Should I confess to someone who has a boyfriend and doesn t like me?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This confession, without warning, will frighten people.

    Do you want to hint at it first.

    It doesn't have to be spoken.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's talk about it first, it's useless to confess everything. She likes you, and if she doesn't confess, she is also your person, and if she doesn't like you, if she confesses, she will be shot. Why do men have to be famous?

    You also signed a contract, who is whose girlfriend, who is whose boyfriend, and you are not allowed to change it within half a year?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't want to leave yourself with regrets.

    Then be brave enough to speak up.

    But remember how she confessed and what her boyfriend would think.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Why confess when you think she doesn't like you. But asking this way shows that you like her, and express your inner feelings truly and naturally. It's going to test your courage and endurance! Personally, I don't think I'm going to pursue someone who has a boyfriend and doesn't like me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really can't help it, then confess. And then you're basically out of play.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't confess, some feelings are destined to have no results, it's just wishful thinking. If you don't confess, you can still be friends, and if you confess, you're nothing. Feelings for impossible people, burying them in your heart is the best choice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You're a boy, aren't you?

    Like a girl who already has a boyfriend.

    So how do you know which girl doesn't like you?

    Is it that she's already told you explicitly, or is it that you feel about it?

    If she's told you that she doesn't like you and that she has a boyfriend, then why would you humiliate yourself?

    But she doesn't tell you explicitly, but you guess it yourself, and she doesn't like you, so you can try to confess to her, in that half-joking, half-serious form, so that you don't even have to be friends in the future.

    Tell her that it's okay to like someone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Go if you want, maybe she likes you too, just don't regret it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, if you like it, you have to say it, don't let yourself regret it, maybe there will be unexpected Oh ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Try chasing after her as long as you like, and if the girl doesn't agree, be there to protect her if you want. The highest state of love is that the person you love is happy, and you will be happy. If the person you love is not happy, you will not be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you like her, tell her! Whether she likes you or not! At least you won't regret or regret it! If she rejects you! Forget it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As a man with a temperament, Lie is too boring.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your boyfriend brought you to his own friend, but did not confess it, because he thinks that the relationship between the two of you has become very clear, and his friends can see it, so there is no need to deliberately introduce it, in addition to the possibility that your boyfriend is a more careless person, and when talking to friends, he will leave the confession behind.

    First, some boys don't know how to deal with relationship problems, especially the kind of people who fall in love for the first time, even if they are very happy, they don't know how to express it, and sometimes they will form a kind of psychology, hoping to treat the relationship between two people as a secret, so that others can discover it little by little, and his heart will be full of satisfaction when he sees the surprised expressions of those people. Of course, it is possible that he thinks that after letting others find out about the relationship between the two of you, he will take the initiative to introduce those people. On the other hand, if he directly introduced you to those people as his girlfriend, he would be suspected of showing affection, so he didn't confess.

    Second, your boyfriend takes you to meet his own friend for the first time, during which his energy will be highly tense, and it is inevitable that there will be omissions in the face of different people, for example, when you meet, his friend begins to greet him, so that he will forget the most basic introduction, of course, it is also possible that he has a very tacit understanding with his friend, and has already introduced you to the other party, and the other party knows it as soon as he sees you, so your boyfriend thinks that there is no need to make too many introductions, You just need to get along naturally.

    Third, it may be that in your boyfriend's heart, you are a more introverted character, and your boyfriend is afraid of introducing you directly and causing embarrassment, so he will subconsciously ignore it. In this case, you can ask your boyfriend afterwards to verify what he says. In fact, through this incident, it can also be seen that your boyfriend has reached a stable period of getting along with you, and he does not treat you as an outsider at all, otherwise there would be no such mistake.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe he has acquiesced to your relationship, or maybe he just wants to bring you over to his friends to have a look, or maybe he doesn't like you very much and just treats you as a friend, or maybe he is embarrassed, or maybe he is waiting for you to confess.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is likely that the other party is a very introverted boy, and it may be because the other party is afraid that you will not fit in, or because the other party wants to get to know you slowly, and it is very likely that the other party is still hesitant about your feelings, so this situation will occur.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is very likely that he is a straight man and does not know that he still needs to confess, or it may be because he thinks that the two are already together and there is no need to confess seriously, at this time you can choose to give him some hints and hints to remind him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There can be multiple explanations for this situation, here are some possible reasons:

    1.Your rejection makes a difference in him: when you reject him, he may have taken a blow and began to realize your existence and worth.

    As a result, he may start working on changing himself and enhancing his charisma and attractiveness to attract your attention. When you have a boyfriend, he may have made these changes and become more attractive and therefore attractive to you again.

    2.His jealousy of your boyfriend: Another possibility is that he feels jealous and upset after seeing that you have a boyfriend.

    He may be starting to realize that he has lost his chance, and it makes him uncomfortable to see you with other men. This emotion may translate into feelings for you, and he may start to take more interest in you as a result.

    3.He's just playing: There's also the possibility that he didn't really like you at first, and that Qiao Ran confessed to you instead because he just wanted to try a relaxed relationship.

    When you reject him, he may go to find someone else, only to find that no one else can replace you. He may be interested in you again because of this, but that doesn't necessarily mean that he really likes you.

