How to express your anger elegantly?

Personally, I think the more elegant way is to tell the other party in a calm but firm tone, I'm angry now, if necessary, you might as well briefly explain the reason for your anger in the next few sentences, but in fact, most normal people will take the initiative to apologize when they see you tell him that you are angry with such a serious attitude, if the other party is also angry, then it's another matter, after all, anger is actually a strong dissatisfaction with the situation, compared to scolding, It is enough to simply let the other person understand that you are very dissatisfied to the limit of patience, and there is no guarantee that you will do something next.

Elegantly expressing one's anger, in fact, is not to let yourself behave too impulsively, for example, when I am angry, I will not deliberately show it, but will treat the other party more coldly, at this time, anyone with a discerning eye can see that he is very angry. Moreover, this way is not only elegant, but also allows the other party to know their state clearly. Don't argue with others.

It's just the best gentleness. I've always believed in that, and I've always done that. It works so well that you can try it.

Why don't you take advantage of the wind and soar to 90,000 miles. To put it bluntly, why don't you fly to the sky, it's the other party's proud and complacent attitude, or the kind of detergent tone that makes people helpless and speechless. At the same time, you can also use this sentence to express your dissatisfaction and anger.

There is also a saying that those who know me say that I am worried, and those who do not know me say what I want, and they also express their dissatisfaction with that person.

When I want to be angry and can't show it, I will sit or stand calmly, smile, and then look at the other person sincerely, and say naturally and smoothly in a respectful tone, I can't agree with your point of view, please understand. Or, I can only respectfully decline your request, I am very sorry. Say something right, a look of pity, a look of pity, a slight shake of the head, or a shrug of the shoulders.

It's very simple to express your anger elegantly, as long as you use the way of a literate person. For example, we will say, "When you hear your words, you are human, and you are so wild that you know whether you are high." These are all elegant words used by us cultural people to express their anger.

In my opinion, there are many ways to express one's anger elegantly. I remember a few years ago, my friend and I had a falling out, but neither of us wanted to show our anger directly, and at that time, I just ignored him. Always face him with a cold attitude.

In general, it is to treat the infuriating person with a distancing attitude. This is the gentle way to express one's anger.

First of all, I don't think I'm going to swear when I'm really angry. If someone provokes me, I will reason with him, make him realize his mistake, and apologize to me. Because I don't think some quarrels that don't know the reason won't solve the problem, and it will only deepen the conflict between us.

It's better to explain the truth calmly and let him understand.

If you are calculated, humiliated, or slandered by the villain, which makes you physically and mentally exhausted, troubled and angry, I think there is a limit to forbearance, and there is a bottom line! Once you can't bear it anymore, you have to be like a tiger and a lion to defeat the enemy, and use your wisdom and wisdom to make it realize that you are stupid and immeasurable, not an opponent, and you will weigh it from now on! For those who affect the violation of your dignity, entanglement, slander, slander, and affect the violation of your normal life, study, and work, we must be brave enough to take up the laws and regulations, and we must not be cowardly and cowardly, and we must let them be punished and taught a lesson!

I think a cultivated person is a brave and self-confident, self-respecting and self-loving person, friendly and principled bottom line, in expressing her anger is justified, different degrees and different ways to treat it correctly, maintain their dignity!

Here's an example.

An important step in the reform of colleges and universities a few years ago was that students were no longer forced to attend a certain lecture and were given a choice. All classes are not held according to natural classes, students are taught in the classroom, and they have the right to choose the class they want to listen to and the teacher they like. If a teacher does not choose his class, he will face dismissal.

The reform has put pressure on some university faculty who are boring in their lectures and rely on roll calls to retain students. Nearly 1,000 students took my course at the beginning of the semester, and many teachers had very few applicants.

In order to save face, some teachers who did not really want to improve their teaching methods strongly criticized me at a teaching work meeting attended by their leaders.

Some teachers asked: Why students like to choose my classes is because I am not strict in attendance, release water to students, and lack professional ethics.

Some teachers even believe that students choose my class because I have an improper relationship with students (especially female students), and they demand that the school deal with them seriously.

What would you do if you were me in the face of such a vicious attack at a meeting?!。

If, after thinking calmly, you feel that the other party is deliberately slandering you, then you don't have to be polite. If you have emotions, you must release them reasonably, don't suppress them in your heart, and only yourself will be hurt like that. Cultivated people will fight back by expressing their feelings and emotions.

For example, when two people meet after the final exam, one of them sarcastically mocks the other: "Yo, you did well in this exam, you see the beauty, you can't find it in the north." The other person listened to it and felt that the other party was deliberately saying something cool, so he shot back:

I did okay in this exam, it's pretty beautiful. If I don't do well in the exam, I'm even more beautiful! ”

Cultivated people express their anger and dissatisfaction with fluttering words, and will not express it emotionally, or immediately embarrass the other party, cultivation is in the bones, even if you are angry, you will not attack immediately, you will definitely endure it, and patience is a kind of cultivation.

When angry, how a person behaves can reflect the person's cultivation. A cultivated person, when angry, no matter how angry he is, at least he will not scold, he can still stay calm, express his own views and thoughts, and then find out the fault of the other party and achieve his own goals, I think this is also an expression of his anger and protection of his own rights and interests.

We will inevitably encounter those low-quality villains who are unreasonable, crooked, and behind the front of people, and we can sometimes have to deal with such people, so we can only show self-confidence and courage, and let him not be able to touch your heart with a neither humble nor arrogant, lukewarm attitude, and produce a sense of distance and majesty, so that he has no intention of making it bad and does not dare to entangle. But there is no need to offend him in words, the ancients said well: it is better to offend a gentleman than to offend a villain.

Expressing anger is not about arguing with someone else, arguing so red that you can't get a result, or smashing something. I've always felt that arguing with people is really a waste of life, and it's okay to be angry, tell yourself to calm down, there are many ways to solve problems.