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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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It will not turn into hate, because when love reaches its deepest, it will be wordless, wordless love.
The pain of loving to the deepest will not turn into hatred, because after loving deeply, the hurt will be indifferent.
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That's right, but it's not good, and you'll be able to extricate yourself.
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Some people say that love to the depths is hate. The first time I've heard this statement, I'm sorry for being alone. Let's analyze whether love to the depths is hate.
There are many kinds of hate, it may be hatred, it may be resentment, it may be envy, jealousy, hatred, it may be remorse, and is there any? I don't know about the rest.
Love to the depths is hate? I don't think so. Love is still love in the depths, it is deep love, or sublimated love, why does it turn into hate?
Even if you can't love, it will be a blessing, a concern, and at the same time, it is also a spur, through this love, let yourself work harder, be more competitive, inspire yourself to work harder, love life more, love life more, cherish yourself more, and make yourself live better.
Perhaps, there is only one kind of love, which will turn into hate, and that is betrayal. For example, parents love their children and hope that their children can grow up and be self-reliant, but children are very rebellious, do not love themselves, do not cherish themselves, and are willing to fall, which may make some parents resentful, from love to resentment, and hate them. In essence, a child's lack of self-love, self-respect, and self-esteem is a betrayal of his parents.
It should be the only kind of betrayal that turns some parents' love for their children into hatred in the depths. As for what else is born of love and hate, I don't know, I really can't think of it.
In me, love is love, and it will never become hate, let alone love to the depths of hate. If you can't love it, you can only bless it, yes.
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I care about a person in particular, and I care about everything about her (him). Later, for some reason, love turns into hate, and how much love becomes how much hate.
than deliberately suppressing one's hatred, or letting oneself hate; What people need more is to find a balance between the positive and negative experiences of "love and hate".
Some people blame themselves for their hatred, thinking that they are petty, immoral and even vicious. But in fact, "hate" is more like a protection mechanism for being harmed. In "hate", people slowly heal and regain their strength and eventually no longer need "protection" from "hate".
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