Why do you have to grasp the degree of chatting with girls, and you must know how to advance and ret

Because girls are more sensitive creatures.

I often see boys say that girls are difficult to understand, and their minds are always twisting and turning. In fact, as long as you know certain skills, it is very easy to communicate with girls, because most girls are very soft and kind-hearted.

First of all, you can't chat with girls with impure purposes, and casual vulgar jokes without proportion will not make girls find them funny, but will only make people think that you are a despicable person. But if you can use humor appropriately to amuse girls, your liking will increase greatly. This is the art of speaking that needs to be practiced, and it needs to be grasped well.

I suggest that boys should learn the mode of getting along with girls in the youth and you, not high-minded, but also engage in some humor, but it just makes people feel that the other party does not offend you from the perspective of the opposite sex, but can get along equally and amicably and make you feel respected, so it is very pleasant.

And boys really don't try to be the winner in a fight.

Ichimo insists that he is right, without considering the other person's feelings. It's easy to feel like you're a small-bellied person. When dealing with girls, don't try to be reasonable, just follow their logic.

When the relationship is not good to a certain extent, don't cross the line, and say something unpleasant and derogatory to girls without measure. Girls are very face-loving, and they like to listen to compliments. If you keep degrading her, the other party will stay away from you over time. It's important to get the right balance.

Knowing how to advance and retreat means to show weakness appropriately in the relationship, learn to bow your head, and don't always uphold machismo.

Because girls will also have their own persistence and stubbornness, if you just suppress her, it may have a bad effect.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, you should uphold the principle of respect in the relationship, listen carefully to each other's ideas, and then understand and tolerate each other. The most taboo thing is to blame the other party completely from your own point of view. Endless quarrels are very emotionally hurtful.

I hope everyone has sweet love.

Because girls are more sensitive than boys, there is not much security in comparison. Girls are easy to think too much, their imagination is very rich, and inappropriate chat content will make girls disgusted. even broke off the already accumulated good feelings, so you have to talk to girls well, know how to advance and retreat.

Too enthusiastic to look frivolous, too cold to look wooden and unsympathetic. Girls are sensitive creatures, and a good grasp of proportion can best reflect a person's self-cultivation and demeanor.

I think that if the chat is too intimate, it may make the girl feel uncomfortable and feel that she is too anxious, and if she is too indifferent, the girl may feel that it is impossible.

Because if you don't know how to be measured when chatting with a girl, it will make the girl feel that she is a frivolous boy.

Because if you don't have a good sense of proportion when chatting with girls, it will make girls hate you and hate you, and it will make girls think that you are not easy to get along with.

Mainly because if you grasp the degree, then you can make the girl's good impression of herself stronger.

First of all, we must grasp a scale, usually when chatting with girls, we must not say some privacy between each other, and ask some particularly embarrassing topics. Or it's particularly impolite, to say something particularly excessive. Be sure to chat normally.

Keep a certain distance when chatting with girls, don't say some ambiguous words, don't do some ambiguous actions, be very gentlemanly when chatting with girls, and be very polite when chatting with girls.

If you don't talk to her, she'll never come to you.

You invite her to play games, she doesn't say that she uninstalls the game or that she is not available, obviously you remember that she likes to play games, specifically because she plays the glory of kings, in fact, she still loves to play games, but she is invisible.

She never tells you anything about life, only you try to express yourself, but you never know her.

In the chat, you are often looking for a topic, she never takes the initiative to ask about your daily life, if you end the chat, it is really the end of the chat, you once blamed yourself for not being too boring, how did you talk to death, in fact, people just don't want to talk to you, but you don't confess, just like to chat with each other, but because of your friend status, the other party will definitely not be able to directly not reply to your message, but if there is a chat, you can only stay here at the point.

Messages sent to her never came back in seconds.

It's polite not to accept any kindness from you, whether it's a cup of milk tea, a meal, or a gift.

Eh It's not easy to meet a girl who is excited, after all, most people and we may have a relationship for a lifetime, a girl paper that can bring light to your life, maybe others think it's very ordinary, but it must be a girl paper on the tip of your heart Maybe it's a little baby fat, laughing like a fool Cold on the outside and hot on the inside In fact, it is very gentle to touch, silly but very cute.

If you meet such a treasure girl, you must take advantage of it So if you encounter the above situations when chatting, how should we grasp this balance? Here I give my advice

Chat should be about quality, not quantity.

The circle of friends should show their own characteristics and even advantages as much as possible.

Don't treat or deliver things at every turn.

Proper distancing can help warm up the relationship.

Rather than providing material needs, it is more important to solve the spiritual needs of the other party.

It's a beautiful thing to like, and you can't rush it.

We have to learn to show some ** values in chatting, such as your quality of life, your leadership temperament, your social skills, your emotional value, and your own opinion on something, etc., which all belong to ** values. The value display can expand the girl's window, and then we need to use the girl's window to interact with the girl in the chat. That's right, interact with the girl, so that the girl has the desire to reply to you.

For example, if you express your opinion on a topic, she evaluates, she expresses her opinion, and you evaluate. That's an interaction. So why some boys feel like they don't have anything to talk to girls is because they don't interact with girls.

A good chat rhythm is that if you talk about it that day, you will talk about it every other day, and then if something interesting happens in the past few days, or if there is something interesting in the girl's circle of friends, you can chat as a topic, and then share it interactively. There is one point, where did I see it, I feel very right, the chat can not stop at the shallow level, we must slowly go to the heart, talk about those values, outlook on life, and outlook on love, this kind of chat can really shorten the distance between the two sides. Girls will have a lot of ideas at 11 o'clock in the evening, and when they don't sleep, they can try to talk.

No matter what you are talking about, you should have a good grasp of the frequency of chatting. Back to the girl's VX, don't go back every second. Generally, the second back and the 5 minutes or so back a cross, when you go back, you have to say sorry for being busy just now, it seems that you have something to do.

The content of the reply must be more than 3 sentences, and directly reply with an expression and oh, hehe, goodbye, okay. There is another trick, say good morning for 5 days in a row, and don't say it on the 6th day, she will usually take the initiative to say good morning to you.

As the saying goes, if two people don't talk speculatively, there will be an awkward conversation. If the girl is more introverted and conservative, then the scale of your chat must not be too large, pay attention to the look and action on her face when speaking, if the topic exceeds the range she can accept, then she must not be interested in your topic, there is a perfunctory answer or a look that does not want to listen anymore, then you must change the topic in time. If the girl is a lively and cheerful person, then the topic scale may not be so formal.

In short, chat, chat happily, continue to talk if the conversation is speculative, and stop in time if the topic is not appropriate.

If it is a relatively unfamiliar stage, you should talk about some topics that girls are interested in and show your strengths, such as you can take pictures and play the guitar, etc., which can be shown in the chat; If it is a more familiar friend, you can praise her appropriately, such as "The lipstick you wore today is good-looking, it suits you", and you can also push and pull, such as "The clothes you wore today are beautiful, I remember that my mother also has one", so that the praise of the slightly joking and slapstick atmosphere can narrow the distance between the two of you; If you are currently in an ambiguous relationship, you can talk about some more ambiguous topics, for example, if you ask a girl to eat something delicious, you can say something like this: "You have to hold my hand, otherwise I'm afraid that you will ignore me when you see something delicious." "If a girl gives you positive feedback, then it's natural for you to hold her hand on a date.

In short, at each stage of the chat relationship, the scale of chat that girls can accept is different.