Am I useless if I don t read? Why don t you read anymore?

I think it's better to listen to your mother now! Read the books first, and choose the major you like when you apply for college.

I used to have the same dream as you, if you want to learn painting, you can learn it yourself, if you can be admitted to the ** Academy of Fine Arts, wouldn't it be easier to realize your dream, so you still have to read.

Why don't you read books in this century, let the world be eliminated? Although I don't want to read it either, it would be much better to think more about your parents' hopes for you, and I hope you can look at your parents' nagging with a good attitude.

Born in China, just accept this fact: there is no door, no ticket, no graduation book, it is really useless.

That's not necessarily a matter of character If you're lucky enough you should find your strengths in other areas But so far reading is still more realistic You can study okay So why give up You can completely treat learning as ** art, etc., change the perspective to look at this problem Don't regret it later! I'm in my third year of high school, and I'm basically done, but I still need to fight for the last step, so let's work together

It doesn't help to read the book.

Now that this society is making money, it's the truth, let's find a way to make money.

With a stable income, you can do what you want to do...

Han Han is amazing, that is also after writing "Triple Gate" and winning the first prize in the National Essay Competition.

Guo Jingming knows, it was also a suspension after he was admitted to university and won two essay awards.

What about you? Do you have a skill now? If you have, you can do it. If not, let's wait until then

PS: I would like to send you a word of encouragement——— people who can't go all out to do the work in front of them are not qualified to talk about their dreams! ”

It's good to have your own ideals and pursuits.

But have you thought about it, what will you use to pursue your ideals in the future?

Don't tell me that you can succeed in your creation, your art, you will be like those stars, well, think it's possible.

But think about it yourself according to your actual situation, how likely is this? Do you have such self-confidence?

Now that you have to have money and people to engage in art, I would like to ask you what you have?

Be on the safe side, take care of your studies first, and you yourself said that your grades are good.

When you are successful, then realize your ideals, and then pick up your art.

Your parents will only be good for you.

Calm down, people will always be a little unsatisfactory, look at the problem like this! Authorities are obsessed!

I was born to be useful, you have to remember! Everyone chooses a different path! You have to look up to yourself, you know.

On the one hand, the purpose of reading is to learn the knowledge you like, and on the other hand, it is to learn to be a person.

Sometimes what I understand in learning is not only knowledge, but also how to persist and adapt.

Because in the future, you can't do whatever you want, and give up and run away when you encounter something you don't like?

If you can overcome the current pressure and transform it into the motivation for your future ideals, and when you can gain a foothold in society, you can do what you like, and I believe that your mother will not be angry anymore, and you can be happier, right?

Your idea is very good, but this society is very realistic after all, unless you are a genius, you still have to have a basic stepping stone like a diploma.

I want to learn painting, literary creation, and **. This ideal is good, but the road is difficult. It is true that going to school is not the only way out, but going to school is a better way out.

You are very depressed now because you feel that you are not suitable for studying, but in such a system, if you don't study, you will be excluded by many people. You can live the freedom you want, but you have to think about the consequences of what you do. You also have to think about your parents, what they expect from you, they don't necessarily want you to be able to live like a dog in the world, but also want you to be able to do what you want to do in the world, but sometimes you can't help yourself, try to think of the best of both worlds.

Not necessarily. Be yourself.

Friend, do you only buy books and don't read them?

Congratulations, we are all the same, it can be said that buying books is like a mountain, and reading books is like a thread!

I've solved this problem pretty well, though! Now I can basically read two or three books a month, and the books at the bottom of the box have finally been digested. How to solve it? We have to first analyze and analyze the reasons why it is difficult to execute reading;

There are three mountains that hinder us from studying: no time, difficulty in concentration, and difficulty in persevering;

First of all, when it comes to lack of time, let's say that I am busy with work and study, and I don't play less on my mobile phone every day, but in fact, I don't have a "time budget" for reading;

Second, it's hard to focus, I often read a book for less than 5 minutes, and a new message can pull me into the fragmented information of the phone again, with my head lowered, raised, alas, two hours have passed;

Third, it is difficult to persevere. The feedback cycle of reading a book is long, and the benefits are not immediately apparent. Besides, this thing doesn't look like eating, and it automatically starts to dry when the meal arrives. If there were no hints, it would be difficult for me to actively think of reading a book anyway.

These three mountains are in front of us, and if we don't solve them, it will be super difficult to carry out reading, until in the end, we will be reduced to a person who does not read and think.

So how did I solve it? After a year of painful struggle, I started this ruthless book club.

Find a group of friends who are facing the same problem, get up 1 hour early or 1 hour before going to bed every day, and go to the reading room to read quietly. In this way, we will psychologically set a fixed one-hour time budget for reading every day, and the problem of lack of time will be solved; Everyone is reading books in the online reading room, so you don't have to go all the way to the library, and you can have a focused atmosphere at home; Moreover, the connection** also occupies the mobile phone, without fragmented information interference, and the problem of difficult concentration has been solved. In addition, if you forget to read online, when you are 10 minutes late, you will receive a **reminder, and you will not forget this matter!

Of course, I am still trying to solve the problem of strengthening motivation and positive feedback from reading. Later, I will also help more friends who are facing the same problem, so that reading and thinking for an hour every day will become a habit and lifestyle for everyone.