In the face of complex workplace relationships, is it good to want to be a full time wife?

Charlotte Brontë, the author of Jane Eyre, said: "People live to be hard", which shows that life is not easy. Human evolution has left us with the gene of "laziness, contentment, and lack of progress", thinking that this way life is more stable and comfortable.

But:

You think you're safe, but you're not

Is it safe to escape the complicated workplace relationship and be a stay-at-home wife? As a stay-at-home wife, when only your husband is left in your life, can you maintain an increasingly intimate and harmonious relationship with your husband in the face of social isolation, and can you not let yourself become boring and make him lose interest?

It is indeed very comfortable to live without struggling, but when you enter the state of a comfortable full-time wife, you will begin to be lazy and lax, and this change is often gradual and slow, so that you are not easy to notice, and gradually you will find that your original things will not be able to keep, including family and property, failure will follow, and you have no ability and strength to change it, once you fall, it will be difficult to get up.

Just like Luo Zijun in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", he thought that words could live a safe life, but he had to work hard with his children when he was almost middle-aged.

Don't let time wear you downDon't let yourself be abandoned by time

Many people seek a stable life, but stability never means that you can give up progress and covet comfort.

Here's a small example:Upchurch, the son of a plumber in the United States, is at odds with his beautiful girlfriend about the future, and he just wants to live a simple life, with no competition and no hassle. And the girlfriend wants a more exciting life.

But the simple life is more difficult, he lost his job in the economic crisis that swept the country, his marriage did not go well, and his life was in trouble after the divorce. And his girlfriend became the wife of **Obama!

When we decide to live in peace, we lose the ability to deal with the dangers and crises that lie ahead. For the sake of stability, it does not necessarily give us the return we want, and then we can only regret it!

We can achieve something that even shocks us

When we are brave enough to face it, we can achieve something that even shocks us.

There are reports in the United States that a police officer managed to escape from the gas**, and according to scientists' calculations, he escaped from the fire faster than the sprint world champion at the time! In other words, he used almost non-human speed at the moment of escape.

He was able to escape because of his strong desire to survive, which prompted him to run as fast as he could. Therefore, if the intense pressure of complex interpersonal relationships in the workplace is transformed into motivation for you to improve, then I believe that these problems can be solved.

What's more, complex interpersonal relationships can be solved in many ways: for example, to understand some human nature and use it, such as learning some speaking skills, winning praise from others, and so on.

Run away from the problem, it will eventually drive you into a corner and there is nowhere to escape!!

Stay-at-home wives are back in the workforce, which is very difficult for them because they have dropped out of the workforce and many jobs don't want stay-at-home wives. Therefore, when a stay-at-home wife wants to return to the workplace, she can work in some office and other positions, such as administrative clerks.

Work is particularly important for everyone, a person only has a job will have the value of existence, many families after two people get married, women will quit their jobs, choose to be at home with their husbands and children. In fact, this approach is not approved, women must have a job of their own regardless of whether they are married or not, only in this way will you be respected by many people. Don't think that after getting married, your obligation is to marry and teach children, at the beginning, your husband respects your practice, but when you ask your husband for money for a long time, your husband will dislike you.

Therefore, a woman must find a job after getting married, no matter how hard and tired she is, don't abandon her job, if a full-time wife wants to return to the workplace, she can find an easier job, such a job is more leisurely, like many offices now need clerks. And this kind of work is also very easy, very suitable for full-time wives, and many stores nowadays will suffer from some shopping guides. Stay-at-home wives can go to these stores for an interview, because you have more experience, and it is very convenient to sell, so you will have a higher income.

As a full-time wife, you can also go to work in the supermarket, and today's supermarkets need a large number of women, no matter what age group they are, they can find a job that suits them in the supermarket. Therefore, a stay-at-home wife can also find a job, as long as you dare to try, you will find a job of your own, if you always dare not try, your life will not be exciting, and you will not have your own job.

I think I can be a childcare sister-in-law, a dietitian, a psychological counselor, and a childcare worker, which have low requirements and are suitable for stay-at-home mothers.

Full-time wives return to the workplace and can engage in many jobs, such as supermarket cashiers, supermarket clerks, online micro-businesses, **open**, real estate sales, etc., these jobs are simple to start and easy to operate, and they are more suitable for full-time wives.

I think that stay-at-home wives can go back to the workplace to engage in these jobs, if they are good at their skills, they can go to the type of housekeeper nanny, if they are ambitious, they can go to sales, this is easy to learn and the most important thing is to choose a career that they like.

