but because of the regional environment, distance and major, I had an unprecedented conflict with my parents.

    I insisted on going to this school, not only because I didn't want to go through the life of my senior year of high school once, but because I thought my major was promising, but my parents insisted that I repeat my studies and fight again. During that time, I couldn't meet my parents, and when they did, they would be arguing, and even every time I ate, one of them would break his chopsticks and leave. This lasted for almost two months before slowly subsided.

    Although my parents couldn't resist me and still agreed, because of the epidemic, I took online classes at home, so my parents told me more than once that I would drop out of school, and even took me to the temple to ask the old monk to help me calculate whether I could take this road, but I never let go.

    In fact, think about this matter, why do parents strongly oppose it? Because they are afraid that you will not have a good life, your parents have lived most of their lives and have taken many roads, and they know better which roads are easier to walk and which roads can make you live better in the future. But because their parents are old and have been living in their own circles, they have not learned about some jobs, and even some promising emerging careers they have never heard of, they think that these roads have no future, and they will think that these roads will be unstable in the future, so they will strongly oppose them.

    When parents strongly disagree, we will refute it, and when communicating, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels. Why do there be heated arguments? It's not just your parents who think you're contradicting them, but the most important thing is that you're trying to reach a consensus with your parents in a quarrel and are trying to solve problems.

    And what is this consensus? Kai is the one you hope you will live well in the future, and your parents also hope that you will live well in the future.

    Parents and us will inevitably have a modern disagreement, and there will inevitably be differences in concepts. When you think that one thing is very beneficial to you under the premise of conforming to the core values of socialism, then you can stick to it. Parents strongly disagreed, so wait for both parties to calm down before going into detail.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    For me. If it's a job I love. Parents strongly disagreed.

    I wouldn't give up. I'll just work with what I like. Or rather, with my passion for my work.

    to convince my parents. I love this job very much. This job also needs to.

    A young man like me, so in every sense of the word. I wouldn't choose to give up this job.

    I also believe that with my parents' understanding of my personality. They knew that what I saw was not going to change easily. I will only be more positive in this job.

    Do better. With my best performance. I am very suitable for this job, and I love it very much.

    I think parents don't care what decision they make. I know they're all because they care about me and love me. will oppose my work.

    So I won't go out of my way to force my parents to accept it. This job of mine. I believe in time, which will tell.

    I was not wrong in my choice. I believe that one day. My parents will also see me at work.

    Outstanding performance. I'll be proud of you, too. They probably won't show it in front of me, that pride.

    But I can feel it myself. I believe it too. One day, my parents will understand why I chose this job in the first place.

    Yes. Understand me and support my work. Anyway?

    Parents are parents. No. for his own children did not listen to him once.

    They don't care about their children. Therefore, as long as I am in the right position for work. It is also useless for parents to strongly oppose it.

    I'm just going to do my best to do this job. Let my parents approve that I chose this job in the first place. That's because I'm good at it, and I love it.

    In fact, my personality is completely inherited from my father's personality. From small to large. I am a very assertive and individual child.

    So whatever? I will stick to my choice and go on bravely. Even if I encounter thorns in the process of this work, I will bravely know the man, this is my character who does not admit defeat.

    Character who doesn't easily compromise with reality.。 Based on my character. So, when my parents were strongly opposed to my work.

    I wouldn't choose to give up my job. I will only work harder for this job. With my excellent grades, my father starved the liquid mother.

    Whatever? I also believe that my parents will understand me one day and will support me in this work. Support my decision to choose this job.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Sometimes, some things will be persistent!

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