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Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!
Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.
Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.
When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.
When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.
The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!
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Treasure. If he doesn't love you and doesn't love you anymore, why bother to love him and love him again.
In the primary school ideological and moral textbooks, the teachers taught us, and the giving and reciprocal are mutual.
For a person who doesn't cherish you, no matter how good it is, what will it be?
Hehe, think about it, even if they are barely together, the twisted melon is not sweet.
Maybe it's right to let go.
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Let it go. Work a man who doesn't love you.
Waste of spirit. It will hurt you even more.
It's better to try to reach out to other boys.
Maybe there will be a better one.
There are many good men in the world.
For example: Me.
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You have to think in your heart, since he will leave you, sooner or later he will leave her. You should be glad that you see him for what he really is. Usually seeing him smiling and casually looking like he is doing anything or saying hello means that you can live well without him.
He won't be guilty of guilt.
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I want to know, on what basis do you judge that your boyfriend still likes you? Why break up with you when he still likes you? It can only show one problem, you think too much, he likes you is actually just on the surface, and there is actually no more you in his heart, or the result is not so bad, he does still like you, but it is because of the family because of illness or a series of other unspeakable hardships.
If the problem is with you, that is, he actually doesn't like you anymore, and indeed I don't know how the subject knows that he still likes you, but since he wants to break up with you, it still means that he likes you, but he doesn't just like you. In this case, I think it is better for two people to be separated, not only to fulfill him, but also to let himself go, even if you beg him to leave him, he may not have a little pity for your hysteria and stay, or he is soft-hearted to stay, so what, together will not be as good to you as before, and will not follow you in everything, on the contrary, you may suffer more grievances. That being the case, your letting go is good for both of you.
If the problem is with him, then it means that he still likes you, and there is a reason for your entanglement in your thoughts, and if it is not good, it is that he may have some incurable disease, or he is not capable of giving you a rich life, but he wants you to be happy, so he chooses to leave you. If this is really the case, you have to be unswervingly by his side, because two people who love each other are separated alive, both of them are painful, he has an incurable disease, I think I am afraid of affecting you, at this time you have to spend the few years left by his side, if he can't give you the life you want because of lack of ability, then you must be by his side to give him strength, because a man with self-knowledge will be a hundred times stronger than those who know that they are incapable and drag you hard.
Therefore, before you are ready to leave or stay, you must first find out why he proposed to break up with you, don't blindly make a decision to not only embarrass the other party but also wronged yourself in the end. If you choose to leave, don't look back, it's always not good for you to look forward and backward, give yourself a little time to overdo when you break up, and then start your new life, don't remember the past and forget the past; If you choose to stay, then be firm in your original intention, be good to him, and endure his occasional little willful temper.
Your own decisions are made by yourself, don't wait until you make a decision and regret the decision you made, there has never been a regret in this world, and there is no turning back after every step you take out. Every decision must be made with a clear conscience, not to let the future self regret it, worthy of the sky, worthy of the earth, worthy of the pounding heart of oneself.
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At this time, you have to ask him why he broke up with you?
You think, you have to know why he wants to break up with you, so you can ask this question.
According to what you said, you know that he still likes you, but he wants to break up with you, I think it may be that he feels that he is not very happy with you, and he may feel that there are some problems in your relationship.
Then, if you still want to keep him, you have to make some changes, or let him know that you are sincere about the change.
If it's because you love to lose your temper, I know girls will do it, so I want to lose my temper and use it to prove my status in the eyes of my boyfriend.
Then when you want to get angry, you have to think about the consequences first, which may consume your feelings. That means don't get so angry, don't think too much.
For example, how did you confess at that time, the first time you held hands, the first time you kissed, the first time you went out on a date, and the first time you watched the stars Balabala.
In short, let him feel that you still have a lot of happy and sweet memories together, so that he is reluctant to leave you.
Then if she wants to break up with you for some objective reasons, such as some development problems between the two of you, there may be a different place or something, you have to actively discuss it.
Show that the two of you will be willing to reconcile some issues for the sake of the relationship.
In short, it is necessary to communicate more, so that the problems of two people will be solved, and don't miss a beautiful love for some misunderstandings.
I wish you all happiness.
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You can ask why you want to break up, if there is any misunderstanding, say what you have, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable in your heart, then don't give up, if you give up, you will regret it in the future, if you still like him, keep it, if you don't like him, then break up.
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