    In either case, you need to think seriously about your feelings and relationship with him. If you still have feelings for him and feel that his relationship with you is genuine, you can talk to him. But if you have let go of him and are in a stable relationship with your boyfriend, then you can choose not to respond to his feelings.

    The most important thing is to maintain your principles and happiness.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, he should have liked you from the time you confessed. There are three reasons for this descriptive analysis, 1When you first confessed, the boy actually liked you, but the comparison of your confession suddenly made him have no time to react, so he expressed that he didn't like you, but later he knew that you had a boyfriend, so he became jealous.

    2.Because that boy slowly fell in love with you after you confessed, he may have thought that you would always be his, but he didn't accompany Hui and thought that you would have a boyfriend, so after knowing that you have a boyfriend, he said that he liked you. 3.

    The boy actually likes you all the time, he just doesn't understand his own mind, and when you have a boyfriend, he starts to be jealous again, and confesses to you that he likes you, which shows that the boy is wavering in his decisions and minds. It's a person who doesn't dare to make up his mind easily.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The first one, he will deliberately get close to you. That is, if a guy is interested in a girl, he will deliberately create many opportunities to get close to you. For example, take the initiative to hand you a bowl and chopsticks, take the initiative to hand you a tissue, or take the initiative to run to your side and pull a chair for you after seeing you coming.

    It may seem like a very ordinary enthusiastic behavior, but these behaviors are all trying to get close to you. So how do you judge? Isn't it normal for some people to say?

    Some people are so warm and polite, you only need to judge one thing, that is, if a certain man is more than twice as likely to approach you as someone else during the party, then that person is more than 80% interesting to you, it's as simple as that.

    The second detail is that he doesn't dare to look you in the eye, or to look at you for more than two seconds. Some people say that shouldn't be, right? Some people may just be shy, this is different, as you know, if we are just ordinary friends and have a very open heart, then we can see that there is nothing wrong, or it is normal to chat.

    But once a man, when he is interested in you, he will have an idea that he wants to bubble you and chase you. To put it bluntly, it's like saying such a sentence on the Internet, I treat you as a friend, and you actually want to soak me. After he has such a thought, he doesn't dare to look at your eyes, he is afraid that in the process of looking at him, he will see the little Jiujiu in his heart, so he may avoid your gaze because of his reputation.

    For example, when he is eating, he looks at you, and then you look at him, and he pretends to start picking up the dishes, pretending to wipe his hands with a tissue, avoiding these eyes, which is also a very obvious behavior.

    There is also a third behavior, which is to peek at you when you speak. As we all know, in psychology, there is a phenomenon that if a group of people are laughing, we will unconsciously look at the person we like. That is to say, a man, for example, in the process of partying, he likes to express himself, tell some jokes, or make some funny movements, after he makes these actions, his first reaction may be to take the afterglow to glance at you, he wants to see if the person he cares about the most will notice him.

    Of course, he won't go directly to You Duan, he will use his afterglow to take a look. So if you feel that someone is always glancing at you, then he may be interested in you.

    I talked about some people who may be complaining about this, the three major illusions in life: the phone vibrates, I can kill back, and he likes me. But if you find that a man has these behaviors towards you, it is indeed from his heart that he is interested in you, even if there is only one detail.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is a typical example of not knowing how to cherish when you have it, and knowing its preciousness when you lose it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you still like someone in your heart, but when you learn that she already has her other half and is in a relationship, in this case, whether you should confess to the person you like, I personally think that this cannot be generalized, or you should make the final decision depending on the specific situation.

    First of all, the person you like and your other half have been in love for a long time, and the relationship between the two people is relatively solid, although they like this girl very much, but in this case, they should not confess to each other, because on the one hand, in this case, the relationship between the two of them is relatively strong, even if they confess, there is a high probability that they will be rejected by the other party, especially when they and the person they like are ordinary friends, in this case, Confession will make the relationship between two people very awkward, and it is very likely that two people will not be able to make ordinary friends in the future, so for yourself, instead of confessing to each other, it is better to bury this love in your heart. On the other hand, we must be clear that feelings cannot be forced, in this case to confess to the other party, forcing the other party to be with us, will not only embarrass and embarrass the girl, but also bring trouble or harm to the girl's boyfriend, in terms of feelings, we should not be too selfish, only take into account our own feelings.

    But if the girl you like has just started to fall in love, and the girl lacks enough understanding and emotional foundation for the boyfriend she is talking about, or the girl is in a relationship, but she and her boyfriend have a great conflict emotionally, and the relationship between the two people is about to break down, in this case, I personally think that it is possible to confess to this girl, after all, under such a premise, confess to this girl, Not only will it not cause trouble and trouble to the two of them, but it is also possible to be accepted by this girl and finally pursue the love and happiness of her dreams. Of course, in this case, the confession to this girl must also grasp the right time, and it must be combined with the actual situation, and the confession process must not be too blind and hasty.

    Of course, if you are a more introverted person in terms of personality or your self-esteem is relatively strong, and you lack the courage to express and confess to the other party, then there is no need to deliberately force yourself to confess to the girl you like in this case, no matter whether the relationship between the girl and her boyfriend is strong and happy during the relationship, because we have not adjusted our state and mentality, it is difficult to really impress this girl when she confesses. It's hard to really get what you want.

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