There are many jobs that can be done, such as insurance, self-employment, parenting bloggers, consulting industry, sales, etc., as long as you can play to your strengths.

You can be engaged in clerkship, mother and child shopping guide, sales, self-employed, and you can also choose your own professional related work.

Start with the basics, reception work at the front desk, auxiliary work for leadership assistants, and teaching work for lecturers.

You can start simple, slowly exercise your ability, you can do quite a lot, you can learn from your major, find the right job, or consider taking the public institution, civil servant, the most important thing is to have confidence in yourself.

For stay-at-home wives who have experienced a long career gap, both professional skills and social vision can become an obstacle to development. Sundale believes that for full-time wives who have been out of the workplace for more than 18 months, it is necessary to participate in some relevant knowledge and skill training before joining the company to complete the knowledge update and make up for the knowledge gap. This is also a process of enriching self-confidence for people who doubt their abilities.

In reality, it seems that there are more insurance.

Learn parenting skills, cooking skills, and housekeeping.

One party is already married, and the other party is single and unmarried.

But no matter who you are, work is always a very important part of life, because this is the foundation of life.

1.How to balance family and career.

For the plot in the TV series, in fact, one of the most obvious problems is about Sun Heping's estrangement from his daughter.

In his own opinion, his efforts are actually to be able to give his children a better material foundation.

However, when he gave all his time, and even on the premise that he barely accompanied the children to grow up, in fact, he did not get what he wanted, and even let his daughter look so rusty when standing in front of him.

That's why he regretted it: he had done his best, but the result was always unsatisfactory and he didn't reach his goal.

Of course, for us, perhaps, we can't experience Sun Heping's feelings, because we are just doing a job in front of him.

This job can provide a minimum daily consumption for a family and can meet the daily needs of the family.

However, it is true that this job also consumes a lot of time with our family and occupies a very important part of our lives.

Therefore, how to balance and coordinate the balance between family daily life and workplace work has become a problem that many people also need to face.

2.At home and abroad, it's all giving.

Excluding some single men and women who are not yet married, couples who have entered the palace of marriage are faced with nothing more than two problems:

First, there is the sharing of family problems. Second, it is the balance and care of various material needs of the family.

Especially for those dual-income families, the daily contradiction is nothing more than the disproportionality between the pay and the gain.

In the eyes of many husbands, they have been fighting for this family all day, and when they return home, they should get enough rest.

In the same way, the wife also worked a day. She was reluctant to go home and face all the chores, so an argument ensued.

But in fact, the question has never been who has done how much, but how the other party views the other party's efforts.

When anyone tries to do something, he doesn't want to be happy, and they just enjoy the results and ignore their own efforts.

In other words, the out-of-home out-of-home is a contribution to the family, and the care of the home is also a kind of contribution, both of which should not be ignored.

3.You have to know what you want.

For many strong women, the most important problem they need to face is not knowing how to balance family and career.

They are accustomed to putting some of the rules of the workplace in their own family business, which is actually impersonal in itself.

Whether it's the male protagonist and the female protagonist, or the male protagonist and the male protagonist, the essence of it, everyone hopes that your home can become better.

The difference between the two before the two is ostensibly whether they work or not, but in fact it is more about whether they have the ability to make independent financial expenditures and the attitude of their families; Working mothers have their own independent experience ability, first of all, they need the understanding of the family, and they also need to balance the two aspects of work and family, and secondly, it is not easy for full-time mothers to be mothers, family chores, take care of children, and the company of children will be relatively more, but to balance family and work, you must also have your own space and time, your own private space; Neither is easy, but the family's understanding, companionship, and family need to be run together, not by one mother, if the family does not understand, it will be sad.

Sure that the full-time master is difficult, and there is no guarantee Cong Peichun, isn't it just to live in a different place, and the initiative is completely controlled by others, but this person does not have his own parents, so he will not give up.

I chose to be a working mom, and being a working mom can bring the following benefits:

1.Enhance economic income. After having children, the financial pressure on the family will increase, and working mothers can increase the family's economic income and improve the quality of life through work.

2.Enhance social identity. Working mothers can gain a sense of social identity and self-worth through work, and at the same time, bad write-offs can also set a positive example for their children.

3.Increase your network of contacts. Working in the workplace allows you to meet a wide variety of people, expand your network resources, and provide more opportunities and resources for future career development and personal growth.

In short, working mothers can achieve multiple benefits such as increased economic income, improved social identity, expanded network resources, enhanced professional skills and improved self-growth through work. However, it is also necessary to pay attention to the balance between work and family, and arrange time and energy reasonably so that family and work can be balanced and coordinated.